I have been wth my parents for fucking EVER not my fault because they gave me a shitty life. They ducking destroyed my life gave me nothing ruined everything gave me the shittiest life possible with 0 resources and pretty much tools me oh just figure out how to get out of poverty in the middle of nowhere with no resources
But i have been living with them for fucking ever even tho its not my fault and they gave me just enough where hating them would seem rude like i guess feed me but they dont do that very well and they never helped me with anything else
Also my mom triggers my ptsd shit really bad on purpose
Pretty sure I will ghost my parents eventually if I live long enough and get the chance. My mother likes to trigger mental illness and wear others down too.
Alexander Martinez
Just realized that maybe I won't ghost my father. He's not bad. My mother is horrible.
Cooper Rogers
I will probably ghost my parents once I get a job. other than maybe visiting family for christmas and a vacation once or twice a year I will probably never see or talk to them.
Isaiah Harris
I talk to my dad occasionally and he helped me out a few times.
Josiah Foster
yes, they are horrendous people. the only thing i need from them is money, every single word that comes out of their mouth is worthless
Isaac Jones
Fuck off with your reddit frog and your reddit thread, underage monkey
Jace Fisher
Blaming your parents for your shit life is pathetic. If you're 16+ then you're old enough to get your life together if you really wanted to. I'm not saying parents can't be bad, but at your age you should really be thinking about what you can do for yourself rather than what your parents couldn't do for you.
Cooper Cook
I've long vocally shamed my mothers life choices, and I've been ghosting her for 4 years now since I left. I still see my dad and siblings rarely, but I do keep in touch.
Robert Kelly
I'm waiting for my mom to die she is 60+ I'm 22 youngest child in family then planning to move the fuck out and live however the fuck I want (job I want , hobby , paying sluts , fuck I'd even vandalism or graffitti walls) I don't give a shit this world sucks and I got a life
Ian Lopez
>shitty life yeah but they shelter and feed you yeah real awful. >Living with them forever Unless you're 30 its far from forever. >PTSD you sound like an entitled brat who think lifes hard but don't put in a ounce of effort. do you really think that your parents are holding you back even though you got internet and more?
You're just part of a generation that wants people to feel sympathetic towards them.
Gabriel Cox
I havent talked to my dad since the start of the year, I refuse to reply or pick up when he calls. I made fun of him on Easter asking if he felt like a good father wishing me a happy Easter. He treats both my sisters SO way better than me and I just had enough of it. Years ago I went a 2 or 3 year period of not talking to him too.
theres always one of these posters. you obviously didnt have bad parents and you definitely have no clue how much damage they can do. you ended up here anyway, so its not like you're some massive success anyway lol
Henry Evans
A lot of time
But after I calm down I realize they didn't do anything wrong and they did what they could
It's all cordial but pretty distant desu so if anything me leaving (which won't happen soon I'm afraid) will only bring us closer I hope
Nathaniel Flores
I was born in a small town dude fuck off with no car
Colton Peterson
so you had wonderful parents and you still ended up on r9k. you're some kind of folk hero bro
Ryder Green
I had issues getting along with my parents and I will say it does get better after you move out, It definitely helps.
Sebastian Cook
i ghosted both my parents after i graduated from college my parents split a few years ago and ive started talking with my dad again since he was always chill and he helped me move. no intention on unblocking my moms # tho
Camden Lee
>being this much of a brainlet Why live? End it
Andrew Cox
both my parents died while i was in college my dad took care of my moms estate, then i had to take care of his. i wasnt sad about mom dying, but i do miss my dad im the only surviving family member (that i know of) now, which made it a lot easier to be degenerate since nobody is pressuring me to find a gf and have grandkids anymore. it's one of the most liberating things that's ever happened to me.
Hudson Jenkins
never said i had bad parents. never said they couldn't do damage. just said you should be thinking about what you can do instead of sitting around blaming your parent about what has already been done. and you know everyone here isn't a basement dwelling virgin right? some of us have moved on with life and only come back once in a while just to check this place out. my life isn't the best but it feels good knowing i've worked for what i have and can do things on my own time.
Samuel Reed
Just hope your parents don't literally ghost you (aka dead). Both of mine did.
Brandon Gomez
>some of us have moved on with life and only come back once in a while just to check this place out excuse of every lying fuckwit on this board. no one believes you, seriously
Jonathan Davis
Does it not bother you that your kids will never know their grandparents? my parents are almost 70 and never shut up about wanting to live to see their grandkids. unfortunately for them I'm a 20y/o genetic dead end hopeless NEET. I have no family other than them that I'm aware of and fuck man Idk what Im going to do when they die.
Daniel Martinez
if i do have kids, i guess that probably would bother me. but i think it's probably unlikely that my partner would also have no surviving relatives (if i ever find someone i want to have kids with)
Elijah Hernandez
Haven't spoken to my mother in over 10 years, don't regret a thing. I do wish I could be there at the point when she realizes that she's going to die without ever seeing her only son again. I hope it hurts her but knowing her, she probably doesn't care.
Bentley Edwards
you believing me doesn't matter for me. what do i gain from lying to you in this situation. im not some super successful guy. still a virgin at 28, but i've been bored of this place for a while and only come back on occasion. i work from home writing for a living and make enough to pay rent.
Owen Garcia
>But i have been living with them for fucking ever even tho its not my fault and they gave me just enough where hating them would seem rude like i guess feed me but they dont do that very well and they never helped me with anything else
My parents were kinda like this and the best way I can describe it is like feeding a stray cat. I know they care a little bit at least but just enough to insure I don't starve. Anything beyond that though isn't happening
Anyway I have been thinking of mostly ghosting them. I plan to just straight up leave and I have given very little indication as to where I would go. What little I have told them is west coast but in reality im heading to the east coast. I would still occasionally send letters with no return address just to let them know what is up. Anyway my plans for doing this are not strictly to punish them that is simply a bonus. My real reason is to completely cut myself off from my family everyone I know and my past. I want to be thrust into a sink or swim type situation. Back against the wall with no home to return to if I fail. My chances of success are likely less than 1% but staying here like this is 100% only going to lead to suicide so I may as well bank it all on that tiny chance I do have.
