Why do men expect sex in a long-term relationship? You're not entitled, it's our bodies and our right to stop having sex if that's what we want.
I've heard horror stories from girl friends. Their boyfriends: starting to look at other women, make new female friends, stop initiating (making my friend feel undesired), being more grouchy, acting like a roommate instead of a boyfriend (inviting friends over) - all merely because they wanted to stop. One's fiance even terminated their engagement over it! This sexism is so rampant that even one of our acquaintances (female) said she thinks the boyfriends were in the right and that she herself relates to them (dunno what the fuck is wrong with her in that case but maybe that's why she defends discrimination against her own sex).
Why is it so commonplace for men to expect this from another person's body? It's not theirs.
Joke all you want, it is your right to not have sex if you don't want to, regardless of how asshurt it makes people.
Dominic Richardson
Couple of reasons:
1) What exactly is the point in being with you if not for regular sex? Regular sex you don't need to work for is literally the only benefit/appeal of a relationship to a guy, the sooner you learn this the easier life will be for you, roasty. 2) If you're not having sex with us, you're probably, almost certainly, having it with someone else. 3) If we're not having sex with you, we're almost certainly naturally going to start looking for it somewhere else.
Ayden Wright
There was a thread just like this earlier. Is this a new psycho spamming campaign?
David Butler
now imagine if it was the guy that didn't wanted to have sex
Nolan Foster
I'm aware this is bait, but if your long-term partner suddenly stops wanting to have sex with you that is a sign something is wrong and you should figure out what it is. If you don't, and instead immediately demand sex or try to get it elsewhere, then you can be sure you will be dropped very soon.
Mason Hernandez
it's expected of couples to do things to make each other happy, you should do things you don't necessary like but your partner does, because you care about him, if you want sex and your girlfriend don't give a fuck about it she is not your girlfriend, just a person sucking your money
Asher Miller
And I guess this also includes any perversion you come up with I have to go along?
I've broken up with bf's because 1. they cannot perform and blamed it on masturbation to porn 2. they sneak off to strip clubs with their friends 3. I'm feeling amorous and they put it off for gaming 4. they cannot last 2 minutes 5. whats foreplay 6. they become a lard ass and gross 7. they won't clean their stuff and ass, gross 8. they asked for a threesome 9. they keep trying to video (I know you guys show your friends) 10. they blame their under-performance on me ALL THE TIME 11. they cry and/or rage or threaten to break up if I won't do; facial, swallow, anal 12. did I mention a threesome, 4 some, more some? Yeah I did and will again because they all want to watch some other guy have sex with me 13, they believe its not cheating if they receive a bj from some girl 14. they want me to show my tits in public 15. they want me to wear a burka in public 16. if I'm adventurous I'm a whore and so too if I don't let them on
Ryder Long
>This sexism is so rampant that even one of our acquaintances (female) said she thinks the boyfriends were in the right and that she herself relates to them (dunno what the fuck is wrong with her in that case but maybe that's why she defends discrimination against her own sex). Some of your other friends could the same way as her but are scared of feeling shamed for it, perhaps? You say "wtf is wrong with her" for example.
e.g. 50%+ of reddit.com/r/deadbedrooms seem to be female. So maybe your friend isn't as weird as you would think? Don't assume she's just indoctrinated into sexism, perhaps she was trying to reach out to your friend group?
Similarly, I think you lack empathy for your friends' guys too. You make it sound like they are tantruming over not getting a vapid want but to them it might be much more than that (lack of emotional connection) so it makes them feel depressed and do those stupid things.
T. (sadly) experiencing it from the opposite side, so hear out my perspective if you're serious in this kind of thinking.
Adrian Edwards
I told you same thing when you made this thread before. If you will not have sex then I will go look for someone who will. Simple as that.
Brayden Price
Then if you are away for an extended period for work or sick or recovering from an accident then I get to sex my trainer at the gym. If you have the right then I do too
Dominic Scott
If this is OP then you should have included this info in the OP. In your OP you make it sound like you stopped mongamy (and started enforcing chastity) for absolutely no reason so it kinda sounds like bait. But if the real reason is all these perversions and emotional abuse you list here, then no one would have disagreed with you withdrawing from such abusive guys.
Also >bfs How do you end up with abusers more than once? Surely you would have learned the red flags and been more careful? Only a minority of the male population is like what you describe (even when you consider police reports an underrepresentation). You sound like you need therapy after all that, and to make sure you stop choosing men that will make it happen again.
Never wanting sex in a relationship i see not the same as being incapable of having it for a short while, roastie. Right after you give birth you cannot have sex for a few weeks but I will not go fuck other women during that time.
Grayson Morgan
Not OP and to answer your question, what man isn't a pervert, they don't exist. You are a typical male and put all the blame on me instead of admitting you're a piece of shit and try to do better.
Thomas Nguyen
It is called bait newfag Origano
Ethan Moore
Chad gets all the sex he wants, why wouldn't a man that supports his family get the same?
You can't have responsibilities without authority.
Carson Harris
just train your boyfriend to cum from prostate stim alone until he's ruined and thats only thing that does it
Austin Smith
I don't know why you go in extreme with the pic on the OP. Personally, I think sex is a chore. Doesn't mean it shouldn't be done ever. As for your other points, I think it's mostly because of who they are. If people are so weak they need constant stimulation or hell, another person, they're terrible. End of story. Sex I guess is just part of life but not a necessity. I agree mostly with that. There should be a discussion and both should be comfortable before attempting something new or degenerate. And if they threaten, you're right to cut ties, not worth the time. As for underperforming, I don't know. I've had sex with two girls and it was so bad I want to actually forget about it. They had their fun, but I didn't. And I like pleasuring a girl but there was just nothing out of it. I suppose maybe because the connection wasn't there.
Owen Butler
I'm not blaming you. Just saying the uncontroversial thing, that not all guys are like your ex bfs.
Carson Williams
whats a long term relationship
Camden Cruz
>You're not entitled, it's our bodies and our right to starting to look at other women, make new female friends, stop initiating (making my friend feel undesired), being more grouchy, acting like a roommate instead of a boyfriend (inviting friends over) if that's what we want.
Gavin Sanders
>15. they want me to wear a burka in public What's wrong with that you filthy kufr?
Kayden Clark
But then you get married women constantly complaining about their men not touching them and talking like that was actually an issue. I mean it's a long-term relation you shouldn't expect sex
Ayden Gray
Yeah I agree
Marriage is about committing yourself to the wants and needs of your woman
If your woman wants no sex, there will be no sex, end of story.
Carson Phillips
i dont understand this at all. does this mean op wants to have sex with other men? or just stop completely. i just cant believe they want to stop having sex, just not with you. which is fine.
i dont understand how you can expect a relationship to keep going. it wouldnt, if marriage wasnt so legally binding and difficult to annull.
Samuel Morris
no wonder brothels are so common eh? those girls get married men all the time
Jace Baker
sure you have the right to deny sex, but don't expect us to stay
Levi Ross
>Meanwhile sucks on 10 nigger dicks I-I'm just adventurous!! Fuck off and die roastie
Owen Gonzalez
If one of the major benefits your partner sees out of your relationship is sex, are you surprised when they end it over the lack of? They find a better partner, and so should you, one who doesn't value sex as much.
Chase James
Sex is a big part of intimacy for a lot of people so you should expect people to want it in a relationship. You probably want someone with a sex drive that is around yours, men with low sex drives do exist after all, just like women with high ones exist.
Daniel Miller
ITT: shaming people for wanting sex but not wanting to be shamed for the same thing
Sebastian Foster
thats what op is really asking, right? the right to have a supporting partner, and the freedom to carefully bed different males of her choosing.
Brody Adams
Even by r9k standards this is some shit tier bait
Asher Torres
>And I guess this also includes any perversion you come up with I have to go along?
Not unless it gets you off too. Personally for me if a girl is not into a fantasy I just feel awkward and weird bringing it up with her.
I'm not really that degnerate anyway, desu, I have a couple of out there fetishes but really as long you're at least willing to watch porn/masturbate together regularly as a bare minimum I'm pretty happy.
And yeah hygiene is of paramount important for both parties, should really shower shortly before sex, even do it together and indulge in foreplay, washing each other so it feels less like a chore.
Hudson Perez
This supposed to scare or shame me? But for your information black guys are just as god awful as you white ones but the risk with them is they never, ever want to wear a condom and I dont want no kid.
Isaac Bennett
You've sucked off black guys? Are you white? If not, what?
Asher White
>oy vey,yes goy,give up your freedom,resources and life to women,only then will you be a "real man"
Juan Taylor
does it really matter which race of dick she sucked
imagine if she sucked 72 white dicks (in a row) would you still french her?
I only put my mouth on two and neither were black but thats because I don't like giving a bf. The guy always tries to force it down my throat and wants me to keep doing it forever and ever and my jaw gets tired. They also say the most degrading things and call me a bitch and whore so I won't. Doesn't mean the asshole don't grab the back of my head and try to force me.
Joshua Lopez
what for? having some self respect, not wanting to be treated like some sex doll
Blake Morris
So what if you had a boyfriend who actually treated you well and you were really intimate with? You wouldn't want to worship his cock? Lick and suck the head and work your way down the shaft until a depth of comfort for you, knowing how good it made him feel and feeling his cock throb violently in your mouth?
Sounds like you've just had comically bad sexual partners, femanon. Are you ugly or something, fat maybe? Not sure why these guys treat you so.
Also what race are you?
Adam Rivera
Low quality bait. OP has never been happily married.
Jason Kelly
This is more common than people think, in fact, I'd venture to say it's a 50/50 split.
Dylan Rivera
He'd probably be a better boyfriend if you gave head here and there.
Adam Russell
Good job user, you caught two!
Logan Barnes
>he didnt gently brush her head/hair and call her a "good girl" >he didnt gently but firmly push his boy stick against the back of her throat for only a few seconds to assert dominance
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Josiah Lopez
>it's our bodies and our right to stop having sex if that's what we want Right, and if I don't want to be in the relationship anymore its my right to leave
>and I dont want no kid. dropped, not wife material
Gavin Campbell
People really don't understand what marriage is suppose to be anymore.
Marriage is suppose to be a lifetime oath of union with your partner. For all intents and purposes you largely cease being an independent individual after the fact. You and your partner become one complete unit. To trivialize it, you could call it a team. For better or worse, you're both playing on the same side, that means working and communicating with each other for a collective benefit. It also means making some concessions for the other person, and hammering out compromises that suit both of you.
If you're not willing to communicate, compromise, and work through the good and bad, don't get married. If you want to be solely independent and accountable to no one, don't get married. But please, do have fun being an 'adventurous' slut turned miserable spinster once your youthfulness has failed you.
Mason Anderson
>Gives up the goods easily. >To multiple people. >Expects to be respected. Virginity is a virtue for women for a reason. Losing it so easily shows a lack of self-control and self-respect on your part. Why should others respect you when you can't even manage as much for yourself?
Michael Parker
>Did and asked all of these things in my first relationship Good times
Nolan Richardson
>broken up with 16 boyfriends .. At some point, you got to start thinking if the problem is with you after all
I see so many threads where robots want someone to cuddle and don't care about sex. I think the average bot could tolerate the standard less sex after marriage as long as they; 1. Still have the intimacy: hugging, kissing, cuddling. 2. Have their own children(if they want kids) 3. Don't get cucked.
Ryan Foster
Perhaps we should cut off your hands to keep you from playing with your pp
Brandon Taylor
both of you are idiots. just because I could jot down 16 things doesn't mean there is one for each bf, I only had two and pick one or all of the 16 and it was them.
Cameron Morris
you were doing great with the question but just like every guy you quickly went nasty and nastier. See, thats what you guys do. All sweet and I love you's and then when the blood rushes from her head to the pp you become little monsters.
Carter Miller
I tried but you guys start trying to force in down my throat or purposefully try to cum in my mouth or on my face. Assholes all.
Evan Martinez
lol i made the first one last week but i guess the meme has taken off
Jackson Rodriguez
and if I catch you masturbating to some cartoon character I have the right to tell everybody and sleep with your good looking best friend
How did I get ugly or nasty? Sorry femanon, did not mean to cause you any kind of offense or upset. What did I say wrong?
Lincoln Baker
She doesn't like dominant/submission descriptions.
Hunter Mitchell
look sex is an important and integral part of a healthy relationship, if all of a sudden my partner said we were to have a sexless relationship for the rest of our lives i would immediately break up with them. Why stick around when I know I'd eventually just end up cheating? my gf has an extremely high sex drive and I love her dearly so I doubt such a thing would ever happen but if she suddenly did a 180 on me and came out as an Asexual I wouldnt be hung up on it, it just is not what I'm looking for in a woman that I want to marry and litterally any guy who isnt a total beta cuck would say the same thing if he was being honest. Dont think you can suddenly change a whole facet of your personality and interactions with your partner and expect no repercussions.
Sex is part of the package of a romantic relationship. If you ain't offering it, you have no right to complain when someone walks away. A relationship with romance but not sex is like a restaurant that offers food but no beverages, not even water. Most people wouldn't want to eat at such a restaurant, and the owner would not be able to complain when people, upon seeing their menu, decided to walk out and eat somewhere else.
Ian Cook
You has problems you should talk about If a person is an a-hole, you should leave them to past. Is good to learn from things, but you should learn to see what kind of guys aren't your type. Also talking is good in general. I wish you find a nice bf/husband and have gud sex with him.
Ayden Butler
All sexual relationships require sex.
James Mitchell
Your list is cheering me up. A lot of people are shit. It looks like I've been a good boyfriend. >tfw she said that you're a boring guy
