Femdom relationships

Does anyone here desire to be in a female-led relationship?
Are you a man, or a woman?
Can you describe what your ideal relationship would look like?

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>Women
>Being dominant

I'd like to have a relationship where I'm dominant in life, but submissive to my wife.
I wanna be a strong obedient man.

I wanna be equals with a cute girl that gently dommes and teases me

Those don't exist so I just don't want to be in a relationship at all.

They do.
It's hard to accept that your own inner demons are holding you back from what you want in life.

You need slme therapy,or inner work, or a neckbeard rehab (if only something like that existed).

>Wishing for something that doesn't exist
Its a fetish you pay people to act out for you, user life isn't your twisted porn fantasies.

I just shaved yesterday so I don't have a neckbeard.

That's not true, I met and went on a date with a girl who seriously was into it. She was honestly fucking psycho.
>Met her on fetlife
>She said I was attractive and would be interested in using me
>She has a 10/10 curvy not fat body
>5/10 face as many of these girls do
>We meet on campus
>We go to the student union with lots of people there trying to study around us
>Loudly proclaims my fetishes
>"Yeah user is love to do some serious bondage on you and spank the fuck out of you"
>People are shorting glances towards us
>I get extremely uncomfortable and subtlety get us to leave
>Tfw she told me how much she wanted to sit on my face but things never materlized and she found someone else

Still upset about it, but they do exist

I don't get it, why this doesn't exist?

Becaue women are disgusted by submissive men, for some reason

This, except I want to gently dom her on occasion too.

Basically, traditional gender roles place expectations upon women to act in a certain way. If you want your femdom utopia you should actively aim to destroy the idea of gender in society.

I hate the fact that dominant women are a very selected minority, that make so hard find one of them, i really wish there was more....

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I don't give a shit about anything at this point.
Society can go any way it wants.

Personally, I wish all life on Earth could be euthanised.
If not everything, then at least humans.

Life was a mistake.

Most of them do, but to say that literally all women are like that is very exaggerated.

she probably thought publicly degrading you would turn you on

>tfw I like shy, dominant women
I'm really making this hard on myself.

Lol, fetlife is for fetishists and perverts.

I mainly want a female-led vanilla relationship.
Simple and loving, but she takes the lead most of the times, both in life and in bed.

>Does anyone here desire to be in a female-led relationship?
Yes
>Are you a man, or a woman?
Man

I desire anything from slightly vanilla gfd to hardcore femdom as long as I get to obey and submit.

I feel you user. The only dominant woman i think i ever met i my life as a friend from college, thinking about it today, i hate myself for being too autistic and never had trying something.

I'm a man
Basically what said
I already have a great-paying job, I just want someone to take charge in the bedroom and literally tell me what to do because I'm bad at sex

role reversal and feet and chastity are big for me

like a powerful corporate wife that works all day while i take care of the house, the nshe comes home and lets me worship her feet and if im lucky unlocks my cage for some teasing and edging.

What if she forces you to eat her ass every day?
Would that turn you on?

>It's hard to accept that your own inner demons are holding you back from what you want in life.
Not him, but it's the fact that there's like 30 subs to every dom and I'm ugly. Why would they ever pick me over the others?

>there's like 30 subs to every dom
Bullshit. While there are more male subs than female doms, 2 to 1 would be an overstatement.

I'm not sure you understand what we mean here when we say "dominance".

If you want to be humiliated, have your cock locked in a cage, and so on, that's indeed very niche and most women will be repulsed by it.

Think about it this way, what would a normal dominant guy think of a submissive woman who wants to be tied down, whipped and called a useless whore?

They'd think it was hot.

I just want a gfd mommy that makes a lot of money and likes all the things i do who takes care of me and will play video games with me. Too bad they don't exist.

>Bullshit. While there are more male subs than female doms, 2 to 1 would be an overstatement
What makes you think this? Everywhere I see them show up there's like 20 guys orbiting them. And every female dom I've run into has had tons of experiences, where most of the guys have had jack shit.

>Everywhere I see them show up there's like 20 guys orbiting them.
Bro, that's all women nowadays.
This is not a good point to bring up.

>a submissive woman who wants to be tied down, whipped and called a useless whore?
I got one of those. I wish she was in that mood more often.

They do, you just have to be very very attractive. Not many girls get the sugar baby gig either.

A female led relationship is my dream relationship. I'd do whatever she wanted since a lot of my happiness comes from making others happy. Too bad only like 1% of women are dominant.

Well now that we took that pointless detour, back to my original point:
>I'm ugly. Why would they ever pick me over the others?

All I know is that most of you fags obsessed with looks don't even have bad genes.

Looks are bit everything, but since you're so obsessed with it, how about you:
>lose some weight
>build some muscle
>fix your hunchback posture from being in front of pc all day
>eat a healthy diet that will improve your skin and cure your acne
>stop jerking off all day so you will feel more alive, which will make you look more alive

But no, fuck everything, right?
>me ugly
>ply gib gf
>wamen evil
>wamen holes, no people
>bout to an hero tonight, I swear

>bit
*not

I thought I did, but really it wasn't great. She didn't want to just chill out, it was all dom all the time.

I'm a manlet with shitty bone structure. It can't be helped.

Have you ever thought about becoming a tranny?

You fucking wish, degenerate.

I know I look okay, I just don't feel that way most of the time.
I don't have any of the issues you are describing either.

Why are you being mean all of the sudden?
You admitted you are a genetically inferior male.
I thought you wanted some advice.

Don't you ever get bored of pretending to be retarded on an imageboard?

>You need slme therapy

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I kek'd hard.
That's a good one my dude.
Sure, we could all use some SLME terapy, lmao.

Aren't you gonna an hero or something anyway?
There a couple of stories about guys who were suicidal so they were like "fuck it" and became trannies.
They ended up liking it, even becoming wives to some men, etc.

Why are you so closed off to new opportunities.

>tfw my Chinese mommy gf locks me in a chastity cage every night and whips me with a riding crop
Living is bliss

How do I find a woman who wants to lead a relationship?? I'd love to be bossed around by a qt, bonus points if she's into femdom but not necessary I suppose.

no you're actually fucking wrong. women are not doms lol, and it's a shit fetish anyway.

>women are not doms lol
Exactly. Just like no one in the world is gay and no one is into non-vanilla stuff, ever.

Are you good at being a housewife though?

>in order for one gender to dominate the other, you must eliminate the concept of gender
Shoo shoo tranny.

Where do I read such stories? I want to become a wife to a man.

>what would a normal dominant guy think of a submissive woman who wants to be tied down, whipped and called a useless whore?
Sounds like a typical woman to me.

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The thing is that is what most submissive men want. They want all that kink stuff thus the 30 to 1 ratio

Chastity is unironically the only way to dael with these numbers. Lock 30 guys up, use a different one each day of the month. Everyone's happy/frustrated.

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I just want a girl I can be vulnerable with and prefers taking the lead during sex.
Yeah I know that's unreasonable, but I'm never gonna not want it.

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>and prefers
*and who prefers

>loI dude just be yourself

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Right one actually stands a better chance of attracting a domme since the eyes signal submissive while still having a good body for abusing. Don't binge so hard on blackpills user.

>what would a normal dominant guy think of a submissive woman who wants to be tied down, whipped and called a useless whore?
Pretty sure they'd enjoy it. Are you trying to insinuate that those are weird things for a submissive woman to be into?

"Jeez user, I meant submissive like I want you to take charge and do all the work, not like I want you acting like a pervert!"

Well, I have really strange and hard relationship because I want to be dominated but my gf wants to be dominated too and we're stuck doing nothing.

That's exactly the reason I don't want a gf.

Why not take turns?

PLAYED COLLEGE BALL Y'KNOW

Not him, but it's a lot harder for two submissive people to take turns pretending to be dominant than it is for two dominant people to take turns letting the other dominate them. Just the way the cookie crumbles.

I've met plenty of dominant women. The tricky thing is that there are almost no *sadistic* women who enjoy the kind of pain and humiliation the average sub is into. It's more about being rough and taking the lead in bed.

Great, because that's what I want.

Those who want to have their cocks locked and be degraded need a therapist, not a gf.

Where the fuck do you meet vanilla"" dominant girls? That's literally all I want dude.

>they don't want to be called a beta male and a pathetic excuse for a man while lapping at their mistress' pussy

If I wanted to feel bad about myself I'd just get in a relationship with a submissive girl.

>feel bad
who said anything about feeling bad? sexual humiliation is literally the greatest feeling in the world

I fell for the femdom meme for a couple of months but I realized i've pretty much just been romanticizing it and it's one of the most pathetic relationships you can have because I think a lot of the people that claim to have a femdom fetish and/or especially a desire for a "mommy dommy" relationship just want their other partner to do all of the work rather than them making any actual decisions. Since then i've been desiring to be stronger and more dominant and want to make my own decisions rather than wanting a girl to have all the control. That being said a girl verbally abusing me, especially about sexual stuff, makes me fucking DIAMONDS. Only has happened online though

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I know this meme is supposed to make the left seem more attractive than the right but right is definitely more attractive. Only thing stopping him from picking up any chick he wants is his glasses and dull haircut

NANOMACHlNES, SON

>Only thing stopping him from picking up any chick he wants is his glasses and dull haircut
Only thing stopping you from all of that is believing such nonsense.
As long as a man is obsessed with looks, he will remain a beta faggot.

Those who have experience with women might get away with it to an extent, but in your case, it just further cements your inceldom.

lmao where the fuck did this come from

I literally want a normal relationship with a gf, except she willl sit on my face on occasion and I dunno, put her feet on my dick every once and I while. Nothing too crazy at all but women want to be called sluts and be choked and shit so I cant even get that.

iktf. I said this in my other post but femdom relationships are more romanticized I think. Most people who claim they want one don't actually want a girl to control everything. Most don't want to be put in chasity and locked up in cages and stuff.

Most think it's more of what you said, they just want the occasional kinky femdom thing of having a girl suffocate them with their thighs or w/e

I wish I was with a woman who was take-charge when it came to sex, but equal when it came to everything else.
I am a man, originalfag, fairly old by Jow Forums standards.
Mistress Madeline and her stuff really gets me going. I would want a woman who treated me like an equal and who was my friend until we were alone and having sex. Then, she would want to grind her pussy against my face, tie me up and sit on my face, force me to suck on her toes and lick her soles while she jerked me off, and massage my prostate, begging for my cum and teasing me until I sprayed it all over her.
I'm dating a woman who's almost there, but gets off on size play (she's small, I'm big) and prefers it when I pin her down in mating press or pronebone.

Jow Forums is an echo chamber of stupid self-limiting ideas.
You're better off hearing something different.

Precisely, whenever I say I would like a relationship with femdom aspects, people go straight to

>WOAH, YOURE INTO PEGGING?
>WOW YOU LIKE BEING A KEKOLD
>GEE user I DIDNT KNOW YOU WERE INTO COCK AND BALL TORTURE

its like no, no thanks. Not into any of that shit. Just sit on my face, make me eat your pussy, smother me in your breasts/thighs, call me a good boy, order me to kiss your legs, cool awesome thanks.

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>WOAH, YOURE INTO PEGGING?
In addition to being into more softcore domming, I also like pegging/prostate play, but only if it's loving and subtle and not super masculine and aggressive.
Lucky for me, my gf asked me first if she could put things in my butt because she "heard some guys really like it" and she got turned on by the idea.

Yeah that's all I want too. I want to worship her pussy and stuff my head in her thighs. I'm not into cucking, chastity, or pegging.

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I've been into some of that fucked up stuff, but that's only because of self-esteem issues and too much porn.

However, I do remember that I was a normal sub, ever since childhood.
I remember that my earliest fantasies about girls involved me basically worshipping them, obeying them, gentle femdom, etc.

>However, I do remember that I was a normal sub, ever since childhood.
Realizing this shit and that I've always been doomed from the start was one of the saddest moments of my life.

Nigga meet some people who are ya know, into real life.

It's shocking the amount of women who like taking a little lead in the bedroom and aren't into porn-fueled fetish zones.

>have gf
>Shes switch (enjoys tying me up, ruined orgasms, raping each other, exploring new territory)

It's a lot of fun and again, if they're not totally twisted by porn standards it's a lot of fun and a safe space to explore your sexuality. Like food, we try things the other person is into or wants to try. Somebody doesn't like it that much? Oh well. Can say you tried but didn't find much interest in it. Keeps it spicy but the line of communication open. Tried things I thought I liked but didn't, and things I didn't think i'd like but I did.