I'm french, sorry for grammatical mistakes. Context and story of our relationship :
>Be me : 20 years, still virgin. >Met a girl in class (she is 23), she comes at me every fuckin' time, she likes me as "I seem to be really smart". >Joins me at the end of the day, and we talk each other for hours (like from 8PM to 11PM) in the middle of the street. >She asks me if I'm virgin. I lie and I pretend I have had dozen of girls, she believes it. >Some evening, she touches my fingers, says they're thin and she likes them this way. >Day after day, she keeps touching me : "Actually, you have nice hair.", "I love your teeth and your smile" while we were sitting in the middle of the street, by night. "I love your torso...", "I prefer young guys, and smart ones", "I like to stay with you..." >One day she says that she's feeling alone and installs Tinder. >The night she installed it, she immediatly talked it to me on Facebook, and sent me screenshots. I began to be cold as duck, she flirts with guys and pretends she wants to fuck with them but deletes the match. She says she's laughing, and is waiting my reaction. >She came back into the conversation on the same night, after I pretented I had to do something, and began to call me by a cute nickname. >Me : "Stop that, it bothers me." >Her : "Anony :>" >I begin to talk about my feelings about her, but as I'm a faggot I can't, and pretend I felt in love of someone weeks ago. She asks me who is this. I don't answer. >She asks me when I'm going to reveal this love, I say I'm pretty slow... >I write a quatrain, in french, in which I invite her to join me in the Gehenna where I could give her an orgasm. >She laughs, "hahahaha", changes the title of our messenger conversation to an ambiguous smiley. >She gives me the nickname of a french known poet. >We had to meet next day, she has to give me back a book, and I invite her to join me at home, where I should have been alone. >I did it ! Actually, I didn't.
>Day after day, she keeps touching me : "Actually, you have nice hair.", "I love your teeth and your smile" while we were sitting in the middle of the street, by night. "I love your torso...", "I prefer young guys, and smart ones", "I like to stay with you..."
Probably, this is the only truly objective sign she wanted you. People touch other people they like.
Public zones of touching have little sensitivity neurons. Hands have a high amount of them and are considered intimate zones.
If you want to know if she wants to bang try this:
Sit next to her and keep moving closer to her until your bodies are touching. See if she moves away before that happens. If she does not she wants to fuck.
Invite her to your place, to watch a movie or whatever. If she says no she had no interest of she does yes them she wants you 100%
Reading body language is really easy. Pick up a damn book.
Leo Miller
so what tf you gettin at?
Jace Hughes
>She asks me if I'm virgin.
do girls actually ask this question? I've had a lot of extremely awkward encounters with females, but never has one straight up asked me if I was a virgin.
Jordan Gomez
First night together, it was friday, two weeks ago.
>Me : "Hm, we can't meet at home, my sister is there, and I would be bothered." >Her : "Ay, ok. Then, lets go to the park ?" >We went to park, talk for hours, it was night, and there wasn't any light. >She is not very close like others days. Even like a bit cold. Ok, it could happen. >I see her chatting sometimes with a guy, I assume coming from Tinder. Depressed. >I feel sick, I take pills in front of her. >She tries to comfort me, we begin to watch a concert on her smartphone. >Her : "I will not let you come back at home alone", I live like 30 minutes from the place we are. >Me : "No, its far away, you'll get tired." >She takes my bike, pushes it, constrain me to follow her and to indicate the path to home. >About 2AM. >She can't stop to ask me if I'm okay, I pretend to be still sick to get her attention. Hm. >We reach home. >Her : "I'm tired, let me in, are you ashamed of me ?" >Uncomfortable... I say that I won't let her come back alone as she doesn't even know the path to come back to downtown as she's not from the city. >She doesnt want, but I finally manage to. >On the road, she asks me if I'm gonna reveal my love to the one I have felt in love with. >I laugh, I gaze at her while she begins to throw dozen of questions. "Why ?", "Do you have something to say ?", "You know, I won't judge you." >Argh, I panick, nothing happen and we reach her house when she asks me if I want to sleep at. >Nah, I come back to home.
We got tests just week after. Next friday, we prepare a trip around a swamp, not far away from my city. All happened this night, or almost.
When someone here asks did she want my dick the answer is yes. Because if you'd made a move you'd know wouldn't you? Did she want my dick? That is a question you should find out by making moves on her, not asking the internet.
If a girl approaches you to talk once that is the fuck me sign. Remember that you freaks.
Grayson Moore
I have taken a lot of time to write all of this shit. Sorry, but a bit tired and feel depressed since this happened. Again, sorry for my english.
>Saturday night, 8PM and half, we meet up at a place. Then we go to the swamp. >We talk a bit, and reach the swamp. She becomes happy, finally. >Absolutely dark, not a single light but the moonlight. Above the swamp, there is a pontoon, we reach it. She grabs me by behind, and I had the feeling that she tried as she was pretending to play with me, to hug me. >A match of wrestling starts in the middle of nothing. Only our footsteps are heard, nothing more. >We resume our walk. Like 20 minutes after, she talks about her fetishes. In fact, I already knew it as she talked about weeks before. >Her : "I love getting slapped, stranggled. I would love to be raped in an elevator" >Me : "Hm, ok. Give me your belt." I was laughing. >She takes it off. And gives it to me. >WTF ? I ask her if she's sure. And after that, I begin to whip her ass. We laugh together. >Her : "Dumb one, will you react to my insult ?" >Me : "I won't, I'm not that kind." >Her : "What a coward !", she was joking. >Me : "What a slut." I have ever done that, wtf is happening ? Am I loosing my virginity ? >The loop around the swamp is over, we reach the city. We stop a lot of time on the road, to talk. >2 AM. >Her : "You look like a character in Naruto, the smart one who is weak and delicate but who defend himself with his brain and his strategies." > OK. We go to a market, open at night. And for first time, I buy a bottle of wine. I was like : "I'm going to loose my virginity.". >It starts raining, we go at her home. She begins to dance, me, tired, lying down on her bed. >She opens the bottle, first time I taste alcoohol, horrible, but I know where it could lead me, therefore, I drink without grumbling. >20 minutes and 2 glasses and half of wine after : Nice sensation, head is shaking but its okay. >She starts asking me, stares at me like she was wanting me
>She touches my hair : "Actually, I really like them." >Keeps gazing at me. Its okay, calm down. >Her : "You get a hard-on, nice Anony !" >Me : "Nah, its only alcoohol, don't worry." >Her : "Mh, I don't believe you !" >I go to toilet, she comes with me and asks while laughing if I want her to keep my penis straight (I thought she was asking that so I don't soil her toilets), I replied no. >Her : Pokerface, ok. Goes back on her bed. >It is like 4AM, she put her clothes off but her panties and a t-shirt. She asks me to do so, I say: "I don't want to." I thought she was asking that to get comfortable. >She invites me to join her in the quilt. I do it. >OK, not really comfortable with trousers, but its okay. >She puts the lights off, comes at me. >She snuggles into my arms. >Me to myself: "Dont worry, don't move and all will be okay." >We fall asleep, and I leave at 8 or 9AM.
I dont know what to think. We almost didnt talk together since this night. And I have to admit that I have a lot of feelings for her, but I can't express it to her. I am now afraid that she could meet some guys who from Tinder, and therefore, get rid of me. I want her back, but before that : did she want my dick ? And do you think I still have a chance ?
By the way, I talked to her just last night, and she was clearly cold... We exchanged like 10 messages, while we were talking for hours by facebook. Last thing, the very last time I saw her was Wednesday by night, and she said to me that a lot of guys are finding her attractive, that a lot are falling in love and that she wanted to love and be loved. By the way, she talked to me that she had to meet a guy from Tinder but wasn't able because she didn't have money to take the train.
I'm so confused.
Julian Jackson
WHAT A FUCKING RETARD HOLY FUCKING SHIT
Gavin Rogers
What ? Did I do something wrong ? I was never sure about her feelings and what she really wanted.
I feel like she just get rid of me since she talks to, at least, 3 guys on facebook she met from Tinder. Its over, nah ?
What do I have to do ?
Nolan Evans
she told you her sexual fetishes, she had you laying on her bed, she pointed at your erection, she undressed before you ALL of these are things women NEVER do before another man unless they want the D. If you don't want her to get rid of you, go now and tell her that you're sorry, that you were very nervous because you're still a virgin. Maybe she'll react badly, but right now she's already starting to look past you so you don't really have any better option.
Aiden Price
yes didn't even read past the subject yes
Tyler Bell
But I can't reveal my virginity, she would think I'm a liar, and that's a behavior she hates, I would lose her.
We have to go out in the next week, probably to test drugs, I don't think she'll let me get in her house. I thought yesterday that I could buy a room in a hotel. What do you think ?
Connor Torres
Fuck, I'm panicking right now.
About to take xanax, feel sick.
Camden Flores
Listen here retard. First get the fuck of this board clearly you don't belong here. Since you are so dumb im going to tell you what you are going to do. Ask her if she likes you more than a friend and if she says yes then tell her that you feel the same way. And don't tell her that you are a virgin if that lie bothers her that much.
Lincoln Gray
>But I can't reveal my virginity, she would think I'm a liar don't worry she won't, you made it painstakingly obvious (to her) that you're either a virgin or not interested in her
Christian Powell
And what if she says "Han, user, you're cute and adorable, but I like you as friend"
And my dignity ? I prefer staying confused than getting rejected. I don't care, the day we'll take drug together, I'll try to sexualize and to grab her ass and her boobs, I don't care. And I hope she'll do the rest.
Elijah Cox
If she says that she views you as a friend then move on. With the shit that happened to you i HIGHLY doubt that you will get rejected. Please don't wait like a moron and tell her right away.
Brayden Perez
>And my dignity ? it's gone already
David Scott
Please stop being a retard.
Levi Smith
Ok. I keep that in mind. We'll probably see each other tomorrow, and take drugs maybe in two or three days. I'll ask her if she likes me more than a friend.
William Ward
>Girl is half-naked on bed >Teases the guys erection >Snuggles with the guy >"So do you think she wanted my dick?" She had everything set up user, and you didn't have sex with her. I wouldn't be surprised if she took this as an insult, no wonder she became cold. >I told her that I'm not a virgin If she really believes this then her patience for your retardedness is going to be even more short-lived >She installed Tinder Yea, this is a strange thing for her to do, but I guess she did it try and tell you that she wants a relationship. Otherwise idk
You're like the oblivious protagonist from some harem anime.
Joshua Mitchell
Elle t'a clairement fait comprendre que tu lui plaisais et voulait te rendre jaloux parce que tu reagissais pas. Maintenant elle va juste croire que tu es attarde ou qu'elle t'interesse pas. Si tu as pas reussi a mettre ta queue dans cette demoiselle c'est que tu vas rester puceau toute ta vie. Pauvre merde.
I would prefer if you would have told her how you fell today but tomorrow is ok. Please user for everyone in this board don't chicken out. You have one chance and it's obvious that you like this girl. If you are afraid of getting rejected bear in mind that pain is a natural part of life and in order to gain intimacy with someone you need to pass through the pain. Getting rejected is not a reason to at least not try since going by that nihilistic mind set you should give up everything you are doing right now. I believe you in user. I believe that you will tell her how you feel and that she will feel the same way. Please escape this hellhole before it's too late. Do it for you user. Don't let yourself ask you later what would happen if you told her how you feel.
Giving you compliments. Engaging you in physical contact. Trying to make you jealous. Trying to make it seem like you might lose your chance if you don't act now.
Short of wearing nothing but crotchless panties with a giant lighted sign pointing to her vagina and saying "FUCK ME, ANONY", I'm not sure how this could've been more clear.
Mason Clark
I can't recall ever being specifically asked if I was a virgin, but most girls will bring up prior partners as a topic of conversation at some point if they're interested in you.
Robert Flores
Bruh. This girl would have gone along with anything you might have wanted to do with her. But you didn't fuck her when she wanted to be fucked, and that is generally unforgivable. So she's done.
Luckily she's into rape, so you can probably still fuck her if you wanted and she'd still be into it... eventually.
Daniel Robinson
I read every post, and having external views is really important. Thanks. J'ai meme lu le tien, le francais, merci quand meme, bien que tu m'aie insulte.
I have never got a text like yours. It warms my heart, thanks user. The night we were talking together on messenger, she said that I shouldn't reveal my feelings through text but instead in front of her. Therefore, I prefer waiting until tomorrow, or in few days. It would better.
But I swear from what I believe the most, that I won't let my chance down. I'll say what I think of her. But please, all of you : Pray for me, it could be the only chance I can get in my whole life.
A little less conversation, a little more action, please. "Reveal your feelings in front of her" by DOING SOMETHING rather than saying what you think of her.
Tip: Girls that are into rape like it more when you move slow enough to give them a chance to object, but show them it doesn't matter. That doesn't necessarily mean keep going despite their protests (particularly if it's not someone you know well), it just means making it clear that you could keep going if you wanted and there's nothing they could do about it. Then you can stop.
Elijah Foster
I didn't even read it, but you should stop being a stupid cunt.
Jose Cook
I'm glad my text helped you user. Judging by the picture you used to describe her you are very lucky. I wish I could find a girl half as beautiful as the one you like. My only request is that you make a thread after you told her how you feel so we can know what happened. Godspeed , user and God bless you.
Jonathan Martin
touchy girls are usually very easy to flirt with, so yeah, you probably could or could have fucked her.
