How can you start a relationship in this day and age, knowing you will almost certainly be cheated on?

I found my fiance through playing Aion mmo when it launched. To be frank, I am actually really, really happy that I am not single in todays world of dating. I have a few friends who are absolutely depressed over their difficulties in finding a decent partner, seeing as most of it is just hookup culture for sex apparently

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I try to remember that if I would never cheat, there has to be girls out there who think the same way

>How can you start a relationship in this day and age, knowing you will almost certainly be cheated on?

only fucking cucks date nowadays too much fucking cheating from both genders. specially fucking women because they have more options.

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People (especially women) always try to come up with insane mental gymnastics to lie to themselves and others that they didn't cheat. Cheating rates are rising and are bound to rise more and more.

I'm having more of a issue with talking to people. Usually whenever I start a convo they just aren't interested and ignore or give one word anwsers

Okay, find my a source, ONE single source that provides evidence of the claim that women especially are lying about their cheating statistics. Why would the percentage go up over time if people thought they were not cheating?

Women don't have the balls to tell you go to go away directly but this is what they mean by that and you should just move on to the next slit

my girlfriend cheated on me. It hurt a lot, even though she tried to console me about it afterwards. She said it was only sex and that there was nothing romantic about it. I don't want to lose her so I forgave her instead. Even so, I feel constantly afraid that it will happen again. I'm very scared of losing her, she's the only one who cared for me when I was really sick.

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Because people cheat so much nowadays the truth cannot be hidden so easily. When you look at the cheating rates always assume that they're at least 20% higher.

Women are polygamous by nature, incapable of true love and loyalty. In fact they are always the ones pushing the whole open relationship meme so they could have a carte blanche slutting around.

>I don't want to lose her so I forgave her instead

told you guys only cucks date nowadays.

So there's no source on that, it's just something you believe.
Don't forget that Jow Forums is a propaganda factory and most people here are not close with any women.

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Cope

Oregon

It's not a cope. I just know a ton of women and they are nothing like r9k says women are. I trust real life experience and scientific studies over what some NEET on the internet thinks with his wide circle of friends and myriad of life experience.

I'm not a cuck, I'm just weak. I know I should have moved on but I can't because I am pathetic. She uses me, but I also use her in my own way, so I guess that's the kind of fucked relationship we have with each other

A woman will never say it in your face that she cheated on you or on someone else. At least not irl. I talked to dozens of girls online and most, if not all admited they cheated at least once, because they know a random internet person can't judge them, or if it can they just don't feel obligated to care.

Your online experience definitely trumps my real life experience, and you know for sure that everyone you spoke to was female because you have their timestamped vagina photos.

More like
>How do you start a relationship with all these generic sluts?
Do women not have a personality other than dogs and drinking and travelling? Don't tell me I'm wrong for using tinder. Where the hell else do I meet women? I can't just google "single weeaboo girls (or traps)"

now check those statistics for women below 30 you dumb fuck

I am 99% certain they were all female. I'm very good at distinguishing catfishers from the real deal. Talking to random girls online has given me a valuable insight in female mindset, one that women will never wilfully expose irl.

no you are a fucking cuck. you forgave her for trying to get pregnant by a different man. when women have sex with you it means she likes your genes.

you sound like the type that will definitely get cheated on for trusting women and probably never find out.

I am a random girl online and I know you're wrong. If I presume women all think differently than me then I am a hypocrite and a pick-me, so it is logically consistent that I presume women and I have much in common; and I'm not some unique and charming whimsical fairy.

ifstudies.org/blog/number-1-in-2018-who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-infidelity-in-america
a 1% difference.

See this is the type of mental gymnastics women go through in order to justify their ingrained infidelity. It's funny how this thread didn't specify target women as cheaters yet you were the first to respond and justify your gender before it even got called out.

No, I said "most people don't cheat."
I never mentioned gender until somebody added "especially women" to their post about cheating.
Women do not have ingrained infidelity.

Cope tranny

>state fact
>provide multiple sources
>"YA WELL.......... UR A TRANNEY"
this board is the embodiment of the galaxy brain meme.

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>start dating several women
>pick the one you like the most
Wow so hard

Fuck off with your fake stories and fake feminist "sources". Women have absolutely destroyed all chances for a meaningful stable relationship today. But whatever, if women want to be treated like cum dumpsters, that's exactly what they will get.

Tried this. He delayed our first date due to "confidence issues". Turned out he was slutting it up as much as possible before having to commit.
He's gonna be a 22 year old separated dad because of that. No regrets dropping him.

Look, i forgave my girlfriend. Guess what she a year later told me she didnt love me anymore. its done after cheating. Even though she begs for forgiveness. Fucking wasted time

keep going, this is pretty entertaining

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nice try but in your chart women cheat more in their prime and less as they get older because they drop in sexual market value. you still can't trust women in their prime and when they matter the most.

Don't listen to those "facts" and "logic" brother. Better to stay miserable and never breed. If all women cheat, then you don't have to try and improve yourself enough to find a woman and nothing is your fault. How could it be anything but the truth? There are so many Jow Forums posts that say otherwise.

If you marry and breed today at any moment you risk the possibility of legally losing 2/3 of your property, along with your kids because your wife decided that the passion is gone after she cheated with some random jerk. No man should have to go through that, anything is better than that.
>miserable
Roastie please, by the time you hit the wall i will still be shagging sluts across Asia.

you are too far gone. fare thee well.

Go read it again, people don't cheat as often as Jow Forums leads you to believe which is my original point. Also overall men cheat more often. Hard fact.

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>tfw I want bf to treat me like a cum dumpster
>tfw he changes topic everytime something sexual comes up
>tfw he would rather jerk it to cartoon girls than fuck me

Sigh.

my ex girlfriend was my first, and she was a very outgoing, extrovert girl, with lots of friends. She had guys asking her out sometimes, which she told me about.
let me tell you, it was a fucking nightmare. She did all in her power to try and make me jealous/insecure all the time. I was constantly worried about what she was doing.
I broke up with her after a while 'cause I just couldn't take it anymore. i don't think she actually cheated though. she was just mean for no reason.

>Also overall men cheat more often. Hard fact.

well no shit their girlfriend is a depreciating asset and he is not. men bring more to the table and gain more sexual market value with increase wealth. I think women would be just as high if they could retain their sexual market value by not aging.

Good you got out of it in time, Because you would be even worse off trying to waste years on a whore like that.

she was testing your emotional strength because women expect you to be the rock in the relationship. also don't be to hard on women because they are here to drive human evolution by selecting the best males to reproduce with.

Nice album, but you're still a faggot

Lmfao
Honestly disappointing how much of this board is coping fatasses making excuses to not have to improve themselves

Seething roasties and cucks ITT

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You don't. Every single female will cheat, without exception. Become an anti-natalist volcel instead.

Generally from my experience and from what I have seen, heard, and witnessed is that women will always have multiple guys to choose from and will almost always relish it. She always has abundance and many possibilities. If a pretty woman knows and is confident that she is, then why waste it?

How can you start a relationship in this day and age when you can hardly even start conversations with people IRL, let alone maintain one and bring it around to a date?

>get cheated on
>also cheating
>we don't care about cheating because we don't fuck sluts or wannabe romeos
Only reason not to be in an open is if the girl is a slut, because slut girls don't choose their partners wisely. But if you just fuck with people you know, there's no drama or STDs

>Only reason not to be in an open is if the girl is a slut, because slut girls don't choose their partners wisely. But if you just fuck with people you know, there's no drama or STDs
Pic rel, you on the couch

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>incels actually believe this is what a poly relationship looks like
I don't imagine you fuck enough women to be able to cheat on a gf, if you had one

Polyamory senpai, it's good shit

>s-shut up i-incel! I totally cheat on my gf too, so it's not like I'm a cuck!!

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Do you need instructions on how to reply to a post? Lmao

>knowing she will almost certainly cheat on you?
you mean she has almost certainly been with another man before

You can't. Humans aren't designed for monogamous relationships. Monogamy has always been an ideal people have clung to. In reality, we're still animals bound strongly by our biology and evolution. Where the problem arises is that we live in an environment completely antithetical to all that. We purposely impose restrictions and impediments (such as monogamy) that prevent us from carrying out what our instincts tell us to do. That's why relationships are so complicated and why there's so much cheating, jealousy, distrust, etc. It's a constant battle between our instincts and the societal norms and rules that have been imposed on us since we were little, and most people end up losing to their instincts. Unless we can somehow change our nature, monogamy will never be truly viable and cheating will always be the norm.

>there has to be girls out there who think the same way
Why? Because you said so?
Because that makes no fucking sense.
Women are different form men, they value completely different things.
Loyalty and respect for the partner are nowhere to be found.

This is robot thinking. Do not be like my bf. I love you him so much. He has pushed me to suicide with him blamimg me of cheating trying to prove my loyalty. He took my virginity right after I turned 15. I admire this man like a god and will do anything he says. But he 100 percent thinks I cheated.

Face facts. Most people do notcheat. Any normal person will not cheat. Find someone who is a virgin or lost theirs in a previous commited relationship that the chemistry did not work out.

If you're the kind of guy who posts on Jow Forums for anything other than schadenfreude, dating apps are a waste of time. Your only hope is a hobby that'll let you meet women. I won't tell you it's a good hope, but it's the only way for an adult male to be put in contact with women if he doesn't have a very extensive social circle.

You cant.

T. Former incel (now Chad)

you wanna know how I know you're not white?

>then you don't have to try and improve yourself enough to find a woman

Why should anyone have to improve themselves to get a woman? That's not what the people who have women in their lives do. I know plenty.

Originianally how?

My bf is allowed to "cheat", if you can even call it that. Just develop a cuck fetish

I really don't know. I've turned down casual sex offers before so I could stay a virgin until marriage, and I've spent the last 4 years working on myself and I realize I'm self-improving for a woman that doesn't even exist. I'm still doing it, but I have no fucking idea why. No woman waits for marriage anymore and even if I somehow found one, marriage is far too risky for men nowadays and just being in a relationship can literally destroy your life. I just wanted some nice, cute virgin girl to love and spend my life with, to save ourselves for each other, but I now realize that's virtually impossible. Now I just hope every day that I can die from cancer or some other sickness.

>"ok fine, men cheat more.... BUT ITS CUZ THEY HAVE NO CHOICE!!!!!!!!!!! ITS NOT THEIR FAULT!!!"

because white people were starting to be selected for monogamy, and to us it is natural (even for those that don't desire it)

What the fuck is wrong with you? Dump her.

>he thinks his gf isnt getting pumped by chad while he's away

lmaooooooo

I'm a long-time monogamous gf, I think I would basically know how a relationshit works.

Agreed. The most common one I've seen when there is a big fight and things get distant for a bit they cheat and justify it with them being on a "break" even if no such thing has been agreed on. The other big one is cheating and leaving the guy for the which apparently in their heads doesn't count either and is just breaking up, especially if their jumping ship to the new guy.
What is so difficult for women to comprehend about the fact that you're in a relationship that hasn't been definitively ended FIRST and are sleeping with someone else you are cheating?

Why should anybody improve themselves to get money? I know plenty of people who can get it easily.

The fact is that some people have to work harder for things than others. Even if something "easy" is hard for you, it's not a very good excuse to just give up.

Women really are just like money. They both go through many hands and their value is artificial.

Because I'm the one who cheats. Checkm8

your boyfriend is cheating on you

No he isn't. We're together like, all the time.

If you're for real and aren't LARPing, where do I find a long-term monogamous gf? I can't even find women with a low partner count.

I don't know. I met my bf on okcupid. My mom was tired of seeing me sit in my room playing vidya all day and said I needed to get out and meet people.
I sent a message to a local guy with only a picture of a cat and I said "I like your cat"
and he wrote a poem that was like;
"HAIR. black. like her soul."
i thought it was funny and we went and saw a movie and then started dating. the end. pretty old fashioned except the internet aspect.

Idk man, shits rough, especially once you've been burned bad. Thought I met someone incredible on here, exactly my type with an intact hymen and everything, enough to make me change my mind and actually try again. But she's been ignoring me and it looks like she's started talking to someone else so I'm trying to lower my expectations but it's hard when you've already fallen pretty hard. Probably gonna ruin it with my jealous bullshit on purpose just to guarantee I don't have to experience that same drawn-out misery again. At there's always being a withdrawn cynical loser.

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Giga cope. White roasties are the biggest whores of them all who cheat the most and participate the most in degeneracy like polyamory and open relationships.
>inb4 it's da joos that made them like that

It's almost definitely going to happen again since you forgave her so easily

Or that you will cheat