Mom finds out her son is an incel

Yeah my college is a super normie school.

Don't read into what I'm saying too much. I'm just stating the facts of what I saw.

Okay I tend to react too much. But what school is it exactly, if you not mind me asking?

I've been single for so long that people have started asking my mom if I'm gay. At least she tells them that I'm not, so I guess I have that going for me.

A video is worth 10,000 words...

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My mom tried to convince me to go to prom. I stayed home and did homework. Now I'm a 33 year old virgin.

Well that's nice. My mom keeps reminding me that she wouldn't judge me if I'm gay. How nice of her.

That is absolutely disgusting, and I truly am sorry that you have to endure such a thing. The worst part about normie friend groups is how pretty they look on the outside but in reality the social peer pressure that lies beneath is truly appaling. And believe me I've been in one. How do you manage that as a robot?

Where do you live? If you're close to me I'll go.

Yep, my parents did that for quite a while. I think now they realize the truth that I'm just a loser, so they've stopped asking me if I met any nice women.

My mother doesn't know what the term incel is and to my father that just means you're a man with dignity. You zoomer's are hopeless.

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Look man, i just got through not going to my uni's senior banquet. Its extra spicy because i go to a rural private uni where 60+% of students get married right after graduation.

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I went to prom with a date, extremely overrated. Then again I didn't really like the girl that much so you aren't missing out on much unless you really find someone you like.

Judging by your apparent loneliness, however, that doesn't appear to be the case. Don't worry about it, you seem to only want to do it so you can say "I went to prom" in 20 years

>Does an 18 year old in high school really count as an incel yet?

No, but if you show me the group of kids from a typical high school in a white area in the US who are still virgins, I can probably predict which of the guys will be incels in the future with a pretty high degree of accuracy.

>>Believing young boys who say they've had sex

You know they're bullshitting you, right?

That's what I've been trying to tell people. When I was a freshman I tried "blending in" to a certain extent and found the peer pressure to be absolutely suffocating. A lot of people here are like clones or something. I've managed to find some non-normie people here and we've said its like 80% of the students here were created in a factory somewhere because they seem like a literal clone of the person standing next to them.

Basically, if you are not a jockish looking dudebro or a pretentious prep school student, you will have a very hard time finding your people.

And yeah, its not worth it to try and fit in with normies because they regulate you to an obscene extent. You have to go to a certain number of parties per week, drink a certain amount every time, listen to a specific kind of music, talk about very fluffy boring topics. The pressure to constantly be "having fun" actually ruins the fun because you can never relax.

I believe them, pretty much all the guys who did say they've had sex fucked somebody during the year. There's only one guy really that I think could've been lying.

>they've stopped asking me if I met any nice women.
My mom is constantly making "jokes" about that stuff at every opportunity.
>oh you're taking a nutrition course? I bet there'll be lots of girls in your class
>Your lab group is all girls! You should get to know them.
>Look user, it says here that your degree program is 80% girls. I bet that'll be fun.
Heck off mom, you made me socially stunted and it's too late to catch up now.

It's incredibly easy to be a normie, that's why it's called "normie" because most people are one. Loners like us are the minority. If you use your loneliness right you can become very resistant to peer pressure and be a "fuck you you can't make me do anything I don't want to do" kind of guy, and find genuine friends who actually look out for you.

The real Chad wouldn't give a fuck about what the majority thinks

The harassment about it can certainly be annoying, but don't blame your mom for your failure. Be a man and own up to the fact that it's your own fault you can't attract a woman.

>Be a man and own up to the fact that it's your own fault you can't attract a woman.
Let me put it this way, I think it's partially her fault but solely my responsibility, if that distinction makes sense.

What did she do that contributed to your inability to get laid?

30% of young males are """"incels""""""

Why it is always men's fault when they have problems but when women have problems it is never their fault?

Fuck that honestly, the more guys who opt out of this bullshit the better.

Getting laid isn't the main problem (I'm mostly ok with not getting laid) it's the fact that she raised me so differently from my peers that I can barely relate to them. Like all the typical shit that's pretty much universal to zoomers is stuff I was specifically shielded from. And it's not like I'm just autistic or something, because I do more than fine socializing with people older than me, it's just people my own age that I don't understand.

If you're referring to the statistic that came out recently saying that 28% of men hadn't had sex in the past year, then I should point out that r9k often thinks that you have to be a virgin to be an "incel." So somebody could've had sex in the past without having had sex that year.

However, I do believe that about 40% of the male population has extreme difficulty with getting laid and are either celibate, fucking a fat girl, paying prostitutes, or rely on sex dolls and dakis for intimacy.

What I'm frustrated with, is how some people act like because I'm in college, I should be fucking hot girls left and right and that I'm some kind of bizarre case study because I'm not doing that.

Ok lets be real, he probably would have said the same thing if I were a girl whining about my mom.

Because men are responsible enough to own up to their own shortcomings.
I can understand that. People your age are just on social media 24/7. I don't know how anyone could relate to them.

People are full of shit when they say college is the easiest time of you life to get laid. It is only the easiest if you're chad. It is possibly one of the hardest times to get laid for the loner, autistic population though. After college, you can distinguish yourself in other ways than your social prowess like by getting a high paying job and using your intelligence to your advantage. Before college, when you're in high school, everything is so new to a lot of the girls that they are more open to dating a weird, awkward kid. Maybe not the stacies specifically, but there's enough other weird awkward girls in high school that could be into you.

Then again, it could just be because I go to a uber-normie college.

How high paying does the job need to be for this to work? I'm at $120k and still a virgin, so I guess that's not enough.

You have the trap, you just need to put in the work to set it up.

Well, its not like it always works, but it does work for some people. You could always pay prostitutes as well.

That's an awfully creepy way of putting it. I don't want to just dangle money in front of people, physically or metaphorically.
I want a real relationship, not a quick session with someone who doesn't give a shit about me. I doubt I'd enjoy fucking a prostitute more than jacking off, and that's much less hassle.

>regret it for the rest of my life
i hope people out there really don't think that. 5 years and it will have no value. It's just a fucking school dance lol, there are so many better things in life that you could do (with a grill).

If you continue to see the same girl it kind of turns into a bit of a relationship. A lot of people think prostitution is about quickly busting a nut but truthfully most guys who do pay prostitutes aren't actually into that. That's why GFEs are so popular. But you might still be better off getting like a sugar baby or going to the strip club and finding a stripper then hiring an escort ime.

Ime strippers are better GFE providers than escorts is what I meant to say. But I think the sugar baby concept might really appeal to you.

During my senior year prom about 90% of the guys went to prom with their friends and I quote "It's for the boys" there were only a couple of couples there, and a few dates. I don't know how uncommon this is but It really made me feel more comfortable

Pretty much this. I didn't go to prom, and I haven't even thought about it in years. I just got reminded about it by this thread.
Plus, I haven't done so many things with a woman, not going to prom is just a drop in the bucket.
A sugar baby is so far from what I'd want. I'd much rather go hiking or skiing with someone than go out to expensive restaurants or buy expensive jewelry.

>People your age are just on social media 24/7. I don't know how anyone could relate to them.
Yeah that's exactly what I mean. I just can't keep up with all that stuff. Even though it's not the only thing people talk about, it's definitely a requirement. Apparently you can't even get hired at a lot of places if you don't have a substantial social media presence. At the very least people talk about how you shouldn't date guys that don't have facebook because it means they're giving you a fake name.
It's all so fucked dude,

my mom has never brought up the fact i'm an incel even though:
>left incel forums open on my monitor and said nothing
>when my mom brought up the toronto van attack i said not that many died so who cares
>told her i hate kids
>told her i never had a female friend and am khhv all throughout uni
>every friday night i'm home watching anime and have 0 friends
just last week she said that when am i planning to move out and find a female. this fucking midget brought me into this world as a subhuman 5'4 ethnic. i told her since i'm ugly and short i will never get a girlfriend but she says
>you make a lot of money and are a good boy
i seriously want to fucking slap her across the face.

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No wonder women won't date me. It's because I don't use Facebook.... What has this world come to?

>No wonder women won't date me. It's because I don't use Facebook....
I don't know if you're joking but that's a semi accurate description. I know exactly one couple in my age group that didn't meet on tinder, and that dude is a (very very high functioning) autistic.

Perhaps your mom is one of the women posting here?

designmom.com/just-learned-term-incel-means/

trip dubs real nice possibly of truth?!