Why am I horny when looking at internet pictures but can't get horny around decent looking girls who are sitting next to me :(
Why am I horny when looking at internet pictures but can't get horny around decent looking girls who are sitting next...
Elijah Scott
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Jose Cooper
Same desu. I think cutting down on porn can help
Jaxon Roberts
Probably because you fap 3+ times a day and can only get off to fat black trannies gaping men
Christian King
Doomers are such faggots muh nightwalk muh beepboop music
Samuel Phillips
do noporn, dont need to do nofap though
completely caused by porn and mass over-stimulation
Easton Perez
You're legitimately addicted to porn, wean yourself off of it. Porn misrepresents how most women look, dress, and act, so being exposed specifically to that and having limited contact with actual women just subconsciously fucks with you.
Dominic Howard
i hope we dont get banned for being off topic but ive fap'd to some really ugly people before but wouldnt even consider doing anything like it irl
Justin Brooks
How long do I have to avoid porn to become normal again?
Isaac Bennett
because your crippling fear of rejection and lack of self-esteem puts you in "fight or flight" mode anytime you are around a woman you are attracted to. you overanalyze every little thing you do and are unable enter a parasympathetic state which is necessary for sexual arousal. the reason you are able to become aroused when looking at porn is because you are familiar and comfortable with it and there is no danger there.
Matthew Myers
Probably forever. Porn caused this and will cause it again if you aren’t careful
Thomas Wright
Does pictures of women in skimpy clothing count as porn? Can I call to it if I'm doing no porn?
Jacob Russell
you need to stay off porn but it takes around 2-6 weeks to get your mind back to normal. once you have gone a few months without porn if you look at it again you will realize how extreme a stimulation it is and what it was doing to you.
Christopher Reyes
Try to get a hobby to keep yourself busy so you don't end up trying to kill your time by fapping out of boredom, I had that problem when I fapped like 4 times a day. Now I rarely watch porn and limit beating off since doing it too much fucks your hormone balance.
Oliver White
Also, if it’s caused by watching trannies fuck each other or black girls shitting in each others mouths, just stop watching that. Regular porn may work if you consume it responsibly
Julian Kelly
>because your crippling fear of rejection and lack of self-esteem puts you in "fight or flight" mode anytime you are around a woman you are attracted to. you overanalyze every little thing you do and are unable enter a parasympathetic state which is necessary for sexual arousal
That may be the case too. What would you recommend as a way to deal with this issue?
Brody Gomez
I was with a girl last week and I couldn't get fully erect, my dick was like 90% erect maybe, sex was mediocre at best. Watching porn makes my dick go through the roof.
Fucking jews.
Samuel Lewis
hang out and talk to girls without the sole purpose of the encounter being pursuing sex. depending on where you are at in life just talking to a girl might be a stressful event for you. "practice" with store clerks/waitresses. just small chit chat type stuff. quitting porn will make this easier as well because you'll start seeing them as people instead of objects.
women are pretty sexually aggressive nowadays and odds are one will come on to you. when the time comes don't worry about things like not lasting long enough or being good enough. just enjoy it for what it is.
Lincoln Hughes
I stopped watching porn for about a month and when a girl sat next to me on a plane my penis got rock hard and her smell was intoxicating. she wasn't even hot. the entire plane ride my body was screaming at me to lean over and kiss her and to snuggle while she was sleeping.
Brody Bennett
Should I treat girls from Tinder or something like that the same way? I've met one recently and I thought to myself that I have to initiate on everything but I just don't feel good without that arousal, even though she is decent looking. So basically chill and be patient?
Dylan Johnson
>muh beepboop music
don't talk shit about the beepboop
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Jeremiah Martinez
opposite for me
Jackson Lee
YOU UNIRONICALLY HAVE CONDITIONED YOUR BRAIN TO GET AROUSED TO PIXEL PUSSY
Luis Bennett
You are a porn addict
You literally trainned your brain to feel horny and be aroused by things on a screen
Lincoln Edwards
Does it matter? Or you stop it or you dont
There is no going back
Jordan Johnson
reminder that porn is cuck simulation
Nathan Lewis
The fuck this is unironically good. Got any more to share?
Isaiah Edwards
t. zoomer
Aaron Cox
sure. just go get drinks or do something you enjoy with them. don't be a chump and go over the top for some expensive date night at a fancy restaurant though. once you're out with her there's no obligation to bang. you can always say no if you aren't feeling it. you just need to learn how to be comfortable around women. it might take a while but eventually you'll be able to relax and not give af and then boom you'll have no problem feeling arousal.
but like everyone else said quit looking at porn. jerk off once or twice a week or so if you want but don't do it to porn and only do it when you're already horny (don't try to force yourself to get an erection just to masturbate)
Zachary Lopez
All of their stuff is pretty fucking dope
This one's my favorite, opening track of their current album
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Luke Howard
If you're watching some weird kinky shit, cut that out first and roll back to vanilla stuff. Then cut down the vanilla exposure to once or twice a week. Then cut it out completely and try to just stick to still images/your imagination for a few months. Bonus points if you just stop almost entirely (don't nofap though, shit's gay).