Feminine women (i.e. attractive women) are attracted to masculine men.
Period.
That's literally it.
Not looks, money, or status. They are attracted to and aroused by certain masculine behaviors. It's hardwired into their brains kind of like how popping a woody when seeing an attractive naked woman is hardwired into your brain.
>B-but, most women, men, and society tells me it's all about looks, money, status They're all wrong and everybody sucks at girls.
Society wants you to think those things so you can spend your valuable God given time working long hours to seek a promotion and buying expensive gym memberships and the $300 shoes you think you need to get a bitch. A lot of companies benefit from your misunderstanding of how to attract a woman.
Also you believe these things because books, the media, movies, etc push that narrative. Girls fall for it too and will often go after a good looking rich guy and being confused when they are not attracted to him.
Another thing is that masculine men are more likely than their more feminine counterparts to have higher status and money. They are also perceived to be better looking by females. Correlation is not causation.
>But my """studies""" Scientists don't know what to look for. If they did they would be getting their dicks wet instead of trying to figure out how. Also the things that attract women are hard (if not impossible) to measure and quantify (certain behaviors and masculinity as a whole) so they look to meme shit like looks, money, height, etc. How do you control for masculinity in a study? Exactly.
If science can't provide evidence and everyone's perceptions are wrong, how did you stumble upon this holy truth, oh enlightened one? Why should we trust you over our own observations and the empirical evidence?
Jaxon Bell
go away you nutjob
Connor Evans
Your """observations""" and """empirical evidence""" are based upon flawed beliefs and misinterpretations of the situation.
How I found this out? Let's just say I decided to think outside the box, stumbled upon this interesting theory, tested it, and found out it was 40x more accurate than the "looks, money, status" dogma.
Eli Mitchell
Wiser men figured this out long ago.
Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.
Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.
They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.
A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.
A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.
Finally some sense on this board and now muh looks screeching.
Isaiah Murphy
And not*
Oroginally
Gavin Walker
>Your """observations""" and """empirical evidence""" are based upon flawed beliefs and misinterpretations of the situation.
You have no basis for claiming this other than your own experience. I hereby claim that constantly winking at a woman will get her into bed and you're all just not a good enough winkers to pull it off and it will be just as convincing as your dumb theory.
>Let's just say I decided to think outside the box, stumbled upon this interesting theory, tested it, and found out it was 40x more accurate than the "looks, money, status" dogma.
So you have a single anecdote as the basis for this world-shattering revelation? Fuck you, wink theory for lyfe.
Aaron Cooper
They actually do control for masculinity based on modifications of jawline that's high correlated with testosterone. And that study found that women liked more masculine men during ovulation and more medium testosterone for the rest of the cycle.
Tyler Miller
The difference between the model of attraction I layed out and your meme wink theory is that my model of attraction is the common denominator among the things men THINK are getting them laid. As a whole, a better looking, higher status, richer guy will act in a more masculine manner than his counterparts. But that masculine behavior is not exclusive to those men.
> masculinity based on modifications of jawline that's high correlated with testosterone Oh sweetie no. Masculinity as I am defining it in my explanation is 100% about behavior and how you act.
Thomas Jackson
based high iq user bringing in the truth
Leo Hill
>Masculinity as I am defining it in my explanation is 100% about behavior and how you act. there is a problem with that, behavior can easily be faked, atleast in the short term, women can't be attracted to purely psychological factors because the little evidence they have isn't concrete enough to support whatever belief they may have of a dude
Logan Ross
How the fuck is this a blackpill? This is some basic shit everybody knows.
Austin Cox
and nobody is attracted to you
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Christian Reyes
Not on Jow Forums apparently
How is this a problem? Behavior can be faked, but if convincing that faked behavior can get you a night. It's just really hard to fake being confident for a long period of time. Even though it's hard, if you know what you're doing it can be done and the best part is that if you internalize a masculine mindset and belief system the behavior comes naturally. Fake it till you make it is also a valid strategy. Women will form an impression of you in the first 30 seconds or so of meeting and based on that they will try to explain your other behaviors. Ultimately if the woman finds out you're faking she will be disgusted and leave you so there's that.
Samuel Morgan
Lmao I can see you can't reason for shit. Literally masculinity can be boiled into hormones. If testosterone goes up you get more masculine. If someone shot you full of estrogen you would become a feminine trap lol. Masculinity as you have defined it is something you can behave with but it needs to come with actual skills and charisma, which again leads back to traditional factors for attraction...dumbass
Dominic Wood
Yikes.
Maybe I didn't make this clear. Women are attracted to the APPEARANCE of masculinity (masculine behavior). Men are attracted to the appearance of femininity (feminine looks).
Your actual hormone profile doesn't matter insomuch as it affects your behavior.
Women look at your behavior (body language, tone of voice, posture, eye contact, cadence, etc) and make a decision based on this how masculine you are and thus how attractive you are.
It's just how men look at a woman's physical appearance (tits, ass, face, clarity of skin, etc) and use this to determine how feminine she is and thus how attractive she is.
Biologically a woman can have a lab done and have science based evidence that she can have healthy kids and thus she is fit to breed with, but the biology of attraction hasn't caught up to technology. Therefore a perfect health report won't get your dick hard.
>Masculinity as you have defined it is something you can behave with but it needs to come with actual skills and charisma, which again leads back to traditional factors for attraction...dumbass You drank the koolaid. Society tells you that you need to be rich, good looking, accomplished to act in a confident masculine way towards women. It tells you you cant' be masculine for no reason and this is why as a whole attractive women go for "high SMV" men. However, you don't need a high SMV to be masculine and therefore attractive. By breaking social conditioning you can be a 5'5'' obese manlet and still walk around with 10s on your arm. You can be confident around women for absolutely 0 reason and if you want to get girls as efficiently as possible, you should.
Austin Reed
So why are you still a virgin despite this meme theory, while idgaf and get laid more. Face it meme theories like this help nobody.
Liam Morris
Please show me why this hasn't happened yet? You cannot fake your way into this shit. Women will not date beneath too many criteria. Like for every dude that acts masculine there is a legit just as masculine dude but has better appearance or social status. Also why is masculinity a behavior and femininity all appearance based?
Matthew Hill
"idgaf" is masculine behavior. Your experience is just more evidence that what I'm saying is true. You benefit from the knowledge I've provided without even knowing it. Think about the people who didn't know and acted unattractively who now know this!
Alexander Johnson
>Also why is masculinity a behavior and femininity all appearance based? Women have children, men don't. The idea is that men want strong healthy kids so they look for indicators of the female (her looks) to see if she can provide them. The idea is also that women are vulnerable when pregnant so they look for indicators of a male (his behavior) to see if he can protect them. Yin/Yang.
>Women will not date beneath too many criteria Lmaooo, the only women who are like this are 30 and will sacrifice an attractive male for a well off beta provider while in her 20s she fucked the cocky, confident asshole who nutted in her and didn't call back.
If you want to get married to some post wall hag who will provide unenthusiastic once a week duty sex and possibly cheat on you with Chad, then by all means try to get that promotion. It will help you.
>Like for every dude that acts masculine there is a legit just as masculine dude but has better appearance or social status They are both attractive to women. The guy who gets to her first will smash. Your point?
Also people who have had a reasonably active social life have seen at least one guy who was poor, ugly, or old and was good with women.
Damn your points are actually somewhat valid lmao. But if you are an ugly poor or old dude how you gonna protect a pregnant girl in any reality?
Gavin Jones
Your actual ability to protect a woman doesn't matter. Your perceived ability does. And how do girls determine your perceived ability? By examining your behavior.
Logan Johnson
All this BS and mindgaming you have to do, and half of you will still waste your time, energy and money on cunts, pathetic.
BS and mindgaming is feminine behavior. The masculine way to get girls is to walk up to them, be direct in communication, make it clear you are attracted to her, hold eye contact, speak clearly, and escalate the interaction all the way to the bedroom
Elijah Adams
Hence they hate manipulative nice guys and prefer straight-forward jerks?
