Anyway to prevent ED?

I've tried nofap, and it doesn't work at least not for me. I'm Bisexual and fucked a lot of dudes in my teens. I always had trouble getting it up, at least the first few times i fucked someone. I finally fucked a woman, and still had the same problem. Is this just my fate?

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haha imagine

I've never had sex. When you say you had trouble getting it up, what's that like if you're there with another person?
Like what do you do in that moment?

Honestly, I had the problem for the longest time until I started falling with lube, and cumming from sex. I literally never came from sex until recently, then it finally just clicked now I want to fuck everything

I usually just tell them, you don't want them to think there not attractive. People are very understanding usually. You just have to make up for it by giving good oral and cuddles and kisses

Falling with lube? Lube helps a little but is really annoying

So what do you say? I have ED wait a minute until it goes up? How do you get it to finally go up?

Have sex

I would if I could.

It's weird, YOU CAN NOT FORCE IT. The best thing to do is relax. If it doesnt go up it doesn't go up, come to turns with that. Learn what turns you on, and ask the other person to do that.

Go to a doctor lmao

Doctor told me to go to a counselor, counselor told me I have performance anxiety. I dont really feel anxious though

What if the things that turn me on are highly specific, idiosyncratic, and weird.

You clarified "at least the first few times". If you have no erectile dysfunction after you know someone, that would be a rare case of psychogenic. But in that case, the solution is already known and available.
Otherwise go to more doctors until someone takes you seriously.
Blaming it on the psyche isn't based on any science - erectile dysfunction effectively almost always has a large underlying physiological component UNLESS the person already knows the psychogenic component anyway. The litmus test is whether you can consistently achieve a strong erection by masturbation

I'm the same way bro, I feel like that may be the cause. Honestly I like getting my face sat on more than fucking someone lmao

Yea I guess it starts to go away as I get to know someone, it's still an underlying problem. It takes me a long time to masturbate like 30 minutes. But I can always cum if I masturbate

My boner comes and goes in certain positions that aren't very stimulating, particularly during group sex--just more pressure, I guess.
If I feel myself softening up, I generally pull out and switch to manual g-spot stim or over-the-top oral (with lots of long licks and bites.) No one seems to mind a bit.
After they've come, then usually say "what about you?" and I act like I don't really need to cum, but they're certainly welcome to make out with my dick a bit.
Generally, once two women are nibbling on my cock, it comes to life again, so I can finish.

TL;DR: Switch to using your hands and mouth.

t.35yo

ED comes from nofap, I'm sure you've heard the phrase "use it or lose it".

Haven't made a woman cum yet, but my friend was telling me you have to keep a rhythm up for a while. Thats why I was a little apprehensive, to switch between fucking and oral. I basically just fucked her for like 30 seconds pushing rope hoping to get an erection, and then ate her out for a long ass time, I did the same thing again and then she had to go.

Virgin here.
Do girls let you like slap their thighs and ass while you are humping them? Because that's what I'd want to do to stay hard but not sure if you can do that.

Why is no one commenting on this faggots ass

Where can I find a boy like this no homo

Perhaps your fate is to be a power bottom, my dude.

I was baffled still trying to think of what to say

In theory yes, but I can imagine your autistic ass just slapping them multiple times in the same place with your autism strength, while you just fuck way too hard

What's wrong with slapping in the same place multiple times?
The whole point is to create a jiggle effect.

how would you like some ape man fucking you and constantly slapping your ass in the same place, shit would hurt

Unironically , Do kegel exercises, you'll get hard easier and stronger erections

I mean not slapping hard enough to hurt just something to smack.
IDK I really don't think I could maintain a boner unless I was smacking their butt or legs while going in and out. I need to just grab somthing with my hands

Does just doing the kegels help or do I have to do the kegels while im fuckin

Yeah start unironically not jerking off a few days before you plan to fuck. Also, depending on how well you plan, wire your brain by jerking it to her pictures

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Yea I already do this, I don't buy the wire your brain thing though. I think thats pretty dumb

Sauce on this twink? I want to lick his boipussy

I've always had the same thing. First time with a new partner would be a failure, either limp dick or no cum.

My wild guess is that cardio training could solve this. Limp dick from being nervous about the new partner feels like limp dick from being tired and/or using uncomfortable position.

This user gets it though. You should try to relax, not rush and somehow make the partner do what turns you on. Unfortunately, girls don't seem to understand that when they see limp dick they should turn on their turboslut mode with deepthroats and titjobs and all stuff like that.