>tfw it's summer, and i see 10/10 girls every single day >but what's the point when i'm a 35 year old khv, with low income, that's a manlet and unattractive >have no friends, no social skills >poor and live with parents in the suburbs >been more depressed lately and haven't gone to the gym in over a month how do i make it Jow Forums?
things i've tried >improv classes did this last year. i could do the word association type games. but anything involving exaggerating my emotions or scenes where i needed to talk to people was impossible for me. i don't know how to show anger, fear or anything without it seeming tryhard and forced. and i couldn't think of ways to continue conversations in scenes
>dance classes been going for a year, pretty consistently. i don't have friends from it. see other guys chatting with girls during their dances. or chatting with people after class. but i don't say a thing, what do i even talk about. been to social dance nights and find it hard to ask people to dance because i'm not a good dancer. i see other guys having girls come up to them
>rock climbing been to a bouldering gym, but never made any friends or talked to anyone there
>seeing a counselor they just gave me suggestions like, hang by the office water cooler more. or invite yourself to sit with coworkers at the lunch room. and make an effort to say hi to people and ask how they're doing the problem is, no one wants to talk to me. and i can recognize it, so why bother them. if i was invited to sit with coworkers i would, and asking their group if i could sit with them sounds sad
>had distant relatives near my age over recently >we pretty much sat in silence for a couple of hours then they left how do i stop being so autistic and turn my life around?
You can’t even find a fat or ugly girl to fuck? Just do it to lose your virginity and gain some confidence.
Easton Wood
move out, get a decent job. go drinking & do fun shit, which hopefully gives u some things to talk to people about. though maybe u are on spectrum actually? never know
Grayson Williams
>35 y/o lives with parents >posting weeb shit image lol
Levi Taylor
ah my favorite Asian from Toronto
Get on gear. I started test and my life became better.
Wyatt Baker
he probably will. prime suicide demographics are 40+ year old males who haven't "made it." they realize their life is over and there's no real hope for the future. teen suicides are completely overblown, the biggest suicide group has always been failed older men.
Jackson Young
>implying any of us weebs want a 3DPD nip bug-eyed freak
also u need to just make friends with ppl, including women. thats kinda how u gain access to more women if u think about it, since u know her, her friends will trust u more just from that
Colton Perez
well just think about what kind of "image" u make when u are 35yo who lives with his parents. just based of this people will have impression that u are a weird person. im just a 21 yo kid tho so maybe i am providing u bad advice idk
Sebastian Flores
>i'm not a good dancer. I'm good during classes imo, but actually dancing is harder And I'm at the same level or better than those in the classes I take who have been dancing the same amount of time as me
Disregard this post, PPL is NOT a good routine for making friends
Jaxson Richardson
you don't need to present yourself as a 35yo who lives with his parents tho
Isaiah Evans
but it will inevitably be revealed unless u try to lie to ppl
Michael Wood
I've gone to maybe 5 meetings in the past two years
I spoke once and gave a 4-6 minute introduction speech, I didn't think it was good, it was short, there isn't much to say about me
My next speech is supposed to be on a topic of my choosing,. But I don't know what to talk about Everyone seems to have some motivational story to tell and some adversity and lesson learned
I don't have that
But I do want to go to more meetings. Thinking of just signing up to do a speech, just to force myself to come up with a topic
is that user right? are you in toronto? because honestly one of the best things you can possibly do is to leave toronto. the cost of living and low salaries means it's nearly impossible to make it.
Joseph Edwards
To be clear, the next speech I do can be on any topic. But from the meetings I've been to, most speeches are the motivational kind
Michael Scott
1.delete your porn/hot chick folder. no one will respect you until you respect yourself.
2. move out from your parents at ANY cost. even if it means eating beans and rice and living in a small disgusting shit hole. you will never become an adult as long as you live wtih your parents.
3. get in the routine of going out for drinks a couple of nights every month. this might get you out off your shell a bit and start socializing.
Joshua Evans
good advice
Grayson Thomas
leaving toronto for the usa was the best life decision I ever made. so much more fucking money and so much cheaper cost of living at the same time. I would prefer to live in vancouver or toronto to america but the price of living there is just retarded.
Joshua James
the problem with oldfags such as yourself is that you are so set in your ways and very hard to change. you can still make it but it will take tremendous effort.
Grayson Rivera
>falling for 'women' meme You're not gonna make it.
Nathan Phillips
I realized recently that there are about 6 hobbies I care about and everything good that ever happened to me socially happened because I made friends via those hobbies. I'm in a similar rut in life but I think I'll get out of it by doing this again.
The main problems I see with your shit is, rock climbing and dancing are cool but leave no room for commentary, and improv is just commentary without any persistent core to make commentary /about/. None of those are going to be things that let you express a personality.
Xavier Jackson
I am in the same in the same situation you are in at 27, except I haven't tried doing as many things as you have.
I've been improving thought, getting into, bants from co-workers, but still no friends. I'm thinking of studying abroad in Japan next semester but I'm afraid I'll feel even lonelier thousands of miles away from what little family I have.
Anyway, if the normies won't let us into their social circle then us autists just need to make our own.
If you live in Arizona, I'll be your gym buddy/wing man.
