Have you really actually TRIED getting a gf?

If you have to change and compromise, then you're not in a relationship with someone who likes you for who you are, so yeah it's obvious the relationship won't last long if you don't meet their demands. Even if you do, it'll still be hollow and always teetering on collapse if you ever be yourself.

A nightclub

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>you're not in a relationship with someone who likes you for who you are

It's possible for someone to like you for who you are, but still be annoyed by some of your habits or mannerisms. But retards here can only think in terms of one extreme or another.

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>posts video of the asian robot who asked out over 1,000 women on video
>not one date
JUST BEE URSELF. HAVE CONFIDENCE AND WOMEN WILL FLOCK YO YOU (if you're a 10/10 male 6'3 and shredded."

yes. now fuck off, you kike.

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If she doesn't want to suck your dick or put in effort to spend time with you she's not worth it.

What is a man but a collection of habits and mannerisms?

no. why would you want a girlfriend anyways. such a pain. just get a daki and an onahole and you're set

The edit is better. Chad is on the couch texting

A girl actually asked me out once who I really liked so I said yes but she did it very publicly and as soon as we became an item I felt too shy and confused to say anything to her at all and after a couple of weeks she had a friend call it off to me for her. As soon as she asked me out I felt like it wasnt about me and her anymore and I lost all my ability to talk to her honestly and had to retreat back into my protective mask because now I had to consider all of her friends and my friends and everyone in between and I just couldnt be myself with her anymore. Maybe if I had let her in on how fucked up I was deep down earlier it could have worked out better but I didnt and I hate that she had to end up thinking I wasnt interested in her, I was just too scared.

That was a long time ago and is still the only relationship I have ever had if you can call it that, now I just dont talk to people at all because whatever is wrong with me has only gotten worse. I just want to be alone now so I dont get hurt or hurt anyone else like that girl, she probably still hates me for leading her on.

>the right one doesn't have to try

What a load of horse shit lol

All the best relationships I've seen take constant work, constant nurturing, ongoing communication and compromise.
I had two friends who, early in their marriage the guy cheated. It really rocked them, and they almost split.
He absolutely owned up to it, apologized, and submitted to absolute transparency of communication to demonstrate he would do anything to rectify and heal the damage he did.

And they did reconcile.
And they did heal.
And now they have a beautiful family with a beautiful home in the suburbs, living the dream of raising the kindest children with stable jobs and a strong relationship.

Most modern western women just quit when their feelings get hurt, or things get tough.
He has himself an exceptional woman.

Maybe just have transparent communication and not cheat in the first place?

People make mistakes user.
When you get into a relationship with somebody, you sign on for helping them through a lifetime of their blunders, and they through a lifetime of yours.

There's no telling what the mistakes may be.
Could be sexual.
Could be financial.
Could be familial.
Could be medical.

I mean really, really let's look at it in this light.
Which is more realistic and reasonable:

>A life-long relationship between two people where neither never make any mistakes of any kind, ever, their entire +50 years of life

>A life-long relationship between two people who, although they may make mistakes along the way, learn from them and work through them together by love and forgiveness

I had a crush on a girl in middle/high school, and I never said anything about it to anyone. Mainly because several of my friends were actively trying to bang her, and I didn't want to screw up any friendships at the time or make her feel weird around me. I later realized it wasn't a fear of rejection that made me so secretive, but rather the opposite. I knew I was too autistic to actually maintain a relationship so I desperately wanted to not like her. I eventually managed to give it up only to start liking another girl who I have also low chances with.

Nigger, making mistakes in life and actively choosing to cheat while in a relationship are two entirely different things.

Mkay well have fun with your next perfect relationship user.

>If youre not willing to change and compromise your relationship wont last long
Jow Forums never fails to surprise me and leave my jaw dropping to the floor at the absolute stupidity visible on my monitor

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i'm a fat basedboy with bitch tits
girls are retarded and easy to talk to lol

Years ago. I don't try any more.

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Help a brother out.

How do you do it?

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Yes, I lost count of how many dates I got stood up for.
Or ghosted.
Or rejected.
It's better to fuck escorts. It's more honest and easy that way. Gotta love doing that.

Nope, I plan on being a KHV until I'm financially set for a marriage, hopefully around age 25. I want to save myself for the right one, and I see no reason to have a GF right now if it wouldn't have the potential to be a life long relationship. I'm a 7/10, so I'm not all that worried about finding a decent partner :)

Im still trying. I just ask every pretty cashier out. And if i get rejectd ill go back in like 2 days. And Lie to them that i asked a different cashier out at another store and went to X place, and now i want to go to Y place with another new random person i dont know.

Here is hoping it works!

why would i do that
how would i do that

I am three things.

My world view.
My habits.
My body.

I do not change these without having the deep inner inspiration to do so. Which takes years and a lot of exposure to events and time. And I will not change these three things with the direct help or influence of someone else consciously.