How the FUCK do I cure premature ejaculation?
I cannot even masturbate to porn for more than a minute now.
What the FUCK happened to me.
How the FUCK do I cure premature ejaculation?
I cannot even masturbate to porn for more than a minute now.
What the FUCK happened to me.
>stop watching porn
>stop masturbating twice a day
>stop masturbating with a deathgrip
>if you actually have sex, use one of those "last longer condoms"
actually horrible advice desu
>mfw spinal injury and haven't came from sex since
Later virgins? Wear your seatbelt and kill drunk drivers
Good advice
>stop watching porn
wouldn't watching porn desensitize me?
>stop masturbating twice a day
wouldn't this desensitize too?
>stop masturbating with a deathgrip
and this too?
I honestly barely masturbate (maybe once a week). Maybe that's my problem.
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what happened?
> cum too soon
> "haha wierd this ever happens I was just so turned on by you"
> finger bang her and lick the pussy
> get hard again but this time able to last longer
Works every time
>Masturbate to porn
Oh my
>Achieves the goal of sex quicker
What's the problem?
i think the porn will jist fuck you up but don't stop masturbating, if you do you'll blam as soon as you touch a vagina
cuck
only think about Jow Forums memes and shitposts while fucking
>cum in pussy
>proceed to lick it
thats disgusting man. are you gay or something?
Do the stuff this guy says to do:
pegym.com
not that you should actually try to get orgasms without cumming. Idk if that even really works. But the exercises he describes are on point and he explains them pretty well. Also, do hindu squats. And stop masturbating to porn more than once a week. If you have to masturbate, masturbate to your imagination and make sure to remain in total control and make it last 30 min+. Eventually you will learn to selectively flex/relax certain pelvic floor muscles in response to certain sensations, and this will allow you to fuck for longer. Also, if you move one leg off to the side, you can doggy fuck almost forever 'cause it takes 100% of the pressure off your prostate. The more pressure a sex position puts on your prostate, the more it will stimulate the orgasm feelings. For example, having a girl ride your cock while sitting in a chair is way harder than pounding away doggy style, and the more you spread your legs apart, the easier it gets.
>how to cum in less than a second
>Doesn't want to impregnate his woman
fag
>not being able do go for a second round
You guys should definitely try nofap. Sure sometimes you cum quite fast but you then just go for a second or even third round. Girls love it.
What, bit too close to home for you?
After a while of doing nofap, I noticed I actually had more control, even if I'd gone a week+ without fapping. It's like some sort of paradoxical effect. I think it's 'cause I care about the orgasm more, so I don't want to waste it by being undisciplined and blowing my load at a stupid moment.
Drunk native blew through a stop sign and T-boned my friends car. GF of 4 years left me 4 months after the accident when I got out of the clamshell brace where it became apparent my sexual prowess did not survive.
That was 5 years ago. Now I work, workout, and cope post on Jow Forums
>How the FUCK do I cure difficulty achieving orgasm?
>I cannot even masturbate to porn for less than an hour now.
>What the FUCK happened to me.
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no good m8, hope you make it
Thanks, reading now.
That fucking slag
nice. Do the exercises diligently for like 6 months and report back.
>Q: Still a virgin?
>A: Yes. Meaning that I can't, not counting some logical suggestions and some experience based (mostly from other people), give you a sound advice when it comes to the sex itself. You have been warned.
kek, now i'm not so sure
All drunk drivers should get 5+ years in prison.
are you on any new medication user? I started an ADHD medication at the stat of the year and I went from taking like half an hour to cum during sex to taking about 1 minute.
Not on any meds.
I was on SSRIs but I'm not on them any more.
Literally this. Alternatively you can eat her out beforehand and make her cum once or twice before you even put your wiener in her. Everything after that is just gravy. It's pretty easy to do just make sure you're in an ergonomic position before you start.
i'm sorry to hear that user.
fucking hell, there's guys on that forum with over 30,000 posts about premature ejaculation
Damn.
Be your best self mate
That's a strange way of saying "the rope"
Keep fucking after you ejaculate, that simple
I don't want to thrust into some disgusting cum-filled pussy
>I honestly barely masturbate (maybe once a week). Maybe that's my problem
OP, listen, you're fucking golden dude, fuck your pre-mature ejaculation problems, you actually are one of the most magestic human beings on the planet if you're only masturbating once a week, and you don't need to worry about any of this dumb shit
here's what you do, DON'T become a porn addict like 95% of the rest of the population, DON'T desensitize your dick (speaking as someone who literally half the time can't even cum in a girl/takes genuinely 20 minutes of blowjob to cum)
You're going to practice the most attractive, by far, the actual cheat code for women, and you're going to be BRUTALLY HONEST and INTEGRITOUS WITH WHO YOU ARE and you're going to TELL THE WOMEN in a way that frames this as a good thing "Hey, look, I don't really masturbate like at all, which is a double edged sword because for lack of a better way of saying it I've got all the cum in the world for you, but you're really hot and I literally don't masturbate at all, so I already know I'm going to blow my load in like 30 seconds flat, so we'll have to give me a 10 minute recharge before we really get into it"
AND GUESS WHAT, SHE'LL FUCKING LOVE IT, YOU'LL CUM LOADS AND LOADS ON HER, AND SHE WILL FEEL LIKE THE GREATEST CUMSLUT EVERY, she will be satisfied because you literally busted 5 nuts in the span of a two hour session, you are going to fuck her brains out
and all you had to do, was stop being a little disengenuous insecure faggot, and literally just tell the girl "Hey, I don't masturbate so I'm going to blow my first load in a minute flat but there are many more to cum"
Girls are going to find this extremely hot, and you are a fucking cut above normal porn addicted young men
brought tears to my eyes
consider a career in life coaching user, I hear it payes well too
>Porn has repeatedly been proven to ruin sexual health and cause complications
>Half the thread saying stop watching porn
>"I'm gonna try masturbating more"
Jow Forums
kek, thanks mate
I swear most people complain about porn causing erectile dysfunction which is basically the opposite of which is happening to me. These people have essentially become fully desensitized by sexual stimuli.
Faggot
this is the post
of a faggot
Is that from wikihow? Wikihow is without a doubt the new experts exchange. Useless shit website should be banned from all search engines.
I have no idea. I've had it saved for ages.
I have read a lot of garbage on wikihow.
Don’t look at porn or masturbate, your only sexual gratification will come from fucking the hell out of a woman. Don’t even go for blowjobs anymore, get a slampig and fuck like mad.
Just 69 i last for hours cause no one can make me cum like that guys or girls
As someone who's potentially recovering from PE (last two times with my girlfriend were both more than 10 minutes, when I'd usually go from less than a minute to two and when I masturbated today I felt it took at least 5 to 10 minutes before I felt I was coming closer to the point I wanna cum), I've got an idea you could try.
I tried everything, kegels, edging, nofap and so on and so on but nothing really helped me. I read up on pegym about a guy who squeezing the glans on his penis daily for like half an hour a day and decided to try this. If you feel like the head of your penis is sensitive as fuck to the point where just touching it triggers your pc muscles, this might help.
Squeeze on the head/glans, not too hard but pretty fast. Do this while watching TV or whatever for like half an hour a day. It might be early to celebrate but at least for me this alone gave me a huge ray of light when loads of other bullshit didn't work.
I really struggled with premature ejaculation when I was younger. It was really embarrassing and seriously hurt my confidence with women. I would cum after literally 5-10 seconds of penetration. I tried everything and none of it helped at all. The only thing I found that worked was to get hammered drunk. Then I could last a couple minutes with a condom on. And this went on for years.
How I coped was basically to start relationships the old fashioned way going on dates and getting to know someone and building trust and friendship before having sex.
This was really difficult because other guys would swoop in and fuck girls I was trying to get as girlfriends. My friends would be like "dude why haven't you fucked her yet"? Etc.
I think the biggest thing I would tell young men that are dealing with this is it is ok. You can still have a really good life. You'll probably never be a pick up artist with 100 notches but if you understand Game, you can get a girlfriend, and it is important to understand women do not care as much about this as men think they do. Your girlfriend will want to make you happy. If you feel guilty and apologize when you have sex it will ruin it for her.
Getting older helps. I'm 35 now. I still can't last as long as I like but I can give my wife orgasms occasionally.
Life is good. Another suggestion would be to convert to a faith that prohibits premarital sex, learn Game, get married, then have tens of thousands of orgasms as you work through this "problem" with a young hot wife.
It is still pretty damn fun.
Sounds good. Do you have a link?
I was just reading this pegym.com
That's good advice, thanks. I just feel like I'm in the position where I can't pursue a relationship because of the anxiety it causes.
>Letting her steal your protein
Never gonne make it
Here's the link my man. It's not too detailed and the guy left the forums after a month or so because it just worked for him.
pegym.com
It is kind of a desensitization routine but I think this is much better than giving yourself death grip. Can't speak about any long term affects since I just started but death grip seems like it would also hurt your erections. This glans squeezing thing is much more gentle ( you aren't supposed to press hard), doesn't seem to affect the sensitivity of the rest of the penis.
My theory is that for my entire life I fapped up to the head but not including ( cut fag) and it might have made my head way more sensitive. When I started having sex, the combination of anxiety and unfamiliar pleasure might have put me in this to begin with. Could be a million of things really, bottom line is I found out the part below my penis head is way too sensitive and I never even realized.
>I just feel like I'm in the position where I can't pursue a relationship because of the anxiety it causes.
I've been there my man. Lied about having sexual experience, lied about other stuff I was feeling insecure about. Not worth it. You are who you are and you need to learn to live with your failures and faults. Shit's fucked and you might get burned along the way but when you find a decent girl that shit doesn't matter as much. Plus, there are always workarounds and shit.
Are you circumcised? Circumcision is one of the leading causes of PE.
Did the Native get off due to Native Privilege. If it happened on a Rez, I guarantee he didn't get punished b/c of muh oppression muh separate country.
Thanks, you're a legend.
I'm uncut.
so how do you actually finger a girl correctly
t. havent had sex in the past 5 years
Imagine you're trying to stuff a chicken
>off SSRIs
>penis begins to work again
>"i don't know why this is happening"
i mean i see porn dudes going fucking HAm on the pussy, but i dont whant to be that guy if you know what i mean
love eating puss tho
I've been on and off them before. I've never had PE like I do now.
he used a condor
Imagine your scratching a record
Don't have to stick anything in
how did he fit that in there?
Imagine you're playing the guitar
Pretty easy, do a "Come here" motion with two fingers on the belly side of her vagina
G spot is located somewhere in there, you'll know if you find it
Semi aggressively, 30% stronger then you penetration, but don't want to get any "Ows", play it by ear.
Play it really really slow, not necessarily the fingering motion aspect, but you want her to be nice and comfortable, no self-doubt or consciousness, you want her to sink deep into the bed/couch and relax, be thoughtless, and just get lost in you finger pounding her pussy so that she squirts all over the place, this is the most important aspect. Play it nice and slow and sensual, smooth talk her with a soothing voice, get her nice and comfortable, then go to town and she'll cum loads
one of my 'friends' drink drives after every night out at the clubs and it fucks me off to all hell, it's one of the only times I'll give out coke is to try and sober him up yet as he wont listen to anyone and is too big to stop.
how do I understand game? what IS game?
>coke
Well, I'd tell you to be a fucking man with some real integrity and violence about you and just beat the fuck out of him for literally not knowing he's endangering other people's lives aswell as his own with fully retarded behavior
but you're a dipshit coke dealer yourself, and morally trash, and honestly nobody gives a fuck about the lot of you
Women are designed to be more emotionally arousable and neurotic then men to stimulate their sexual arousal, women make decisions like sex emotionally, communicate in a masculine dominant EMOTIONALLY RELEVANT sexual way
Girls are horny and bored, show them a good time, and then lead them to a secluded place so they can suck your dick to thank you
Terrible advice. Nofap will make it extremely worse. I 've tried nofap for about 7 months to actually see if theres any benefits to it. It makes you go after almost every female you will see..you will be horny all the time,constant erections even when you talk to some hot chick or even walk past one. Lots of wet dreams. I was at a point where i almost came without touching my penis just by getting a really strong boner in my boxers...
It's tough man. I feel for you. I've been there. Society has become degenerate as fuck. Premarital sex is the norm now so it's way harder than it used to be if you aren't naturally good at sex.
But the truth is if a girl likes everything else about you she won't break up with you (or refuse to date you) if you are bad at sex unless she is a complete slut.
If she's attracted to you she will want to make you happy and if she touches your weiner and you cum in your pants it's ok. She'll like it. She may get frustrated after a while but understand if she does get frustrated it isnt that big of a deal. Women's sexuality is different.
You're looking for an easy fix and there isn't one. Don't desensitize your penis. There's nothing wrong with your penis. It's your brain. And it's ok. It'll get better as you get older and more experienced.
You can't come prematurely if you've already came.
The point isn't to become a horny cunt thinking about sex all the time, but the opposite. You can avoid pulling your dick for as long as you want but it's meaningless if your mindset doesn't change.
Game is the charisma that makes women want to fuck you. Worrying about getting off too soon is putting the cart before the horse.
Find Heartiste's 16 Commandments of poon. There's really good advice there. The only commandment you won't be able to execute is "fuck her good" I forget what number it is. But if you follow the other commandments you'll do well.
when i was like 17 i had a barely legal 16 year old gf with a body of a goddes and a pussy game that made me cum under 5 minutes even with a slow and steady fucking which good for me she loved
we fucked atleast 4 times a day considering it would average 5 minutes, but hey, i came 4 times a day so it felt really good
bad thing is friction and condoms, so after a while i would just hurt her from the constant fucking even if she was wet
pros - fucking all the time, cumming feels good man, if she loves attention its actually not that bad
cons - if shes into hard fucking then your are out of luck, obviously is he doesnt love sex it will be just a chore for her, health
getting drunk also helps leaps, atleast for me
i didnt cum when drunk ever untill she gave in and let me her fuck her ass(and them almost got pregnant cuz i was drunk, and tought i was fucking her in the asss and i didnt), be carefull
You know if you found that dude and ice-picked his spine just right you could make him a paraplegic who would never feel his dick again but you would not have a murder on your conscience either.
Possibly he'd never drink-drive again as a bonus.
You absolutely shouldn't do this, I do not recommend doing it.
Fuck off satan
who said anything about wanting to become a "horny cunt"...thats why i said nofap is a terrible advice because it makes you one..
just keep a chick around to back multiple times a week.
Did you actively shut down thoughts or did you fuel it like every "help me i'm gonna lapse" faggot who comes to fit and posts half naked women?
Do you look at every second woman and think "I'd rail her so hard" or look down on their revealing clothes.
Do you abstain from one night stands and wait until a long term commitment seems plausible or do you go out and find any slam pig that'll jump on your dick.
It's not just "don't touch your dick and you won't be horny", there's a philosophy and thought process behind it.
If you want the energy boost then have a wank every week or two. If you want more than that, you have to do more than not touch your pee pee.
just keep a chick around to bang multiple times a week.
For you.
so you're saying i need to just get drunk and fuck people in the arse? how? grab 'em by the haunches and never let go?
The anti-porn posting is a Christian mom meme.
said the kike.
Kek!
Look up kegels, reverse kegels, and see if you can download Jason Julius' extreme stamina. Learn to stretch your pelvic floor and massage it deeply and slowly for a bit while breathing deep. Breath deep, maybe while practicing with a fifi or something. Breath deep during sex. Zero in on one thing instead of the whole experience if it's coming on too fast. Don't be afraid to take a break and eat her out, finger her, etc..
Countless have been where you're at including me. You got this.
based
>cannot masturbate for more than a minute
Jerking off makes me cum fast too but I can fuck for a good while. The only times I blow fast is when I build for up for a week and she tells me to keep going while leglocking me.
>leglocking
This is retarded and won't work. Women want an orgasm from sex, not your disgusting cum. By saying this all they're hearing is "I can't make you orgasm but I don't mind cause I'll sure as shit will before you even know it."
Saying you're a pre-ejaculator is a HUGE turn off for women. Now what you do is you just keep going. They'll probably ask after why you didn't cum and that's when you tell them that you came in your pants during the foreplay, twice inside her and once when she agreed to come over.
That way she will be satisfied and know she made you satisfied.
What is the definition of fingerbanging?
Is it clit playing or 4-fingers-in-pussy thrusting?
Heard about people cumming without even getting hard while doing L-Sits, even women can orgasm with electrods put on their back.
So despite all the ncbi researchs, there is something in the back that enable you to orgasm but nobody ever studied it?
She leglocked me in doggy style, was honestly surprised (and turned on).
Fucking dropped
Missionary is the only acceptable leg locking position
Tell her she's a whore
unironically nofap