/vgn/ - Virgin General

If I havent had sex in 10 years, can I just be a virgin again. I feel awkward and clueless about it like I am one .

>26
>v
>worng circles of friends, where I don't want to copulate, yet love to hug them when drunk. Dated one when I was 16, but was scared because no experience and then, without the love, I saw how fat and ugly she really was. Was glad nothing happened there, not even kissing. At 25 I dated another one of another circle of friends, held hands a few hours, kissed her twice at the end of the day. Got rejected, and was extremely happy with it, she was cute n shit, but her family and personality was something I never want to see again.

You're not balding at the age of 19 c'mon it's all in your head

depends how old you are my dude

No you can't roastie. There is no such thing as a born again virgin and non virginity doesn't have an expiration date.

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>20
>no, i've kissed and cuddled with a girl under the stars
>Scared of getting her pregnant. It would have ruined my life on the slight off chance that it happened.
No ragrets.

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>Get told I have a cute baby face (not in a chad way)
>I very often act childish; apologize and thank for the stupidest things and women keep calling me cute.
It's not attraction, but it's better than having everyone disgusted with you. Still, my manhood is shattered.

Nigger I started balding at 17

>28
>ate pussy once
>insecure about dick size and have hair on entire dick

What was it like to eat a girl out for the first time and then not fuck her afterwards? Did you do good enough of a job? Was it difficult?

>28
>yes
>because I'm ugly as fuck desu

No it actually came kind of natural because I've seen so much porn and shit.
She said she was cumming when I put two fingers and weating her out. I was kind if tipsy because I drank a little to ease my nerves, so parts of it are blurry.

She said "I need you inside of me", but I couldn't get it up because I'm such a loser. This was 4 years ago.

>She said she was cumming when I put two fingers and weating her out. I was kind if tipsy because I drank a little to ease my nerves, so parts of it are blurry.
Good job champ. How long did you eat her out for?

I have not had any sex (or female attention) since November. Am I a virgin again?

Not sure, probably like 5-8 minutes? I fingered her again after before getting dressed and leaving.

You're a humblebragging piece of shit.

>28
>KV, even in middle school 15 years ago girls would give out hugs to everyone
>no reason really other than I'd rather stay living with my mom and use the computer 12 hours a day. I'm not ugly, at least to girls online. I dropped out of middleschool and stayed a neet for 15 years and still am. Zero friends and zero attempt to socialize in rl. Decently wealthy family that doesnt have to worry about bills for the rest of their life.

Thirty, feel like i dodged a bullet honestly.
Women are vampires.

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At what age does it start getting easier?

>24
>No
>Abused senpai

Bro I'm serious, I watched a few episodes of friends and when they don't have sex for 6 months it's like a big deal.

29
I'm just a V
Ugly

I got an 8/10 4'11 elf gf off okc and she's coming over to stay for a whole month in August

I finally made it guys

21
Yeah
Anxiety, recently hikikomori

18
khhv
dont believe in sex, kissing or holding hands before marriage. bad at socializing and picking up social cues. three guys have shown interest in the past 6 months but they get bored of me you know

I stopped caring all together around my mid twenties, but that doesn't apply to everyone obviously.
Just look at all the unhappy normals trapped in relationships with kids they can't support, drowning in debt and suddenly our situation doesn't seem so bad.

>Turned twenty 2 months ago.
>I have had a hug weeks ago, when I was drunk. But, still kissless and virgin.
>I'm going out of almost a decade of desired isolation, but since I'm out and socialize, a lot of women have shown interest for myself, but I don't know how to answer back...

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19
obviously
No girls in uni, no friend girls, don't go to parties

Why don't you guys just pay 50 bucks for a prostitute? I can get laid normally and even I paid for a hooker a couple of times.

Almost 21
V
Been going out on dates with girls off tinder and bumble, I usually just cuddle and kiss them, I tell them I don't want to have sex with someone I don't feel attached to which is true, but then we end up drifting apart after a couple weeks because I dont talk much and I guess girls like to talk or whatever. No sex for me I guess.

I have to have an emotional connection to someone in order to get a hard on
Also my dick is small

I am not interested in sex. This might seem strange to someone like you, maybe I find enjoyment in it, but as a virgin I am not curious enough. Why does it seem strange for you to have your first time with someone you know, that even likes you?

How many times do you have to go on a date with a girl from tinder before she cuddles with you? Do you live alone?

29
yes
don't care about relationships of any kind
if I lost both my hands I might

Bro surely its ok to hold hands with a girl

>age
22
>are you a KHV
Yes
>Why are you a virgin
I am indian

23
KV
Studied a STEM subject with few girls, went to a university where everyone was of higher class than me, spergy, short, meh face, light hair, skelly. Went out a a few times with a girl I met on bumble. Hugged briefly a couple of times. Didn't know how to escalate and she had no initiative either, conversation dried up.

Still trying the dating apps. Get some matches, maybe 60% of intros get a a reply. On the rare occasion I get a second reply the conversation goes nowhere, I can't read their mind and tell what sequence of letters, spaces and numbers I have to send to them to make them want to meet up with me.

>trannies absolutely destroy Jow Forums for good
>they ruin discord too
>then they invade /britfeel/ and start tripfagging

Imagine having the AUDACITY to expect us to treat you well after doing this. There is an ENTIRE board for you people, there are also multiple subr*ddits and forums for you to go. Just fuck off.

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>19
>I'm KV girls hug me sometimes reason Down here
>Girls talk to me like im little children bcs my voice sounds gay af and im small 168 cm. Some even think im cute

>Be me
>19 year old virgin
>Decide i don't want to be a 20 year old virgin
>Set up a date with a cheap hooker in my city
>Go to her place
>Super fucking nervous
>She starts sucking me but i can't get hard
>Tries to put it in but tells me it's not hard
>I go to the bathroom
>Desperately try to get myself hard
>Hear her laughing from the other side of the door
>Come out of the bathroom and she basically tells me to leave
>Almost walk out without my shoes

The shame of that night haunts me to this day and i feel like if i ever get another chance with a woman i'll just be thinking about this time. If you're thinking about doing a hooker guys, trust me, don't.

>28
>Yes
>I am annoyed/bored with everyone I meet and haven't found anyone that I have liked enough to even try. Also I stay home and play video games all day.

>15
Jesus Christ you absolute retard
See you in 4 years

I held hands briefly with a guy for the first time a month ago and my heart was beating so fast and I can't stop thinking about it. problem is that i wasn't necessary interested in him and he had different beliefs

KHV but almost losing virginity 15 yo normie larp nigger

22
yes
Introverted, kind of weird, speech impediment, male-dominated interests, social skills limited to a few jokes, don't know how to flirt or small talk

Did you at least get a refund?

>dont believe in sex, kissing or holding hands before marriage
Based and redpilled

>26
>KV
>Massive insecurity and social anxiety

>age
22
>are you a KHV
only V. I've kissed, held hands, cuddled and fingered pussy
>Why are you a virgin
PIED and getting so black pilled I'll probably go volcel.

>20
>just a KV
>half because of my views on sex half because I never had a relationship but I try not to dwell on that too much

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What are your views on sex?

That you should not have it unless you are at the very least deep into a long term relationship

>22
>Yes
>I don't care about socializing and no one will be going out of their way to look for me, i'm ok with being a virgin, i just want to be alone

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>18
> Kissless hugless handholdless eyecontactless conversationless
>Too high IQ and eccentric to relate to 82 IQ females in my country. Also scared to death of rejection.

Enter every conversation with the mindset that the other people knows something that you don't, and that you can learn something from anyone you converse with. Your current mindset is a losing one, no matter how intelligent you are.

>19
>not khv
>i'm afraid of sex

27 year old virgin here. I lost my kiss virginity but that's only because some schizo forced herself on me at the mental hospital. I'm entirely incompetent, clumsy and dull, and it's extremely unlikely that I can change.

>And that you can learn something from anyone you converse?
I hate to sound smug, but what if this is just objectively untrue? I can learn a lot from older people but those in my generation do not contribute anything of meaning to me when I interact with them

>19
>KV
>Why are you a virgin
Socially awkward, people seem to be uncomfortable when I'm present. Social anxiety, never made a move. Legit scared of girls. Also in the last 2 years my looks have been declinig drastically. (Balding, acne, pale skin) And my confidence is at an all time low.

Odds that you know everything that another person your age knows is objectively impossible. Even if you can't learn anything from the other person, listen keenly as if you may learn something from them. Also not all knowledge gained from a conversation is verbal; study their body language and demeanor, how they pace a conversation, how they control where a conversation goes. Life isn't all about being smart/intelligent -- such a major factor to happiness and fulfillment is learning how to connect and interact with other people.

Bro that's fucked. Why didn't you get hard? Were you nervous? Does that happen often? Should have killed that bitch

At least they hug you and acknowledge your existence.

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>age
19
>are you a KHV
Yes
>Why are you a virgin
I want to be, volcel, essentially. I'll take pride in being one of the few adult men to die a KHHV, I think of it as a pedigree of sorts.

Am I still a virgin?
Yesterday I had sex with a mtf trans
That means I've essentially had sex with a man
Still haven't touched a girl before.
Feels weird man

How old are you, how did you meet her(him), how was it? Please go into details this is a very interesting post.

>26
>khv
>never cared about it too much apart novelty thing. I think im either incapable of loving/receiving love or im repressing that desire so hard it left my consciousness

you dont even have to exercise just reading the threads will help you mentally a lot
r9k wont
especially read the mire threads
even if you dont believe me please at least try to go there and if you wont like it you can always go back to Jow Forums

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>especially the mire threads
Whats the fucking point of these i only see people looking for validation, its like every other social media but on a smaller and more "personal" scale

>age
20
>are you a KHV
kissless handholdless virgin
>Why are you a virgin
during my life whole only once i have fallen in love. it obviously didn't work out. since then i've never felt anything like it. when it comes to sex it doesn't bother me my hand is more than enough.
but it still hurts when i think of her

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>18
>just a virgin (not kissless or handheldless)
>because i'm a dumb fucking retard that doesn't act on shit even though women are blatantly interested in me

Just 1, movie dates work great

I'm 24
I contacted her(him) through an escort website.
It was the best think I've experienced in my life.
It wasn't the sex that was the best, although it was pretty good.
It was the realization that I was starving for physical intimacy. The kissing and cuddling was such a wonderful and fulfilling feeling.
I was overwhelmed with emotion.

>26
>Yes to kiss no to handhold
>Because I don't give a shit. If I have sex I have sex but other than that I just... don't care.

forgot to link who i was responding to

I hope she actually real user

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>22
>Kingdom hearts V
>Don't try enough I guess. I'm really just a misfit that doesn't like normie shit and am scared of being judged by others

Was she (he) male-looking or very passing? Please describe her (him).

By saying you don't want to have sex with them because you aren't attached and then creating no attachment or interested by not talking will just push them away

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look up ts melanie on pornhub
she was really cool and very professional
10/10 would recommend

>32
>KV
>lost sex drive ~4 years ago but even before that I did not try very hard, had a opportunity for gf in high school with girl who confessed to me but I turned her down (she was taller than me).

inb4 underagefag posts and gets banned

>21
>kissless handholdless virgin
>insecurity, severe anxiety, never had any friends and still don't.
It's never been about having sex. I just want to have someone not look at me with utter disgust and contempt.

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Holy fuck you lucky bastard. How much did it cost you? Describe what you did. Did she fuck you or only you fucked her? Only anal or also oral? How was it with condom on?

>19
>hugless,handholdless,kissless virgin
>fear of rejection,fear of being made fun of,fear of failure,fear of not being good enough for her
Why would any girl want to be with me when she could be with one of the countless men that are bigger,stronger,more charismatic,more handsome or more intelligent than I?

It's all based on stuff that isn't true for me. This meme about enjoying exercise is just gay and ruins Jow Forums for me. I fucking hate lifting and I'm almost starting to think that endorphins are a meme because of all the shit about endorphins making exercise enjoyable.

Endorphins is only from cardio for fuck's sakes and it does NOT make exercise enjoyable until they actually release which takes long, and the release is short lived. And so on.

Exercise for health. Exercise always feels like crap.

If endorphins are only from cardio, what's the thing that allegedly makes lifting enjoyable?
I've never encountered a muscular guy that didn't claim to enjoy it.

No one is looking at you that way, it's in your head. That perception is a symptom of clinical depression, you should get help.

The pump, for heaven's sake. Pump is when blood rushes to a muscle and you can feel an oddly pleasurable "pain," which I know is a contradiction but still.

Therapists cost a small fortune to book an appointment, and I don't have the money.

are you in america? that fucking sucks