Why do parents allow their children to become NEETs?

Why do parents allow their children to become NEETs?

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They've lived life as NPC's on easy mode and don't really understand it. Not trying to defend Neets but they clearly need something other than "just get out there, champ!"

They think they're doing them a favor by shielding them from the harsh world out there. They think they'll grow out of it by themselves, some do but even then the damage can be massive and irreversible depending on how many years they spent like that

Slow board today, huh guys?

Earned income tax credits if you're American.

What damage does being a NEET do?

It doesn't help (((the system))) is against people like us

Over the years they tend to become lazy, complacent and lose track of whatever goals they had plus they tend to become isolated as they start to relate less and less to their peers. There's the employment gap, sure if you were a dishwasher before it's actually a change for the better but for those who were in college or just about to jump into the workforce it's something harmful.

>inb4 but you can be a healthy neet investing in stocks working out 5 days a week socializing in your free time etc
Sure, it's true. Nothing prevents them from making wise use of their time but lets be real that rarely happens.

they were terrible parents and have to live with the consequences of their bad parenting
a fitting punishment

>allow
As if they can do anything... Maybe when your son is between the ages of 0 and 18 you can change them, Maybe even 20 or 22. But what are they going to do when their children are 25+ years old or even 30+. At that point they can't do anything because you are not talking to a kid. The person is already made in that brain, its game over, the work is done. At that point the only thing they can do is what my parents have done: no more daddy car, no more daddy money (this hasn't happened to me YET), force your son to go to a psychologist/psychiatrist and threaten to kick you out of the house. So for me the parents have responsibility in the influence that they give to their children when they are kids or teenagers but once they are adults they can't do anything, just threats.

>or even 30+.
This is a myth. I don't believe anyone is a Neet or robot for so long.

hahaha good joke.

Originality 100%.

>But what are they going to do when their children are 25+ years old or even 30+.
Evict them? It's doable but imho it's a dick move as often it was the parents fault in first place things got so bad. Does no one remember that long haired bearded neet who legally got kicked out of his parents and even talked in one of Alex Jones shows? I can't remember when it happened, maybe 6 months ago or maybe 2 years.

Something like this. My parents are self made so I think they thought I will figure it out on my own. Meanwhile I was always perfectly content by living among the four walls. My sisters came out okay but they were always active. It think there are both genetic and parenting factors in it for this reason. I was always extremely passive I never really cared about anything outside. I never had friends in school, I guess even kids found me weird.

When mom divorced my dad I got a stepfather (way too late and he never wanted to teach me anyway). He was pretty shocked how much was I neglected by my parents. That is the only proof I have I'm not crazy when I think it wasn't my fault coming out like this (still, I blame myself of course). I'm dumb so it takes me a long time to figure things out. Now as a 35 years old I think my sisters were in similar situations but since they got a boyfriend for free (because, you know they are girls) they could mature.

What did they do to you that was so terrible?

Is there an update on the guy? Is he adjusting to the world?

they didn't raise me into a successful productive member of society

>My parents are self made
the logic of parents like this baffles me

>hey became great and succesful human beans thanks to our early struggle and life experience with working from the bottom, surely making sure my kids dont struggle in life and learn jackshit will be good for him!

Is this your first day on Jow Forums? kek

It doesn't matter if it was their fault or not at that point. You are on your own. Period.

Look I was writing a big text to explain many things about what things can be their fault and what not but who cares at this point... It doesn't matter anymore. It is what it is, nothing more. I'm an adult and I'm on my own, I should be able to maintain myself and I can't so I'm a pathetic thing, a parasite, period.

I'm not the guy you responded to:
This logic keeps me from overcoming anything despite I realized my problems. What is the point. I'm so behind everyone already I could never catch up.

Are you making an irony of what I said ir saying something about you?

What was his name even?

>Is he adjusting to the world?
Probably working at McDonalds or Amazon, though I think he had a degree in some shit.

lmao I agree with you but I don't see how your reply is related with what I said, you asked what could be done and I gave an example that happened at least once, I'm sure most neets would agree to a simpler more mutually benefical deal instead of taking things to courts though.

>but who cares at this point... It doesn't matter anymore. It is what it is, nothing more. I'm an adult and I'm on my own, I should be able to maintain myself and I can't so I'm a pathetic thing, a parasite, period.
Exactly, it's excellent that you have that mindset user. That's how I kind of got out of it, still working on it but I can't allow my life to stagnate for any longer. Really blame shifting is fucking pointless at that point, I shouldn't have mentioned it.

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How about a severe lashing?

>b-but muh human rights

this plus

>grow apart from friends until you can't relate to them anymore
>no money means no room for hobbies or savings
>no exercise or sleep causes health problems

don't fall for the NEET meme

>be wagecuck
>no time and energy to socialise
I think if a NEET has friends and has some money he can easily maintain his friendships maybe making new ones is much harder tho
But overall if someone can be a NEET he should be and spend his time with things he likes and finds joy in them.

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>NEET
>Maintaining friends.

Maybe if they are also NEETs.

Over time you get really isolated from society. I haven't spoken to an actual real life person that's not my family in over a year.

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Many didn't choose to be neet it chose them

Its not the 1950 where your handed a easy good paying job with tour high school sweetheart

I'll stop being neet if some boomer offers me a decent job where I can move out

Untill then then can shut the fuck up

>if some boomer offers me a decent job
Mister Job is not going to come to your house Mister NEET.

Nobody apart from maybe your parents and brothers care about you.

They didn't do anything. Thats the problem.