Why is there such a stigma towards men being all alone in public...

Being so detached from the social fabric and in the same time desperate for company that you choose to go out on your own is quite rare and is treated like a disease.

Gangs of niggers only my bruh

there isnt. i am alone 100% of the time and no one gives a single flying fuck. I see other men who are alone every single day and no one cares. Why are you just making stuff up?

>It's all in your head. Just stop giving a fuck bro. Nobody thinks you're weird.

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i was walking to the bus stop after work and this drunk retard put his drink on the ground and squared up with some random ape nigger while he was walking with a black female.

the nigger straight up punched him in the face and i just shrugged at all 3 of them and ran across the street.

there's your stigma.

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Because antisocial loners like you are very weird and creepy and you make normal functioning people feel uncomfortable. If you don't have friends to go out with, then that says a lot about your character. For all we know you could be one of those mass shooters, we have the right to be suspicious of you.

its proof that you are sufficiently valued to have relationships
without that obvious demonstration of value (lets face it this is about how you're perceived if you approach a woman "wrong") she can't be sure that you're not worthless

It's embarrassing to go the movies alone. I used to do it all the time until I was about 17 and got really self conscious about it

OP I can very much relate.

This is entirely your own issue. I go to the movies, go to restaurants, and go shopping alone regularly and never feel embarrassed about it. Virtually no one ever even notices me.

I used to feel that way then I realized that it's mostly in my head and I'm just insanely paranoid. Now I don't give a fuck.

>ran across the street.
Why did I just laugh at that

Generally you're alone for a reason and it shows. You can be alone and not stand out much at all, I've had plenty of experience because of work dragging me all over the country by my lonesome.

>It's embarrassing to go the movies alone.
anywhere that is a public function is embarrassing.

>going to places alone is just as noticeable as a middle aged man tucking a cycling shirt into tight stretchy pink yoga pants

Nope. People will actually come up to you and ask you why you're just sitting there all alone, nigger I don't want to be around people.

>haviing that little observation skills
Must be nice, running though the world without noticing anything.

Well I think he meant in the west as in whites.

Only blacks and arabs group rape. asians and whites are solo hunters like he said

>constantly expected to do very specific movements and gestures with your hands and face. Or else you're some kind of rapist.
what the fuck are you talking about

Are you ugly? You're right it's my own issue but I think it's easier for ugly people to blend in the background. If you're half decent looking it looks weird. I notice people looking at me though and I feel like they're thinking "why is he alone, there must be something wrong with him"

I know, I hate having to eat somewhere alone and you see groups of friends hanging out and laughing I'm just right there like a fuckin loser eating alone

No, retard. No one gives a fuck what you're doing. Only self-absorbed morons think that anyone gives a flying fuck about you, or gives you more than a passing thought in their day. Most people are too preoccupied with what you think of them. Understanding this is the key to being good in social situations too, btw

Just as 'normal functioning people' are weird and creepy, walking in herds and acting like irrational animals.

lol I used to think like you. the reality is that 99% of the time no one notices you if you're "normal" aka have no obvious deformites, are dressed properly, have prope hygene, aren't staring at people, etc.

I once believed this "no one cares that you're alone" meme. So I went to the resaturant by myself once, and two waitresses were laughing at me.
How do I know that? Because there were other people in the resaurant, and the waitresses were acting all normal towards them, but wnehever they came to my table, they were visibly snickering and holding their laugh, and I've also caught them standing behind the bar, looking at me and laughing.
I went for a walk once, by myserlf of course. When normies at my wageslave job asked me what I did on weekend, I told them that I went for a nice, long walk. One female colleague overheard this and said "jesus, you walk alone? wow, you're such a creepy looser, haha".
And no, I'm not a neckbeard, I'm not over- or underweight. I shower daily, shave regurarly, use Armani perfume, wear designer, fitting clothes, I've got a normie haircut (I go to a barber every 2-3 weeks), I don't stare at people like a retard, I don't slouch (one of my normie colleagues said recently that I've got a perfect posture).
Going outside alone is not acceptable.

Better question. Why do you even give a fuck?
I dine alone every Friday after work and don't give a shit. Stop acting like other people judgement of you has any effect on you as a person.

>he doesn't know about the no singles policy

And on top of all these, a 5G tower was installed about 30 meters away from my residence not long ago and my hair and teeth are already falling out, can sleep only 4 hours at most at night, my skin feels itchy and I'm shaking a bit.
But fortunately I had plenty of tinfoil at home so I covered the walls with it and the effects are already wearing off. No metal roof yet though.

i know this feel so deeply. in college i used to get mcdonalds to go and eat in a secluded parking lot in my car; making sure that wherever i parked was maximally obscured by other objects and away from potential foot traffic.

I don't live in a residence, my teeht are OK, my hairline is good, I sleep well most of the time because usually I go to sleep drunk, my skin is fine, and I'm only shaking after I drink a lot of energy drinks.
I can't put tinfoil in my room because I don't own it, I just rent it, and I don't think my landlord is goint to put metal on the roof anytime yet.

The waitresses were giggly because they thought you were cute. Your coworker was just teasing you. She probably thinks you're cute, too. It's all perspective, user.

I have made the mistake of aking out said coworker once. It wasn't out of the blue, I thought we had a pretty good thing going. When I asked her out, she laughed me off. Turns out, she only needed my help with giving her a lift to work from time to time. I know, I should've known better.
Once, I have heard her talking with a workplace Chad (who I think kind of likes me) about some guys at work or something like that. They didn't see me because I was putting something on a shelf at the other side, but I have heard Chad mentioning my name: "and what about user?", to which the female colleague replied "eww, he's disguisting".
Other time, the female and our shift manager were talking. My workplace is close to their desks, so I wasn't eavesdroping, they weren't exactly talking quiet either. They were talking about our shjift, and the female colleague said:
"yeah, I like everybody on our shift, execpt maybe user", and se said it while looking at me, knowing well that I've heard that. The sift manager said nothing to that, I just looked at the colleague and then kept my head down.
So I know for a fact that she's not teasing me, she genuinly dislikes me.
And the waitresses didn't think I was cute, no female ever did. I'm 27 and no woman ever has shown any signs of liking me. Once, I thought that maybe I'm too autistic to notice the signals, so I've read all about the kind of stuff woemn do when they like the guy, and I've reralised that I was right, no female ever has shown intertest in me.
In fact, whenever I'm talking with one at work (because I have to), event though it's essential work-related stuff, they visibly don't want to talk with me and want to finish the conversation as quickly as possible. My male colleagues, however, seem to like me, or at least tolerate me, so it's not like I'm giving of creepy vibes to everyone, just women.

Humans are irrational.

>and I've also caught them standing behind the bar, looking at me and laughing.
lol that's so fucked up but funny at the same time. You should have passed by them and farted

If you're that self conscious about doing shit in public by yourself, just a wear a suit and pretend you're important lmao. People still won't give a fuck but at least you'll feel better about your retarded ass self. The shitty suit will give you confidence. Don't worry, no one is going to come up to you and ask you what you're doing.

Well, I didn't feel like farting at the time, as soon as I've realised that they make fun of me, I just wanted to finish my food and leave as soon as possible.

you know that's actually a pretty good idea

I'm just giving you shit, it's messed up what they did. I also hate eating alone because I feel uncomfortable that's me. I've never had anyone actually laugh at me though, that's harsh. Have you returned to eat there since?

>people think i'm weird because i'm attractive
kys

i always eat alone but i never go to a fucking sit-down restaurant that takes 30 mins to give you food

apparently, they do it deliberately. they purposefully take a long time to make your food to give you time to talk to the people you come with. fuck that!

fast food all the way. you can choose healthy fast food, well, as healthy as any other place

i would never pay to see a movie by myself, i prefer to watch at home.

i literally only leave my place to eat, buy groceries, work, and lift weights tho.
what the fuck else would i leave my place for? i can't think of anything

This is fucking true, normies will be up in arms reporting hobos for the crime of existing in a public space.

It's fine to go out alone, but you are at far greater risk of being preyed upon. I finish work after midnight in the drinking area of town. Only ever been chased by hooligans once & I was on my bike & got away but would feel alot safer with mates around. If people think I look weird good, less chance of interaction, I do dress a lot like a homless person which reduces my risk of being mugged. A lot of people out on the town drinking are weak rich kids (no shit $10 a drink in australia) & not a threat anyway. It's the packs of the rough hoodlums that scare me.

Some hobos are fine, had one sleeping outside the work in the alleyway, cunt was littering, making a hell of a mess, sleeping with his legs out on the drive sitting up behind a corner of a wall, lucky the boss didnt criple him when he drives in at 3am to do the baking & even shit infront of the door, Had to tell coworkers not to feed him, He didn't get reported or nothing, but seriously it's not like people are reporting or disliking homeless for simply existing, it's how some of them expect not to put in any effort or take care of themselves or others at all, go to a fucking toilet, don't shit infront of a door fuck, go camp out of the city away from all the cold concrete & don't linger like your fucking stench does & the criminality of some homelessness aswell fuck. I've been homeless on & off, know others who have had similar situations who weren't so fucked & have met a few fuckin cooked cunts.

well no shit implying that:

>normal functioning people exists

Don't blame if I'm autistic.

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All you have to do is go there with a phone/laptop/book and stare at it with a stern face as if you have something important to do and no one will look at you weird.

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Sorry user try again people see loners as weird and creepy.

The world of the drone normalfags. I do what I want, fuck 'em

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Im on a business trip and just ate at a restaurant alone the other night since know literally 0 people here, I admit I felt a little weird

>it's just in your head
Don't EVER listen to this bullshit. Save yourself a lot of years of confusion and just go with what your gut tells you. If I could go back in time, that's the first thing I'd tell myself. Can't stress enough how important it is. The whole goddamn world lies to you about EVERYTHING because they're living in a totally different fucking world.

I've gone out alone and been rejected by girls to my face. One time these random group of guys I met, he asked me to go up to this tall chick and make small talk. It was weird obviously but I'm drinking and wasting time so why not. Yeah it didn't work but that's how I am. Honestly it doesn't bother me to do dumb shit. But I'd rather not if you know what I mean..

You can get by it with the pet Falcon

>and no I'm not underweight

Massive fat ass detected

get drunk or take xanax. Both are proven to lower anxiety levels

pmuch

lol it's because I'm alone idiot. I've noticed it's easier to blend into the background if you're ugly and that's my opinion. Read the thread you ugly fuckin troll

what reality do you live in where random people go up and go WHY ARE YOU HERE BY YOURSELF YOU NEED TO LEAVE!

nigga stop telling lies on the internet for cool points with your 7th grade buddies you're sitting with

who would do that? go on the internet and tell lies on a defective thong sniffing forum

There's less stigma than you think, you're confusing the "unwelcome guest at a private party" stigma with the "single dude at the movies" stigma. Do whatever you want in public, if anyone mocks you then confront them.

Men like are free in a sense that you'll never be.