>friend reveals that he has feelings for me >turn him down >brings them up again a few weeks later >turn him down again >he asks me out a third time a few hours ago >just finished a long, heated argument with him >he wants me to give him a chance, but I want to be with someone I love (inb4 Chad "jokes") >everything I say to him that doesn't amount to "I love you too and I would be glad to be your girlfriend" just makes him more upset
I am incredibly stressed and frustrated and I don't know whether I'm angrier with him for being a jerk or myself for hurting him. I don't know how to end this. I wish that nobody ever fell in love with anybody.
Honestly I know it's stressful but you did the right thing by being upfront. It's not your fault he's child who can't handle rejection. Tell him if he can't respect your boundaries you can't be friends with him anymore if he keeps acting like this
Lucas Torres
Fuck him then dump him. Cut all communication and act like he doesnt exist. Post results
Joseph Nguyen
It should be illegal to have free will as a woman.
Imagine this: You're best friends with Chad. You had a class together, spent plenty of time with him, and have talked countless times. Not only is his personality extremely appealing to you, he is also very attractive to you. One day, you go up to Chad and confess your feelings for him, and he just says "Nah, I'd rather just go with Stacy since she's way better looking than you. You can still be my friend and worship me from afar, though."
This is what so many guys go through all the fucking time. I know it's not fair to impose this double standard on you, but maybe take one second of your useless life to empathize with someone. I'm not saying bend over and let him fuck you, either, but for fucks sake just give him a chance. Go on a couple of dates or something, then if you haven't clicked, dump him. It's that fucking simple and the whole "friendzone" bullshit would end forever if girls just gave guys like this one modicum of a chance.
Bentley Martinez
You didn't do anything wrong. He needs to learn to handle rejection.
Aiden Price
You should go on a pseudo date with him, then invite Chad or Tyrone and make out in front of him, put him in his place once and for all, cuck him so hard he stop sexualising you once and for all.
You told him no once and instead of understanding he keeps bothering you. You may think im memeing but you should really cuck him before he gets more obsessed with you, you'll never know what hes gonna do next if you keep turning him down, abduct you? put some bars on your drink?
Some guys dont take no for an answer and will go to extreme lenghts to get what they want, keep that in mind.
Would you go out with someone you find physically repulsive just to give him/her a chance?
Thomas Hughes
Yeah, since I'm not a complete superficial bitch. Maybe you'll really click on a romantic level or something. Also my standards are pretty fucking low, so it's probably false equivalency levels of difference here.
Hunter Sanders
Do not do this. You never know what someone is truly capable of and you never know what is going on in their mind. Doing this could cause him to snap
Levi Robinson
Stop whiteknighting bitchy girls
Ayden Gutierrez
Yeah same here. I've dated girls waay out of my league, but I would never pass up an opportunity, even if that person is physically inferior to me. I really don't care. I look at it from a natural standpoint. If you are capable of being the mother of my children, and you are a good girl, then in my eyes, you are the best girl. It's not a matter of being "repulsive" then. Love is love. These stuck up bitches just haven't figured that out. I for one don't even think that these bitches know what love is.
Tyler Gray
>has friends >is female >complains to males with no friends fuck right off with that normalfag shit get sympathy from selfish retards like you on reddit if you want
Sebastian Gray
>inb4 Chad "jokes"
So why aren't you attracted to him?
Jace Torres
You originally fucked up by believing that a platonic relationship is possible. This is always the outcome and you are dumb for not seeing it coming.
Samuel Johnson
Find out if he is a virgin if yes fuck him so he does to end in this shithole with us
>positive reinforcement >muh white knight you incel
Henry Sullivan
Biofemanoid breeder unit, the fact that he hasn't forced you to submit clearly indicates he is not of the prime genetic stock the future generations need. Until he rapes you, you are correct to deny him a relationship with you. After he dicks you forcibly, however, you must simply submit as your sexual determination demands.
Charles Watson
I wish more girls were up front like that. Maybe guys wouldn't orbit of most girls didnt lead guys on by not formally rejecting them. At least she shows some respect by meeting his honesty with her own honesty. Most roasties dont understand honesty or respect.
thats entitled as fuck lmao. im a guy and ive been through the same thing as op. it felt bad, i didnt want to hurt anyone, but i didnt want to date someone i wasnt interested in either. if i did it would feel like i was just leading him on.
William Perry
if he's that kind of person, why are you friends with him? also have you tried telling him that you don't find him physically attractive?
also fuck women
Landon Mitchell
you fucking bitch go back to tumbler you filthy whore
Angel Powell
>unironically uses the term incel as an insult back to twitter with you
Why people like you exist? I mean there's nothing wrong with what you're doing, you don't have to be with someone you don't want to but the problem here is the fact that you're coming here to tell us that as if we can relate to your stacy issues, the majority of us are on the other side of the coin so when you come here and make threads like this is almost like you want to rub salt in our wounds, when you are in our board, the place we come to relax or vent or connect with others. Go unironically fuck yourself, take your issues to Jow Forums.
this, i really hope he snaps and rapes you and kill you in the process
Ayden Kelly
Would you prefer if she said yes, and then living in a one-sided relationship just out of respect? Would you really want that for the dude, or do you want him to find actual love?
OP did nothing wrong. The guy is an imbecile who is more interested in the ideal of having a gf than actually being in a two-way relationship.
"Can we still be friends?" No bitch, that's not how it works. You either go out with him or cut ties, no guy ever likes "still being friends", it's painfull and humiliating.
kill yourself stupid whore, all you want is attention from him, but when he asks you out you realize you have to give him attention too, and you come here and complain?
Jace Young
Ah yes, the problems of 15 year olds
Jack Smith
Little anecdotes like this really do reinforce the hellish reality we live in. Like, this is just how females are. Can't change the fucked up slurry of brain chemicals that drives procreation. And a man can't help having feelings for these succubi. One of these days I'll work up the courage to kill myself
Cooper Hall
You need to tell him to stop and then cut contact. It has always been like this and he will never stop to try to get you in a relationship. This is how humans are. If he is clever then he ends the friendship before you can. It did it like this. If
Jacob Young
Fucking this. Give him his chance and if it doesnt work out and he's still a whiney faggot then at least you can say you tried.
I don't know if I can answer this question honestly without coming across as a coldhearted, stuck-up bitch. If my response pisses you off, all I have to say is "You asked."
I'm not lacking for male attention. I have people develop feelings for me on a fairly regular basis, and I expect that trend to continue in the future. I don't want to force myself to date someone that I have no romantic connection with when it's very much possible that I can find someone I'm truly in love with.
And no, he's not that bad of a catch. He makes good money, is a good guy, has pretty decent looks. I just don't feel a romantic connection to him, which I know is opening myself up to shitty comments about how I'd feel a connection to Chads or people with big cocks, but meh. Misogynists aren't known for being rational
Alexander Robinson
speaking from experience i've had this happen a lot too. for me i found it to be a little challenging to find genuine friends who are guys that didn't end up crushing on me. there's this one guy i was getting along with and thought was my friend until we hung out at an after party and i got so drunk he had initiated sex with me i think, i can't recall it at all. and then i came to when we were on the way getting breakfast and i found out what happened later when we stopped by his place. then he confessed his feelings for me and wanted to be bf/gf even though he knew i was still fucked up from my last relationship.
despite it being rapey i kind of tried to be forgiving, we were both drunk apparently that night. but when we hung out again it wasn't the same and he made a big deal about not being able to be friends with me. I tried to use some logical stuff saying "well i would be a friend and support you if you got a gf" and he was like yeah you're right. i've kind of avoided him now because he got me thinking it's probably for the best we don't associate with eachother. he also has the stuff like a good job, good lucks, seemed nice but i just didn't find a spark, i'm not looking. he just tagged me in a meme too. i just hope he doesn't write a song about me.
