Tfw literal coomer incel

Over masturbation is a stress reaction, and at this point it's also your self-soothing.
Find new creative outlets. IDK, learn how to play the guitar, build a boat, build a robot that builds boats, something that you can lose yourself into. Easier said than done, but this fixes the root cause, just going nofap (while not a bad idea, better than nothing) only stops the symptoms.

ITs been here for the past week

embrace it

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literally go buy a bunch of hot peppers and rub them all over your hands. you will not be masterbating anytime soon.

Sounds retarded, but this shit works.

I had to smack rock bottom before I could make any progress.

A step by step guide on how to fuck would be nice

first of all forget about nutting yourself, if you dont at least try make grill nut first, then you likely wont get many more chances with the same grill. girls hate dudes who are cumbrained and forget that sex is a shared experience.

Also no porn, cause if you land a slampig who doesn't look like a pornstar (lets be real user this isnt happening) you'll probably be soft in 5 mins cause you're used to big titty fake butt monster hogs online.

Unlike male porn which caters to a wide diversity or power dynamics. Female oriented pornography is basically all the same. A powerful and violent guy ensnares a girls and rapes her until she likes it. And the guy is always a rich CEO, or an Arab sheikh, or a bandit of some kind, modern or historical. There is no variety in female tastes, they literally all want the same thing. There is no female porn where the women is more assertive than the man, who is docile, shy and introverted.

So, whats the key to embodying this archetpe?
Basically realizing that as long as you love yourself you can have sex whenever you like, with whomever you like, the key is realizing your partner might as well not exist.

You guys ever think about what it'd be like to be me? To love yourselves as much as I love myself?
It really is a different level of existence. I realized some time ago that I don't feel attraction to others. When I have sex I don't enjoy that person's body, I enjoy being observed by them, and observing myself performing. I'm quite simply, attracted to myself, and since I discovered this my life has been radically changed. It all turns into a spectacle about myself and for myself to watch.

I don't pretend to be a sociopath, faking grandiose mental illnesses is for slightly less mentally ill folks.
What I'm trying to say is than most people are always yearning for something exterior, and their lives are aimed towards seeking this something / someone. A life time in their own company has dulled down any sense of self love and admiration they could have for themselves, after all, they know the weakness that looms in their hearts better than anyone; in other words, they have rejected the role of the protagonist in their own lives, for they're obsessed with the concept of "the other".
But when you're like me, you already have the greatest thing you could possibly want, and you goal is to enjoy it, and preserve it, and enhance it. (cont.)

Before we start, remember, whores are human shaped stepping stones in your narcissistic pursuit, even if she could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch she is still worth nothing , with that said if you still whant to score for your pleasure:
The first thing to do with any woman you want to penetrate is assert a distance between you. Do not let her get close. Keep her at arm's length and only very rarely make it clear that you want and desire her. People in general (and women in particular), are arrogant and self centered, they DO NOT want to worship a human being other than themselves; they want an image, a reliable, powerful, consistent force that they can attach themselves to, shade themselves under, and live vicariously through. By being a cutesy idiot sending lengthy texts to her explaining your pleb-tier opinions you are begging for her validation and feedback, you are basically oblivious to the fact that this submissive, masochistic little cunt wants a sexual partner, or a boyfriend and not some entry-level "my first playground romance" cuckboy.

Women enjoy the dynamic of tension and then relief, intimidation, the utter debasement of themselves in service of a man who represents brute force and who apparently gets as much of a kick out of choking her, destroying her dignity and violently using her body and forcing her to admit her utter inferiority, as she does in allowing a guy to do that to her. Very few women are looking for some dumb nerdy nice dude with tenuous philosophical positions.

But there must be some fundamental spark, based on physical attractiveness or power-orientated competence to provide the initial impulse in her desire of you. Girls simply do not fall in love with you "over time", or feel indifferent towards you at first only to suddenly become overwhelmed by desire after overhearing you tell your buddy about how exiting was that video game tournament you watched last weekend. (cont.)

The initial phase of inter-gender attraction is the most important, and the way you conduct yourself at that stage sets the tone for any relationship you may have.

Be too distant and you risk her losing interest or judging you to be oblivious and / or capable of simply "ignoring" your own instincts. Be too forward and you are admitting that you are needy, non-repressive and indifferent to high-tension dating rituals that women love. You should assert your attraction by an exchange of glances alone. This tells her you notice her and feel strongly about her, but are at the same time aware of etiquette and too appreciative of the aesthetic ritual to simply ask her to let you use her hole You must tempt her and maintain the intensity between you two. The "desire to be desired" is essential feminine, it wants to be the object of the desire instead of the desirer itself. It is passive instead of active, it wishes to be pursued instead of pursueing.
Of course, it only follows than the most masculine is not partaking in the game of desire at all. Make her feel impatient with you for not simply grabbing her and taking what you want from her. Make her ashamed of her intense desire and physical yearning for you. Make her touch herself at the thought of you, make her want to fuck her dog just to get rid of this burning urge that you have kindled. Make her view any woman you talk to as the potential ruiner of her entire life.
And THEN, when her inner turmoil is at its summit, when the delusional self-aggrandizing image she holds of herself starts to crumble under the weight of her instinct that compels her to be bred, only then you will ram her with your cock, and from that point onward with the outer layer of her persona shed from existence, she will be forced to stare into her real self and admit herself a slut, and she will be less human for it. (cont.)

With a single swift thrust of your hips, their entire lives up to that point validated; your meat rod falls upon them, striking their soft flesh like the whip of the very same Martin Luther during his daily session of self-flagellation, and much like the pain freed him from the guilt of his past sins, the pleasure of your instrument will quickly wipe away their feelings of self-loathing.

So, what comes after? Well, once you've fucked her, she will try to assert herself over you the way a woman does it, namely, by trying to convince you, that somewhere, somehow, throught the act of picking her as a sexual partner, she has become your equal; greater sleight of hand had never been dared.
Since by you difference in sexes alone, you are forever unreachable to her, her only path moving forward is to drag you down to her level; yes, even despite the fact she chose you exactly because you where her superior. She can’t help it, it’s not out of malice, she truly just can’t help it, it’s simply in their nature, 98% of women are born with a spiders hearth. They are just instinctively insecure, so they can't respect why you're with them in the first place, remember what I told you, everyone knows the weakness that looms within their own heart. When you treat them like shit, it makes more sense to them, and they'll respect why you're making X or Y decision, even though they may cry about it. It’s rather simple, if your cocksleeve doesn’t hate you, you are not on a worthy relationship. Women know not the virtues of honor and camaraderie, (this should be an objective statement at this point, anyone who knows how they threat each other can attest to this) to them, an equal is not worthy of respect, only those who stand above her. You just have to make the conscious decision that at any point, you may, and will righteously leave, and as soon as she knows, she will righteously stay. The second you NEED her, she will not be there for you. (cont.)

So, lets discuss the methaphysical, what goes on behind the curtain?
Women would rather live life as a pampered slave, than to have to face strife, or even slight discomfort in pursue of freedom. Remember that testosterone promotes risk taking, so it's really no wonder that when, and if they are offered security and stability, they'll take the path of least resistance.
But yes, I hear you, thats somewhat paradoxical, security and stability are the anthithesis of the traits I've sayd one needs to foster to attract a woman; thats because there's a crux to this issue, namely there's nothing more pleasurable than submitting totally and completely to someone else, you can let go absolutely; security for women, is "the illusion of", the removal of all responsabilities and worries.

I tangentialy touched upon womens views on the word of ideals, I sayd things like "women don't understand notions like freedom / camaraderie" but I was honestly letting a bit of legitimate misoginy slip out, I should've sayd they dont care for these traits being present on their romantic or sexual partners, so you should expect them to proyect, and reciprocate this trait onto you. At the end of the day, they cant be honest with themselves, why would you expect them to be honest with you?

A girlfriend will expect you to blindly love her, and for you to be in a constant state of longign for her approbal, but what she, and everyone is owed, is basic human decency, Love is something that shouldt be freely given, its something you have to earn. A relationship of any kiind, not only romantic, is a perpetually renewed bond based on the interests of both individuals; aka, you dont have any obligations per se, no deadlines, no time tables. Its not your duty to take her out, to buy her gifts; through her actioins she has to make the desire to treat her that way blossom within your heart.