My therapist has been hitting on me

>36
I think something's off about this. Normally women are not as straightforward with their message when they're interested in a guy. But if you were interested in pursuing this further, I would suggest going to see another therapist, and you can explain the situation to her later.

But be careful. She might have another man in her life that she's not telling you about.

i guess so, obviously people say that older women are a red flag and all of that stuff. she immigrated here on her own five years ago from poland so her being single without being a red flag is plausible.

i know almost for certain that she's single, and the almost is mostly because you can never be too sure.

This. Therapists, especially the female ones are just as fucked up and neurotic as their clients. She may have some violent dude as her main guy and maybe she gets off putting a third male party in danger as some kind of power play. Next thing you know, you're diving out a window as some psycho unloads a revolver at you.

Or maybe she's thirty six and lonely and just wants to fuck you.

>she's hot but i've just been viewing her as another person

lmao
that's the point nigga, you've finally ascended to the 'talking to women without planning to fuck them and your eventual marriage' stage

go for it, but be a bit sus about the age difference

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I somewhat see what you mean. I don't know much about life in Poland, but I had a colleague from Northern Europe who genuinely had an interest in me, and with a similar age gap too. Turns out she actually was a virgin, but was a bit too obsessive at times.

I think it might boil down to who she actually is as a person, regardless of the culture she was raised on.

>Getting therapeutic help from the opposite sex
That was your first mistake. Personally, I don't even go to female doctors or dentists.

North europe is fukken rich lol. High standard of living. Poland and east europe is way different. More poor. Usually girls for there are more feminine, so they will be more obvious about their feelings to a guy and be honest. Maybe this dudes got lucky

had a dude therapist one time and it was horrible. not that it was gonna be the case with every dude, but i read something once (i think on Jow Forums). someone said something like "men therapists will understand but not care, women will care but won't understand". It's been true in my super limited experience.

Are you stupid OP?

You think that she wants you because you're opening up to her and she's reciprocating your progress by encouraging signs? It's stock standard psych 101 to encourage progress with affirmation, which is what she's doing.

Unless you're fucking mega loaded and a lawyer, she's not gonna risk her 6 years of study and practicing license to fuck your dumb ass.

Think about it logically.

If she's 36 she either: wants kids, has kids
Simple as that either way she a ho

wait whjy is fucking patients illegal?

there's no shortage of women that like intimate attention from a man they have no intention of escalating to sex
either way it sounds like she's not a great therapist for you

here's the play, my dude
are you still having sessions?
you directly open the door to intimacy during your next sessions
after you talk for a while...
>I haven't spent a great deal of time with women
>and you've been considerate to me in ways that others haven't
>I have to confess that, having someone as attractive as you, seem interested in me
>gives me instincts of intimate feelings for you
>I'm sure its an occupational hazard
>and Im a bit embarrassed but, after a while, it had to be addressed

-if she is congenial but gives you nothing but "professionalism" you're just plaything for her to flex her sexuality while you squirm within the bounds of a thereapist-patient relationship. I think the greentext is a good option - but we can workshop this choice if you decide to make it. Your purpose is to ring that bell that can't be unrung - do it short, do it assertively, and see what she does.
maybe she escalates the encounter and you get your D worked. Getting sex from a cute therapist is really better than therapy in every conceivable way
-Or you get totally shut down - and its time find a new therapist - a Man (honestly sounds like its already time for this but maybe you aren't misreading and actually have a shot. take the fucking shot man)
-Or you say nothing and be a good little boy that never does anything remotely threatening to anybody. The Beta Orbiter path.

before going down the path
i'm kind of curious about what you considered flirting
>starts to randomly tell me that I'm hot
specifically what exactly did she say
if you're a sad patient boohooing saying "you are attractive" can be perfectly clinical confidence boosting
saying "but ur totally hot, lol" is far more informal, and might be flirtatious

i really dont think a therapist would ever invite you to "text me" but maybe its a different time.
before making a move - do that first. do something "outside your comfort zone" and text her.
post results - we can get a very clear read based on how quickly she responds and the conversation that unfolds via text
good way to get a certain read before the trigger pull aforementioned

I can't see a positive outcome if you actually try to fuck your therapist. If she's not attracted to you then you've just ruined your therapeutic relationship, which is obviously pretty important for your treatment of your anxiety. Even if she is, she'll either have the good sense to stop herself before it goes too far and tell you that you need to find a new therapist, or she won't and either she'll get found out or the guilt will get to her and you'll have to find a new therapist because she'll lose her license.

Because they're emotionally vulnerable and you, as a therapist, have an unnatural degree of influence over them. Basically the same reason fucking intoxicated people is.

Do you pay her for the therapy?

she's not hitting on you lmao