Ok bots, about 6 months ago, I cut contact with my last 3 "friends." Cut to Monday, one of them texts me out of the blue, image related. I've asked a few people and they've said that I was way too harsh and autistic with that last message. I really want to know why she texted me in the first place.
What do? Is there any way for me to recover this and figure this out? Some suggested saying that I was drunk at the time, so maybe I could do that.
Are you that fucking retarded you cant handle a friendship
Yes, I am. That's why I'm here
are you a fembot ? or what ?, I need to know
Why don't you want social connections? Maybe some sort of therapy might help with that. The way you reacted to that person is not normal. Despite what you probably believe, people might care about you.
Is there a valid reason you cut contact with them or are you just a self isolating retard?
Not a fembot
I cut them out because I felt increasingly distant from them, even when we would go out and do things. Four of us would go out, but instead of a group of 4, it was more like 3 + 1.
I'm sure they were sad/shocked when I just dropped off the face of the earth to them. But there's this voice in the back of my head saying that they laughed at me and said "good riddance." When she texted me, the first thought to go through my head was "she wants something from me," so I don't really know what to think.
Just let it go user you're not really built for socializing
Hopefully it's just a phase cuz otherwise you'll end up a 30 year old something using a loli avatar in whatever communocation app is trendy talking about cartoons and videogames with people almost half your age
your gut feeling probably isnt wrong. if they feel fake they most likely are...
So it was for no reason? Good job, you're retarded.
You know what? I'm gonna see what's up and try to get her to respond. I know you're just saying to give it up but it's eating me up.
You're probably right. I'm not going to lie, I'm filled with remorse about it, and I've thought about texting them first.
Just watching this thread for some reason.
People here are acting like your retarded but I don't see anything wrong. You're just being blunt. If you cut ties because the relationship was distancing, then so be it. People in here are acting like little bitches when someone is actually direct about something. Btfo.
I want to make a last sentence that has the same meaning as "what do you need me for?" but I don't want it to be exactly that.
Don't pussy out with a fake excuse. Be straight up with people.
literally just
>so what's up?
or
>what did you want to talk about?
gives them a chance to say whatever they wanted
>oh jeez
Cringe. It sounds like youre doubting yourself
How about asking her why she contacted you?
You have some serious issues. You should talk to someone and get professional help.
Just apologize for being an idiot, be honest
im not saying "give up" , just that maybe you actually did the right thing. if there wanst anyting wrong with the friendship you wouldnt even consider breaking it up.
that being said, if youre just insecure and paranoid, we cant actually help you. one of your friends has to recognize it, take it into account and help you out.
might be the one texting "hey, how are you"
So maybe something like "Sorry for being rather blunt. What did you want to talk about?" Is that somewhat better?
Remember where you are
>sorry
Stop apologizing/overthinking.
Just say
>what did you want to talk about
>Why don't you want social connections? Maybe some sort of therapy might help with that.
fuck right off back to re ddit you fucking normalnigger i hate you
Say I'm sorry. I'm tottaly socially awkward. I meant leave me a message with what you wanted to talk about. I was really tired then. My other awkward friend is helping me explain what I meant. Sorry, that soubded really mean.
let's see how this goes. Doubt we'll get a response today, though
u must be female and they want to fuck u
enjoy being treated like used goods you fucking whore
If you just explain you are socially inept and apologize. You will solve a lot of problems with a lot of people.
I'm a certified penis owner, though, do you want to see it?
Don't ever apologize for anything. People see that as weakness, and they hate weakness.
It's ok if you don't want to be friends with them and come across as abrasive and rude. When you break off contact for a long time and they reach out, and you just dont fucking want them anymore, you may as well be snappy to communicate whatever discontent made you stop talking to them in the first place.
I get texts like this from my mother and a few other family members a couple times a year. You're doing just fine user. Fuck people.
>still no answer 20 mins after you answered
>STILL nothing a full fucking 10 hours later
yeah don't bother user, you don't have to do this to yourself lol
A lot of assholes in this thread want OP to feel bad. I agree with the guy who said your gut is probably right. They may have been fake or spineless "friends" who just want something from you. Feeling remorseful after being blunt is human I suppose and it shows you have a good heart, but don't second-guess your intuition or gut. There must be a sound reason why you let them drop from your life. I recommend toughing it out and stay distant. I broke up with a friend via email and he wasnt expecting it. His response exposed some traits I knew I didn't want to tolerate in a friend. I was worried of running into the guy for a year or so but it's better now. I happened to see him once in passing and one glance at him just confirmed that how I felt about him was correct. He looked mad cause I said some true shit that broke him down.
A wee bit melodramatic but I guess it's better than crawling back and less mean than just not replying. She'll get over it and leave you alone hopefully
WE GOT A RESPONSE BOYS
There's more but it's a hassle to screen shot and transfer it, but thank you boys for helping out here. I can handle it now.
Letting go of friends is natural and can be a sign that you are maturing emotionally or spiritually. The guys trying to tell you that you have a serious problem are the type of dead-weight friends that will be blindsided when one of their friends decides to cut it off. People hate to see others rise above their dysfunction and move on without them to better things. They will play mind games and try to make you come back. Toxic people
If you aren't just looking for attention you would have blocked her. Stop being a retard trying to earn depression points with the girl you orbit
I see you can't read, do you need someone to read the words for you, you caveman?
kill yourself you weak attention faggot. dont come back.
This whole thing just speaks to me a lot, same thing happened to me and I handled it the exact same, I cut ties with my 3 only friends, one of them being my best friend because I was beginning to feel distant from them, they'd do shit that that I wouldn't find any joy in, they would share moments in which I was not present, at the end I messaged my best friend exactly like OP, but explaining that we should part ways
OP are you Stoic
Just say "My life is better without you in it, don't speak to me again" and be done with it. The reason people come back because they want attention and you give it to them, and you are not clear that you absolutely don't want to talk to them.
He's not a virgin, so unfortunately, no.