My friend could quit drinking, got into shape, fixed his life, and I absolutely claim this is because he has a girlfriend. I'm struggling with all of those things and I can't get it done because I don't have a girlfriend motivating me. He likes to compete against me and see who gets their affairs in order first, and this triggers me. It's not fair. He doesn't have inceldom holding him back.
You probably don't understand this logic until you start considering what a tremendous mental asset it is to have someone shower you with love, understanding, support, validation, sex... and then compare this to the state where you have none of that. It's like being a bodybuilder but eating nothing but bread. Hard, nearly impossible. People always ask me why I got into university so late and shit like this, and I'm disappointed in this level of ignorance. They should be amazed that an incel got into uni instead of just killing himself. Who the fuck succeeds in life without love? Absolutely nobody.
You're only this obsessed with love become you have none. Once you have someone loving, you'll realise that you've been over-valuing it. It's nice to have a gf, but it doesn't automatically transform your life.
Christopher Mitchell
Fucking hate it when a dating normie wants to start a gym progress competition with me or something similar. As a normie he can afford good nutrition, better gym memberships, has a car to drive him there, and has gym company in the form of a girlfriend. He also fucks a lot which boosts his test, and he wants to please his gf so of course he has more reasons to be in shape.
REE.
Jacob Hill
True, but it gives you so much more free time and energy now that you're not crying after women 8 hours a day.
Benjamin Gonzalez
I have virgin friends who don't really care about women at all. Sure, they spend their time on video games instead, but the point is that you don't need a woman to stop thinking about women.
James Cooper
>Sure, they spend their time on video games instead
I hate video games and other incel shit. I'm pretty much a full fledged normie who exercises, goes to work etc. with the exception that I'm a 30-year-old virgin.
Easton Morgan
This, gf can make your life even worse than it was, juice is not worth the sqeeze these days, just focus on yourself bro
Jaxon Russell
You're just a fucking idiot mate.
Xavier Campbell
God created a wonderful mechanism for this exact problem, and it is called "insanity." You will come full circle eventually; You are born fine, you become miserable and unproductive because no gf over time, and finally, you become severely mentally ill and enjoy the benefits of a psychotic brain. Once you are insane, you will stand above the normies and be walking on sunshine all day every day. The freedom and the skewed perception of reality is just outstanding. Your own pain becomes something you laugh at. You will find yourself unconsciously saying "fuck off" to an elderly man who says "excuse me". If you ever get in a bar fight or something, you will find you don't even produce adrenaline anymore and you will be stifling laughter as you hurl your fists at some stranger with a strength and looseness you didn't expect. And finally, ironically, all this may actually lead you to get a GF, though your brain will be in a completely different, skewed plane of consciousness and you will no longer care
You can absolutely 100% do those things without having a GF.
Having a girlfriend is not motivating. Women need a lot of attention and require maintenance. She can't go to the gym for you or force you to eat healthy. All she can offer is """"support"""" which is bullshit and doesn't exist.
Having a GF is a luxury. It is supposed to make you happy. If you're trying to lose weight and improve your life, you want to cut out luxuries.
The idea is that you make an investment by doing things that suck with the hope that it will provide long term benefits to your quality of life.
If you have no GF, then that just means you're not as happy as someone with a GF. You don't always need to be happy. In fact, you dont ever need to be happy. All you can do is try to improve your own happiness.
Lincoln Rogers
I have been going to the gym for fucking years with no GF.
You're not fit because you're a pussy. You dont need a fucking GF to go to the gym.
Ian Rogers
Holy hell you sir are a pathetic excuse for a "human". There is truly no hope for you, you have the mindset of a normie instead of being better, all you do is complain. Either improve or die, simple as that
Benjamin White
>You're not fit because you're a pussy. You dont need a fucking GF to go to the gym.
Do you study math or science? If not, you're a weak pussy.
Luke Powell
What the fuck lol no, women are a massive drain on your time, energy, and money. This is what virgins don't get, women are a fucking hassle. Most of the time putting up with their shit is hardly worth the pussy, not to mention the frequency at which you two fucks seems to always taper off due to the woman thinking she has you netted. This is where the idea comes from that you need to keep your woman guessing and insecure, so she doesn't stop putting in the effort. But, I digress. Point is it's usually better value for your buck and sex quality to just get a prostitute anyway.
Bentley Reyes
Oh man, I forget to clear my type from the name field all the time. Sorry for your embarrassment, fren.
Michael Harris
I have never gotten along with a woman. It always takes acting and putting up with something I don't wanna put up with, like her being a vegan. I can pretend for a few months that I don't think she's an idiot but eventually I spill it out.
Aiden Myers
Women are a pipedream.
They never exist in real life as they exist in your head. Nature counts on this illusion to keep our species going.
Luis Ward
You Dont need a girlfriend for everything. Just get ur ass Up by urself with your friend and think of coochie later. Nobody wants a social derelict anyway and If one happens to get one it becomes difficult quickly and there is then more fuel for fem-hate
I have no gf and I'm currently in the process of doing all that, still working on the whole "fix life" part but gotten into a ha it of working out and stopped drinking. Babysteps user, don't take on more then you can create a routine for. Instead of drinking every weekend for example, drink only 2 weekends or set a limit "this bottle has to last this month" etc. I do agree that all of this would be 100 times easier if I had someone cheering me on and showering me with love and affection. But I do not so I had to pick up myself.
David Phillips
LOL.
Yes, as a matter of fact I'm a mathematician and involved in research on diophantine equations
