Fucked up family issues from a young age caused me to grow up with my own issues >lack of empathy >extremely hotheaded and prone to outbursts due to bottling shit up
Mom just wants me out of the house and her life at this point, barely talks to me as is due to an equally toxic relationship I could never heal on my own without getting pissed off >sister has below average IQ and is most likely bound to be a fat lazy neet as she gets older
>Rest of my family is fucked to the point where I don’t want to associate or console with any of them when I’m older >I’m talking pedophilia and narcissists
Once I do move out, I don’t know what I’ll have to live it work for personally, I have sports and the gym, and one other hobby that I’d like to pursue but aside from that I feel ill just end up a wagecuck
Hey, at least I’ll be in shape though right :) I expect roasts and people telling me to stop being a bitch, but honestly if anyone had a similar situation growing up, any advice or even experiences would help alot
Fit wont help you bro. Just dont fall into bullshit lookism and nofap garbage to try to fix yourself
Adrian Williams
Id love too but all the therapists in my area are fucking idiots who have no idea what they are talking about and will just try to sell you anti depressants till you’re broke, and the good ones charge a shitload of cash per hour, and I couldn’t see myself being able to afford multiple sessions
Nicholas Martinez
Honestly who gives a shit. Seriously who gives an honest shit. Do what you want and don’t worry about other people who refuse to get helped. You can’t always control everything and you can’t always control everyone. It is what it is. Block everyone and everything that bothers you out of your life. Only the real and true family members and friends are going to reach out to you when your gone. Don’t worry about things you don’t have control over. Let fate work it’s magic. Not everyone gets lucky in this life but at the same time you have to put in a lot effort to make sure you don’t end up stuck and miserable. SAVE SAVE SAVE EVERY FUCKING PENNY. DONT JERK OFF. DONT SMOKE OR DRINK. I promise that your sacrifices will pay off in the end.
Gavin Bell
I don't understand, you're a NEET who is mad that your mom doesn't want you leeching off of her anymore? how old are you?
Julian Scott
Bye bye sweetie
Justin Clark
Thank you, this actually helped quite a bit, I really shouldn’t give a fuck about the fucked up people and just move on
Angel Parker
tough. you'll manage, but i dont have any sympathy for trump supporters
Oliver Gutierrez
Where did I say supported trump?? I’m Canadian
Jaxon Hughes
If you already tried to help them and failed than let it be. If you didn’t bother to help them and you keep observing how “fucked up” they are, let it be let it happen. Don’t worry about other people. Worry about yourself first. You can’t control what other people think and you can’t control how they behave. Try all you want but you can’t change a person. Even if you succeed they will still find a way to go back to their old ways and to their old habits. Don’t worry about how “fucked up” your family is. START worrying about how you’re going to support yourself starting right now today
Eli Wood
>extremely hotheaded and prone to outbursts worst type of person, kindly stop interacting with the general public
Jordan Howard
>le special snowflake >muh problem so uniqqqqqqqqqueeeeeeeeee
get a shitty retail job,work 40 hours, leave your moms basement study part time online or at a community college withno tuition, meet a therapist and keep on going to the gym
Gavin Morales
>rent a cheap room that’s affordable >make sure rent takes up around 1/3rd or less of what you’re making at your wage slave wage cuck job >go to your local community college and apply for every financial aid available >go to college for free cause little to no income >receive at least an associates or bachelors >apply to better paying wage slave wage cuck jobs >pay a shit ton of income tax cause higher paying salary >go bald from years of financial stress and from mentally suffocating everyday >commit suicide cause so much time already passed
Just fucking abandon em all, forge your own shit, remove any and all adictions you can, make new pals, get a good job, never quit trying. There isnt anything else to do but keep moving forwards, so do that. Keep fucking going.
Living in house with mom for 30 years. Dad was a crack head used to fuck monkeys here left to florida fucks whales. Ive grown resentment towards family workout constantly to keep pain away. The cold iron tells no lies. Ive been puttin cum in everybodys food.
Aaron Johnson
first step, murder the pedophiles. next step, imrpove until you're not a failure. really not much else you can do. also stop posting your fucking blog here
Carson Jackson
Why are there so many posters from broken families here? I get it that it's a website of failures, but there are multiple ways to become a failure, yet everyone here seems to have that one. Thank god my parents were supportive along the entire way, and I made it out as a success, although it could've gone badly just as easily.
Blake Lopez
No self-respecting person would willingly just come to Jow Forums and binge on anonymous advice or find any conversation here stimulating. We're all gonna make it, but we're all fucked up.
Cooper Lee
Jow Forums is kinda addictive tho. I keep going back here whenever I have some free time and nothing better to do
Nicholas Russell
i dont have the same issues as you but i am a complete fucking failure and constantly feeling like it hinders me in the gym so hard
going feels pointless, failing a set feels devastating, having a good session feels like nothing when i get back to my shit house and shit job and shit life
Luis Bailey
so you have been to every single therapist in your area? get a job and pay for the good ones if you genuinely believe this
John Young
my parents literally just left me and my sister at 15 and never looked back
Leo Morris
So get a job, move out, and stop hanging out with people that "think you are a failure". Doesn't even really matter what this job is since you could just work it for a few months then look for another if you hate it. The only person that can make you stop being a failure is you.
Adam Bell
Don't care at all.
I went off the rails pretty early. I can't really imagine a way of making it as a financial success even if i went back in time. Other than knowing about bitcoin etc.
After 25. Genuinely it doesn't bother me at all. My friends respect me for my achievements.
Carter Wilson
Op, I'm gonna try to give you some unironic advice. I know Jordan Peterson is basically a meme at this point, but remember, he's a clinical psychologist. You can basically yearn the tips and tricks he uses to help people for free, online. Go watch some of his lectures and wrap your mind around what he's saying. I'm not saying his philosophy doesn't have its downfalls, but it's a damn good stepping stone to achieve your independence.
On the other hand, here's a good game plan that I can see
>Get a job that eats your hours so you aren't home most of the time >Save the money, spend any free time at the gym. Anywhere away from home. >Do this for 6 month, now you have a chunk of cash. Get an apartment, don't spend any more than 800 per month. >Join the reserves to get a base pay, then go to school for a diploma program. 2 years max, and in something employable. Petroleum, electrical, etc is good. >Keep grinding through it, finish and go get a big boy job. >Find a nice girl, start a family and do your best to ensure that the home environment that you create fosters greatness in your kids.
This is the only way we can find fulfillment. I'm sorry lads, but everything else is a bandaid solution. Men are made for this, we fall apart without responsibility.
Take care of yourself, brother. Hope it all works out.
I’d join the military. Join the Navy and become a Corpsman.
In 4 years you’ll have money in the bank, a skill set that is worth $75,000/y, higher education opportunities, and you’ll have distanced yourself from that shit family.
David Reed
This. It's kinda sad to see it in real life too >see a childhood friend after a long time >almost first question from him is "are your parents still together?" >I was like "... :D wtf, of course they are" >his face after that was like he saw a pink unicorn It's kinda sad. We truly live in a clown world.
