Why do men still watch porn if they're getting sex on the regular? My bf watches hours of it every single day even though we're having sex and I'm willing to try out the things he's into. I know it's natural that he would get bored of the same pussy but it's only been a month so far, so it's still hurtful. He says he's attracted to me but it's obvious he's way more attracted to pornstars and it feels like he's being disloyal to me. Why doesn't he just admit he would rather be having sex with someone else the whole time than with me.
Why do men still watch porn if they're getting sex on the regular...
Luis Cox
Angel Wilson
If your boyfriend is watching several hours a day he's got a problem.
Normal dudes (usually) watch porn because they don't want to bother you for sex.
>inb4 But I'd let him have sex with me whenever he wants!
Having someone reluctantly indulge you is worse than just doing it on your own. Many if not most guys would rather jerk off than have sex with a girl who's unenthusiastic about it. Besides, at that point you're really just using her to jerk off anyways.
Joshua Thompson
i dont watch porn and i dont have gf
what do i win?
Gabriel Lopez
I'm horny a lot too and am accommodating and enthusiastic when we have sex. But he wants porn to be part of our sexual relationship when I'd rather he keep that stuff away from me and just fap to it in private or whatever. Porn is one thing, an actual sexual relationship with a irl partner is another.
I agree most guys use porn if they're single or don't want to bother their partner for sex, but if anything I'm asking him for sex more than he asks me. Sometimes he'll put it on before or during sex and it pisses me off. It's like he's telling me I can't arouse him enough, even though he has a boner most of the time around me.
Juan Perez
Also I feel like he's trying to weaponize it and make me feel bad about myself. I literally wouldn't care if he wasn't always talking about it, watching it, or just finished watching it. I think he has an addiction but he's in complete denial and is going to pull the 'you're just jealous and unattractive' card if I bring it up with him.
John Jackson
>Sometimes he'll put it on before or during sex
I'd say at that point it's very reasonable to be upset. I'm sure he'd feel just as hurt if you did that to him. There are definitely couples who enjoy sharing porn as part of their relationship, but that really doesn't sound like what he's trying to do.
>'you're just jealous and unattractive'
Has he said something to that effect before or are you just assuming this? If he's said that you really shouldn't bother wasting your time on him.
Gabriel Kelly
I don't have a gf, but I'm still I'd still jack off if I did. Sex seems like a lot of pressure and I don't know if I could handle it all the time.
David Rivera
*sure i'd still
tard
Levi Myers
>Sometimes he'll put it on before or during sex and it pisses me off.
>is going to pull the 'you're just jealous and unattractive' card if I bring it up with him
This is going to require some will power on your part but, you're going to have to ignore him watching the porn
AND you're going to have to start watching porn
try to find something that makes him uncomfortable, AMWF, BMWF, cuck, big dicks idk w/e bothers him most and makes him feel insecure maybe you just watch yaoi or something during
and you insist that you watch this whenever y'all are intimate together
ideally this would end in some kind of no porn agreement but there is room to backfire on you
David Clark
>Why do men still watch porn if they're getting sex on the regular?
because porn is a literal drug
Brody Cox
>hours of porn
That seems very weird and unhealthy
Austin Powell
This is such a funny idea. Honestly, BMWF and cuckold porn is gross to me but it'd be interesting to see his reaction.
Honestly though, I have the impression he's something of a psychological sadist and I'm getting tired of playing these games with him. I think it might be better to just dump him before I get more attached down the line and it's harder to let go. I really liked him in other ways though, it's a shame. He won't even conceal his porn habits from me. It's like he enjoys shoving them in my face.
Wyatt Fisher
based and banterpilled
Luke Turner
>putting on porn before/during sex
lol thats a little disrespectful
Caleb Butler
>femanon
>has a boyfriend
>has sex
>is complaining about porn
WHEN WILL IT END?
Thomas Kelly
Cuz you'll never be porn
Parker Nelson
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Mason Bennett
Have you tried having a real hard talk and sharing your insecurities with him? Be as compassionate and direct as possible to him, in a normal semi-serious tone of voice, but not angry. I would recommend you to first write down and memorise the whole speech so you can say it in one go without showing weakness and uncertainty to him.
If he puts you down, refuses to cooporate or work his way around with no regard for your feelings then i think you should consider breaking up.
From the way you are saying the dude clearly has some porn addiction going on.
Asher Sanders
I go to the greatest lengths to keep my porn away from my GF because of precisely the reasons you describe. Sorry to hear that OP. He has some kinda hypersexual problem tho.
Sebastian Young
You need to understand it's seriously not about you and that he simply lives in an age with infinite access to whatever porn he wants to see. It's just about impossible for a man to resist completely, it doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you or doesn't want to be with you in real life.
Watching hours a day does seem extreme though.
Dylan Brooks
I don't feel the need to watch porn when I have a gf, the real girl is way better than some pixels.
Your bf has a serious problem