>match with 6/10 girl on okcupid >nice, actually genuine and not looking for hookups >pretty loving and innocent too >get to talking and find out she's post op trans >suddenly conflicted I don't get it Jow Forums why is this bugging me and changing my opinion of her so much? She's functionally no different from a normal girl other than no need for birth control and no ability to have kids (which is a plus for me) but it doesn't sit well with me. It's not even about her being formerly male as I'd be willing to date a pre-op trans with a functional penis. The best way I can describe it is that I'm disappointed she has no functioning genitals in either way. Am I being irrational and suffering from FOMO or is my feeling that she's a barbie doll with an excavated hole warranted?
No this isn't a bait thread to trigger the discord trannies, please help
>She's functionally no different from a normal girl other than she has no functioning genitals in either way.
Brayden Jones
Neovaginas look and function pretty much like regular vaginas, so...
Joseph Moore
Pre and post-op trannies are different things entirely, I'm lonely enough to date a pre-op myself but thinking about post-ops just brings up an instinctual feeling of disgust from somewhere deep inside me as it likely does for you, I don't think you should go after this.
Carson Powell
She's functionally no different if you ignore sex and even then anal is doable still. She passes pretty easily and has apparently been on HRT since age 10.
I disagree. Ignoring the whole "open wound constantly trying to close" thing, they give the girl no pleasure and if I actually got to the point of having sex with her I'd want to get her off too.
The feeling isn't one of disgust, it's one of disappointment. Like I won't be able to enjoy sex because part of it is missing. Gays can have fun with 2 penises even but I feel like 1 penis and a fake vagina gives neither of us anything... I'd honestly rather have a trap I could jerk off even if that's kind of gay than a hole I have to be super gentle with.
Brayden Green
it wont feel the same as a real vagina and unless surgery has gotten better then it won't really look like one either. Do what you want to do OP but if you actually want to be with him and not just fuck him keep in mind that their suicide rate is huge. You are going to have to deal with his issues. Once he's older (if he gets to old age) he won't look like a girl anymore especially since hes only a 6/10 right now. If he doesn't maintain himself he will grow a ton of body hair and it will be gross
Ryan Price
I guess I should keep my peeween.
Christian Roberts
the open wound thing is a myth.
Jaxon Lewis
I think you should, yes. By the time surgery has reached the point of being able to replicate a real vagina you can just be a futa
Owen James
You were born either a male or female. That doesn't change regardless if you mutilate yourself or "feel otherwise". So no matter how much you ever try to change this biological stamp, you cannot and you will always remain male/female and unless you're attracted to the same sex it will be disgusting and wrong to you as it feels like they're trying to rip you off, kinda how you hate scammers, trying to take your stuff. They need to be removed from life.
Logan Stewart
i have XXX chromosomes and one streak gonad. who would fuck me?
Joseph Howard
>She's functionally no different if you ignore sex Its impossible to ignore sex since their entire identities revolve around it
Cooper Williams
>She's functionally no different if you ignore sex >talks about sex
Aiden Hughes
I understand things will become complicated later in life but I have to get to that point first. I'd like to take things one step at a time please.
I don't know what to believe but I can't exactly ask her for pictures and would prefer to er on the side of caution. It doesn't change my statement that she won't have the pleasure a biological girl would get from a normal vagina. I can't eat her out, I can't even really have proper PiV with her either and that bothers me a lot.
While close, I don't feel like I'm getting scammed by her as much as by life if that makes sense. It's not like she chose to have non-functioning genitals it's just the technology doesn't exist yet. I'm fairly sure this feeling is the fault of an issue that is entirely my own and would prefer to fix it and try to make this work versus giving up for what I feel is a silly reason
>anybody's entire identity revolving around them having sex They must be pretty boring. Most people connect through other things such as shared interests, morals or philosophical views.
Yes, I'm making the statement that she's fine other than sex and that the sex is what is concerning me. I'm trying to head off arguments about things like "she's biologically a man so she has a man brain" or similar. I know what bugs me I'm trying to figure out why it bugs me and how I can overcome it.
Leo Murphy
You wont overcome it despite performing mental gymnastics
Wyatt Hill
It's only "trying to close" the first 6 months and has have nerve endings so it does give pleasure, perhaps not as well as a real one but it's something
Nicholas King
also this post is retarded, their suicide ATTEMPT rate is only huge pre-treatment and hrt makes you age like a woman
Lincoln Diaz
>her You keep using that word, I don't think you know what that word means anymore but you keep using it >It's not like she chose to have non-functioning genitals That's literally what HE chose to have, I doubt he was kidnapped, and mutilated against HIS will. HE chose to b trans thus it was HIS choice.
Landon Martin
no the suicide attempt rate doesn't change much and I'm not 100 percent about the hrt thing and aging but putting all that shit in your body can increase your risk of cancer.
Brayden Ward
goes down 15% and keep in mind that the number is inflated by older and lonely people, those that start early, pass, and have a significant other likely don't have a very differing attempt rate from cis individuals
and yes you get breasts so you can get breast cancer but you also can't get testicle cancer so it even outs
Elijah Murphy
No, they don't, dipshit. How often do biological women have to shove tubes into themselves to stop their gaping wounds from closing up? Never.
Neo-"vaginas" also don't self-lubricate, so you're basically fucking an onahole with extra financial stress and mental problems. You're sticking your dick into a weak facsimile of a real vagina and you should feel bad.
Jack Jones
Run OP. You're doing this because you're desperate and lonely.
- Get a friend you can talk to, and is interested in you, but which you don't need to fuck. Post OP tranny is currently filling that void.
- Pay a hooker to fuck. Post op tranny will soon fill that void. Except that she will grow old, and look like a 4/10... you can get a 4/10...
