Doing well?
You're not, right?
Let's play a game, tell me a couple of things about you and I'll help you weasel your way into self-awareness. Let me help you help yourself.
Tell me a name you identify with, a color, a number and describe your appearance, any other personal descriptors you may want to add are good too.
PS: the more detailed your question is, the more detailed your answer will be.
I identify with the name Bobby Hill, the colour blue and the number 7. I have brown hair, blue eyes and acne scars. I am also somewhat muscular. Help me please user.
I'd love to help you, but with what? user, you keep forgetting to ask your question.
Might as well.
When will I man up enough to hang myself and end this miserable, meandering existence?
Alex, brown, 47, unpleasant.
When will I be able to feel happy?
XVI
black
30
Pale,slim,tired
Why doesn't she write me
It seems you need to ground yourself in reality and let go of your unpleasantness, good of you to include it as a descriptor, even though I am currently seeing the faces of a dozen of poorly dressed rotten men with a lot of expectations and demands regarding love and relationships.
The way forward out of this rut, for you, is to ground yourself with the material and develop your awareness of beauty and connection with sensitivity. It appears as though you are greedy, you want way more than you deserve, as a result a disaster came your way.
Calm down. Learn patience, learn that your efforts aren't producing results because you need to ground yourself in reality and develop refinement of the self. Of your emotions.
Don't be an unpleasant brute.
It seems you may have perhaps created your own isolation due to lack of empathy, happiness will naturally become abundant in your life one you take control of the situation, ruthlessly cut down the wrongs and accept you have been cold towards others when they perhaps did not deserve it.
Learn how to love others, maybe learn simply how to do lip service as a first step.
There is a certain indication that she isn't feeling very positive about you. There is something to this situation that implies a certain level of illusion in your relationship with one another, and another sense of fate too.
However it appears that to move forward you'll have to contact her yourself, she won't do it, she either doesn't have the courage to do it, or she doesn't believe it should be her responsibility to contact you, specifically given how she is feeling very much unwilling about the relationship between you two.
Well fuck you too buddy. I've had better cold readings, but I've had worse as well.
Do you mean she doesn't like talking to me?
How nice of you to illustrate precisely what I talked of regarding the way you communicate. Immediately you react with cutting energy in spite of my good intentions and energy i expended for you.
I asked why you are like this and why you won't accept that you must change. Here's your answer:
You have immense power but you are fleeing from a bad situation, you've become bitter. Sadly, you're just not special enough to deserve a message more meaningful than a cold read.
You're lazy, you've allowed disaster to become part of your identity. Now you sit there and dish out cutting comments as though everyone around you is the same people who have harmed you.
This is why you are lonely, you are a lost in an illusion that the whole world is the enemy.
She's simply focused on herself and her own needs at the moment, and she somewhat even feels like the situation is smothering.
Lucas.
Dark red.
12.
Slim, acne and stressed, probably won't be ugly if I take care of myself.
Will I have a long-lasting relationship with a woman someday? and will she love me?
Poor health, passive-agressive personality, no interests in dating, depression, irritation buildups, contemplating suicide, no future.
Cry for yourself and your wounded ability to believe in life and what it holds for you. Allow this darkness and awareness of emptiness to become your drive. You need to allow yourself to become inspired.
You're hurting. I can tell.
But your pain won't solve your problem, your pain is just a remnant of your problem that you have come to accept as though it is what keeps you safe.
It isn't keeping you safe. It is destroying you and your will to live.
Show love to someone today, smile, be polite and refined, observe the reactions, measure if things did change and if you did find your will to fight improve.
Accept that there is more out there, but you will have to take action, this is part of the story you are meant to tell.
Most definitely.
You have a lot of ability to manifest this relationship, and she will love you in return, but for now, you need to temper your energy, learn patience. It seems depression is defeating you entirely, if this relationship were to happen now there would be endless arguments between you two and you would ruin it, this is not what you want, nor what the universe wants for you.
You'll need to develop wisdom in order to manifest her.
Winston, black, 1
20 years old. I am a 5'3" short male with a very skinny figure. I have black hair and a bad back already. I hate myself beyond oblivion and I struggle with clinical depression. I am very dumb as well. I have an awful degree with no chances on finding a job. I have been isolated and abused as child which lead me to have a big hatred towards my parents. I barely believe in the "good". The only thing I love is my cat, cereals. I'll kill myself as soon he dies.
I never had any hobbies or anything special about me worth talking.
The question: Will life become good for me?
You ever thought that someone may try to write stories as multiple posters just to get attention or intentionally piss you off?
Ryan
black
2
bit fat, acne, blonde unmanaged hair though not in a bad way, most of my appearence is my fault and can be fixed in a matter of weeks but i would rather eat food and play video games then impress some whores
plan on having my own peice of land somewhere in america and owning pigs and chickens for eggs and meat so i can eat perfectly well and ive got the life planned out just need a state to buy good land in somewhere where its 50s- 60 degrees F on average nothing too hot nothing too cold plan on this because dont want to be a wage cuck and 2 eat well
plan on doing most things by manual labour rather than machine so i can get strong and assuming im eating a good diet i could end up plenty strong just need to stay hydrated also excited for the culture there and maybe learning town recipes or something
I like the name Moog, not that I'd ever let anyone around me catch on to that. I like rich greens, and the number 900, like my Saab.
Tall, glasses, thick hair. Pale, and quite thin.
The question is, will I ever know what to do with myself? Even in mundane terms I feel like I have no sense of direction.
Rich
13
Black
green eyes, dark circles underneath them and a large burn scar on the palm of the right hand
Will i learn to swim or die in the progress of individuation?
(OP)
Name's Jaren.
Color is black and number is 6.
I'm 19 yro Asian, with small frame, dyed red hair, tattoos and piercings.
I'm a huge music nerd with a bad childhood, no friends growing up, shitty social skills, anxiety, depression and self image problems.
I feel like I'll never be good enough for anyone and the fear of being unlovable has been haunting me for the most of my life.
I have a boyfriend who's 16 yrs older than me. We've known each other for almost two years. I had the first and biggest crush on him since the first day we met. It crippled me for months when i found out he had a gf back then.
We've been together for almost half a year now. We get along like friends, but I feel like he's not really into me, and I'm more like a company for him than someone he truly adores.
It hurts me so much thinking on how much I love, respect and look up to him but he'll never love me back. I feel like a naive little shit compared to him. One day it'll end when he get tired of me, and it wouldn't even make him flitch.. I don't know if I could ever let him go, but I'm just not good enough.
Sorry for the rant, guess I just needed to let it out. Can you show me a way please, my dear user?
Life will become incredible for you.
however yes, the situation is indeed dire. But your degree is a wonderful thing it seems, it's possible greed is clouding your perception of just how good this pursuit is, there is am immense amount of success and even fame to be gained here. But yes, things are otherwise terrible.
You have to ground yourself and root yourself through another means that isn't your family or your home, it seems music will help you remain connected with this stability that you'll need to overcome this situation.
You need endurance. And this situation will pass and from it you will blossom a wonderful version of yourself that rules with compassion.
I have no control over other's behavior. I'm offering abundance and aid to anyone who may be seeking it. In some ways, someone who would do such a thing is perhaps deserving of equal respect and faith in his requests, even if they're not the truth. Through showing love even to those who lie, I can heal them.
impressive, but, What is it that you seek user? seems you forgot to ask your question.
Have patience, it appears heartbreak and grief damaged you not too long ago. You'll need to shed this in order to move on, allow the situation to die from your consciousness. Something suggest here that fighting and arguments will help you move on from this back to square 1, from there you will get a restart and inspiration will flow through you once more. You have to restore freedom from whatever made you so cynical, you will then learn direction.
Attain knowledge, you need to learn empathy (so you won't have to learn it the hard way), and you'll be just fine.
It seems you are a powerful individual after all, you just need to become more well rounded
The true way forward is to anticipate it. Plan in silence how to execute the distancing from this situation, there will be fighting, but you have the required willpower to change your situation, use music to help you grief the pain of the release, recognizing that this a person who has things to offer you, but not the things you need, want, or are meant to receive. There is much better coming your way, release them so better things can manifest for you.
Within you there is a piercing strength that wants to cut through this situation. Tap into that energy to change your situation.
>so you won't have to learn it the hard way
what do you mean?
You have two options atm.
You either take my advice and begin a journey or self discovery, learning about love and empathy.
Or you'll learn it through great personal turmoil and transformation.
>begin a journey or self discovery,
>great personal turmoil and transformation
but isnt it the same thing?
Ian
really, color?
22
I can't start doing what I absolutely need to do. I've been procrastinating for weeks now..
Derek.
Purple.
Number: 9.
Appearance: Tall, Fit, white, weird
Where do i go now? I desire truth, but the way I've been going about obtaining it has proved to be incorrect. Incorrect may be too strong of a word, but it's had too many negative effects and it appears i need a new path. Thank you for any help
ones happens to you and causes damage, the other one doesn't, is faster and won't break you.
Just submit yourself to it. You'll have to do it regardless of how long you postpone it.
Choose harmony, balance.
Your past was material, skeptic and indeed you are prepared to move on. It seems as though you are at a crossroads.
But choose balance and harmony. Choose a new life that is full of wisdom, youth and excitement. Give yourself to innocence.
>The joker before he became the joker
>Indigo
>Short, olive-skinned, ugly
How do I deal with the inevitable pain of causality?
I have tried everything from meditation, reading arguably healthy philosophy, and tried socializing with others but to really no avail. It's extremely hard to keep up with normies and the banality of their own lives without feeling all the more alone and secluded so much to the point where all hope becomes diminished in which I will finally feel not so alone. I try to be so nice to others. In fact, I would say that I'm highly empathetic though it's never rewarding as people tramp all over me. My life has been an entire joke filled with neglect, early sexual abuse, and humiliation.
Now all I do is drink and read pessimism - drinking from the bitter cup of my own sorrow. Can you blame me?
I peeked into your past, hope you'll forgive me.
As for the present, you are nearing the end of this current journey, and what is holding you back is that, you've become a bit of a control freak. It seems you want to begin a relationship?
The truth is that love will be the final step for you. And you need to make the move to create whatever connection it is that you are currently thinking of beginning.
Dianne. (name of imaginary friend/alter ego as a kid, she was mischievous)
Light green
2
I'm African American, female, medium height, fairly slim, and I don't have much muscle.
Why do I grow so uncomfortable and unfocused with people, no matter who they are or what we're doing?
Harmony and balance. Got it. Any advice you can give that i should keep in mind while trying to find this harmony and balance? Or am I already prepared enough?
Why don't I care about anything anymore? I don't even feel sad about it anymore. Just disinterested. Is this the right way to feel?
Matt, 22, blue
I'm six foot with brown hair, blue eyes with bags under them
I identify with the name Meh, blue, 14, dark brown hair, brown eyes
How can I find a lasting hobby? I get bored of everything I try to pick up
Arthur
Grey
9
Brown hair and eyes, slightly overweight, glasses
Why do I keep running away from the things I know I must do?
i started with politics but i realized it always sux honestly im nothing at this point if i had a purpose i would work so fucking hard towards it i would absolutely dedicate myself to it
Plain old fear of what may happen. In order to protect yourself and the things you old dear, to protect your heart, you are ignoring the gifts others attempt to communicate to you.
Seems that you are lacking some stability and connection with reality, to find it in this sort of setting, don't worry if you're being silent, use your discerning eye to gain knowledge on the situation before acting, it's okay to be an introvert. It's okay to be afraid. No one will punish you for it.
You are prepared. But be warned that harmony is hard work, the act of ensuring balance requires a constant state of alertness and discernment. Always find some time to release yourself from the anxieties of this sort of work. Don't neglect how difficult it is to life a harmonious life.
Juggling options, yet none of them seem to be the right one, you are giving yet nothing comes of it, you try to create new emotions but they don't connect, you are full of ability and power, but within, there is something much more afraid of reality than you'd imagine.
Your soul needs a craft. It wants to learn to do something. You've been bothering with attempting new love, new romance, but it doesn't work out because it isn't meant to be atm, you are not ready for it.
You need to develop your abilities first.
You long for stability but it won't be through a steady hobby that you'll find it.
In fact the only way to find stability will be for you to look within and find it within yourself. A reason to never feel at odds with your existence. Something that will make you feel happy to always have changing hobbies.
you simply have little courage.
you already know what will happen if you keep running away though. you already recognize that they must be done, there is really no point in not doing them. Regardless, in spite of your little courage, do it. Know it will feel better.
i need money but i dotn want to work
Release nostalgia, release dreams, release your desire to work hard.
Your purpose is to nurture and ensure that balance is given to those who suffer from its lack.
Politics is it.
Sometimes what comes easy is already your purpose, it may not look like it because it isn't conventional, but don't let it consume you.
Pemis
purple
13
Short, long hair, anxious, lonely
Tell me about him, does he like me? What did he mean by the breakfast date thing a few days ago?
I have no idea what's this, is this some sort of a reading like tarot cards?
First user in your post, thank you for the response.