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There's an escape and you know it. You're just a coward.

i have a loving bf. we're together for over 7 years now and im so depressed that i barely can move.
love is not the answer.

Got a bf, my first one ever, had my first kiss, and I feel more miserable than ever because he makes it very obvious he does not find me attractive, literally said I was below his league

I hate it when women/gays post on this board and imply their opinions matter.

What has you down, fren?

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user, why do you love being a dick?

There is no hunt for me. I don't want to look desperate. No woman has ever started conversation with me for fun or gave me any signs of them being interested in me. And I don't blame them. I can't imagine someone loving me.

Yes, I'm a coward but I won't give up so easily.

Not all, but most human interaction is positive you fucking retard

Cute pic OP, I thought the girl was russian until I saw the sandperson scribble

Women want to be wanted, user. you cant just expect some 8/10 qt3.14 to walk up to you and start a conversation. Women don't want to appear desperate or interested. user, stop laying around in self-pity/ sadness and actually go find a gf. Please!

People don't usually start conversations with people who keep to themselves, and women especially don't. You should at least give it a try.

Actually, same. She's actually a qt3.14 despite being a sandnig

When I was in a "relationship", it was mostly waiting for responses or showing up for dates only to find (as usual) that he had "better things to do that day". It's isolating.

>>Implying there are no female incels

The word was invented by a woman you tragic waste of carbon

gays, I can understand, but fembots? A fembots opinion matters more than a Jow Forumsack"s opinion, bcuz at least the fembot is proving fembots exist.

It won't magically fix your shit but it's a nice self esteem boost

At 33 years old this is my conclusion too. But with that in mind I might as well have some fun first. As a true societal outcast it's me vs the world and the world's made me pretty upset.

That sounds sad. Can we be friends, femanon?

So what should I do? Next time I see some cutie waiting for bus I should tell her that I like her and I want her number? I highly doubt it that any girl would happy if some random manlet approached them and started talking to them. It's not that I'm afraid. I'm just sure that nothing good will come out of it.
Where do people even find gf?

SHUT UP
GETTING A GF WILL MAGICALLY MAKE ALL THE PROBLEMS GO AWAY

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You know what's a much better and easier shit than having a gf to boost your self esteem? Actually liking yourself, faggot. And the best way to start that is to stop taking yourself so seriously.

Honestly, I'm not really sure. People have said like, hobby places are a good idea. Places like libraries and bookstores. Or maybe online dating could work for you.
I wish I could be of more help

Just like some succeed, others fail. Some are losers their whole life no matter how hard they try.

I am comfortable with myself but being a 24 year old single virgin will start affecting your self esteem.

Why does everybody keep saying this?

I used to go to strip clubs a lot before I ran out of money and it was the happiest I had ever been.

>Having a girlfriend/boyfriend WILL NOT magically make you happy or fix your problems
wrong

gnomies always complain how they start getting hit on when they are in a relationship
the truth is they stop being desperate when they get a girlfriend i.e "be themselves" without trying and that's attractive to people
conclusion relationships fix their problems and make them happy

No dont say that. You're right tho. Come up to her and instead of dropping your spaghetti with shitty phrases say this
>hey
Yeah that simple. Then she be like wtf so youre like
>how you doing
And she be like "fine, who tf are you". So you're like
>just bored taking the bus, so where you heading
This will likely get you nowhere but try it ten times or so. By that time you should've got at least a phone number and some cool conversations.

If the person cares about you it could make the rest of your problems more bearable

Then you're either choosing to be depressed or you've got a chemical imbalance going on and should go on anti-depressants. I know for a fact that female affection really does fix my problems. Going to see strippers every week actually started making me happy and before that I was considering the rope.

Worked for me. Gave me purpose and a reason to better myself when I was a ambitionless, porn addicted weirdo who spent my non-jacking off time playing MMOs and MOBAs. 4 years with my gf and I finally understand what people mean when they say they're happy. I'll propose next year

If she cucks me, or dies in an accident I'll no doubt go back to being a depressed loser, but until then everything is great.

There is no purpose to existence.

>Where do people find gf?
Go to events that interest you (ie you like vidya, go to gaming con; you like books, go to bookstore/library; you like animu, you go to animu con) and just be yourself. Find a girl that likes what you like, and also, don't immediately (within a month or two) try to fuck her, statistically, the relationship is more likely to survive if you actually get to know each other and invest time and energy in each other before going for the pussy. I know, it can be tempting as an incel, but you'll be more likely to stay together longer.

Thanks for your suggestions user but I don't read besides some Greek philosophy shit so I don't have much knowledge on books.
Well, I actually thought about it that maybe it's just numbers game and if I try enough times, maybe I will find someone.
Thanks for trying to help.

Personally, I recommend a dakimakura. Coming home to, cuddling with and sleeping with a cute anime girl every night has absolutely made me a happier person.

dakimakuras are nice, but still end up hurting bcuz no real gf, and end up commiting life stop

god doesn't exist.
there is no afterlife.
you are not special.

If you actually aren't a douche and on't disagree on stuff like whether or not you want kids, she probably won't cuck you. Also, do you have ring for her, if not, I could make on for $200-ish USD, no worthless rock (diamond) but 24k gold.

Well my hobbies are playing piano and exploring abandoned buildings so I don't think there's much I can do. Sometimes I hope to meet some urbex gf while exploring but it never happened.
>don't immediately (within a month or two) try to fuck her
I don't really want to have sex to be honest. I just want a girl that I could take for romantic dates and tell her that she means everything to me.
Thanks for advice anyway.
The thing is that I'd share that anime girl with hundreds if not thousands of other people in the world and she would never be truly mine.

maybe start doing piano recitals
> But it never happened
Implying that it hasn't happened yet.

This is probably true, and it makes me sad

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Even if it is ture, that doesn't mean having a gf wont make the pain more bearable.

OP, here forgot about htis thread, my memory is shitty rn
to anyone saying this, the remedy is improving yourself to the point where you have a reason to feel arrogant (but dont actually behave in an arrogant manner if that makes sense)

Think of it in terms of... There are multiple versions of your waifu that exist because their personalities adapt to being with the person who's most important to them. But the version of your waifu is yours and yours alone. She's unique because she is with you and she accepts you for who you are.

Suicide makes every problem and worry disappear all the while making regret impossible

Yes but it's way more interesting to see how worse your life can become. Stop caring about everything then you'll see

Wouldn't suicide be the epitome of not caring about anything?

If you don't care about anything you don't worry about anything. If you truly don't care there is no point in suicide.
It would be like leaving the theatre before the end of the play. I find it boring that way. You never get to see how others react to your death.

>I find it boring that way
But you won't once you're dead, wanting to see how other react show that you care, only death can bring about the eradication of all boredom and hardship

Then why am I happier OP? People say t won't make you happier but then again people also say vitamins don't do anything even though you can overdose.

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Oh yeah then why am I happier OP? Huh? explain it since you clearly know all this obvious shit.
In order to get gf you must improve in some shape and form or else how would you get gf?

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Maybe I still care after all. I just wanna have fun and have a big finale before stopping everything at once.
It's just so irritating to know that I'll never know anything else after I die.

That this world should end before we get to try and ruin more planets.

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It would be literally impossible to be depressed with a gf like pic related.

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There are different races of humans with different atributes like iq and propensity for violence and crime

Yep. Now someone else has to deal with my insecure bullshit. Don't worry, the wife got me back though. She was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that we'll likely be dealing with for the rest of her (likely shortened) life.

Cough on her

not so fast, having a gf will generally straighten your shit out pretty fast depending on her personality.
i definitely look better since my first

You are only brought out of it for a while. I've had a gf for 7 months now and I've been stumbling back into the depression. I'd say around 5 months I was getting that very early first stage of depression and its been getting worse. Might just be me and my relationship though

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It's true. I got a gf and then the feelings of pensive loneliness were just replaced with paranoia about her becoming disinterested, and having to deal with the realization of how boring I am as a person now that the struggle for sex and intimacy is off my mind.

If youre stuck in bronze/silver it is your fault and your fault alone.

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