I think I kinda realized I should probably go with my gut feeling more (I believe I was incorrectly calling myself an IN(T/F)P before so I'm just now getting a better understanding of myself.)
The only thing that I have that even resembles a plan right now would be getting a job and becoming financially independent. But idk which job to get.
All my life I wanted to become an Architect, but I realized around.. highschool, that it wasn't for me. Due to the schooling, and lack of freedom.
>Give yourself some space and time alone to sort out your feelings, time to "escape" and rest / nap/ think
I've kinda done that already and it just leads to procrastination and more stress
>What are you procrastinating about! Are you waiting until the absolute last minute to start things? This can easily happen when there is no deadline. Remember, not doing some things can be the source of a large amount of long term unhappiness and regrets.
Pretty much exactly me. I live with my parents and they haven't really forced me out... yet. So I guess in my head I don't have a deadline to grab a job. And yes, I do tend to work better/do all the work right before deadlines.
>What mundane task are you avoiding?
Working on resume/programming projects and looking for jobs
>How are you not taking care of yourself? Eat right. Take supplements as needed. Learn "Nootropics."
I'd love to, but I have no money and parents cook. I'm lazy and spoiled which I'm hoping I can fix.
>What are you currently obsessing about?
Throwing my life away. Legit not being able to focus and go after my dreams.
>What can you do to be more grounded? Have "some" routine / structure in your day. Learn some "J" Skills.
Idk. What are some J skills?
>Are you seeking mindless experiences and sensations?
Games, internet browsing.
I don't know how to stay in control. I do it for a few days then something comes up/i get bored/i lose confidence, etc and drop it.