i turn 20 in less than 3 hours
i am a complete loser and hate myself
what have i done to my live
I turn 20 in less than 3 hours
Aaron Bennett
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Cooper Foster
>20
>complete loser
Lmao, I was a complete loser at 20 as well. You have so much time to change that though.
Jonathan Powell
it might feel like you fucked up and youve lost so much time and are behind, but thats only because you are young and retarded
wait tillyou hit 30 without having done anything thats when it really sets in
protip: dont wait
Jackson Reed
I was a complete loser at 20. Now I'm 25 and I'm doing far worse than back then.
William Carter
the thing is, that i don't even know what my goals are
i just don't want to suffer
my next goal would be to get some money
i am currently -19 euros on my bank account
but what's next?
Oliver Ramirez
It aint that bad. You have plenty of time.
Blake Murphy
Get a job, any job at this point so you build cash flow. Do you live at home, pay rent? Can you use mass transit, bike to work while you save for a car? Assuming cars are viable where you live. Once you get your own transportation you can travel further for a better job. Keep saving, save up for your own apt. Whats your credit score like? Is that even a thing in Euro? If so, start building your credit ASAP so you can benefit from it in the years to come for larger purchases and ease of use. These goals will lead you to independence which leads to uncovering what you actually like to do. If you invest time into something and realize you dont like it, dont give up. Now you know one thing you dont want, and try another.
Nolan Diaz
>Do you live at home, pay rent?
i currently live at my moms house and pay her 250 euros rent, i get 300 euros a month without working
>Can you use mass transit
i am in the 13th grade of school and had my final exams few weeks ago, which means in about 3 months i never go to school again and than i have the highest normal possible school degree in germany
my school is 6 minutes away so i don't need a car
>Whats your credit score like?
i never took a credit in my live so it's unchanged from the point where i was born, in germany it isn't so common to get credits as in other countries
i am currently -19 euros minus on my bank account but i can pay that back
thx for the help so far user
i have some stuff here that i could sell to get some 100 - 150 euros
Tyler Phillips
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Joseph Bailey
When you think of cool guy what do you envision? How do you get closer to him?
Alexander Watson
Hey, cheer up man, it's only going to get so much worse.
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Anthony Martinez
Cheer up buttercup, you have so much to live for. In three hours, if you're still feeling like shit and wanna die, the rope is there for you. Swing fast, friend.
Sebastian Rogers
having a lot of money and living independent from this world, not being a wage slave
Lucas Roberts
But what does your cool guy do with his independence? He has his money and then.......
Hunter Thompson
It will get better if you put in the work.
Dont fall into the flowchart mode trap
Dylan Davis
he has an gf, maybe an apartment in a save area maybe tokyo or anywhere where he can /nightwalk/ without being disturbed
also enough money to go in a bar or restaurant and don't have to check how much money left 24/7
Ryder Peterson
Now you have a plan, work out how much money you need and then find some government statstics on the average pay of jobs. Pick one you hate the least.
Justin Nguyen
As far as credit score, I am speaking from an American pov. I had zero credit, no help from the parents or anyone to help cosign so I was deemed not credit worthy. So I got myself the lowest secured credit card I could. Wells Fargo had the lowest at the time 300 USD. With that I was able to build my credit into an unsecured card in 8 months. A little while after that I was able to get an AMEX with substantial limit. Im not saying this so you get caught in consumerism but it is important to recognize the world sees you as a number and the higher that number the better off you are. Its mostly a mid to late game thing but best to start now. I wish I did this at 20! Having a decent cash flow and the ability to have credit when you need can speed up your independence through more purchasing power and lower rates for certain payments. But as with most things worth while, they take time and initial investment to get it rolling. If you have any other questions just ask. I wouldnt consider myself highly successfully but Im doing well and striving for more.
Michael Hill
Make those your goals, and work towards them. Do you have any hobbies or interest that you could maybe make a job out of, like coding or art or music?
Michael Baker
i started programming when i was 12 years old
i started programming an AI few month ago, got quite far but then i deleted the wrong part of my hard drive and everything was gone
maybe i will rebuild this AI again, would be fun
Bentley Green
Best advice on this board I've ever heard
James Walker
Become a self motivated chad bitch here's your wakeup call neet.
Chase Garcia
Hobbies are good, but in my honest opinion they should be put on hold until you find yourself stable and not in the red. Foregoing this will benefit you later. Once you are stable you can slowly bring the hobbies back into your life, after work or on the weekends. And then potentially make side money from them or simply just enjoy them. But imo put them aside and take care of the most basic and essential priorities first. Job, place to live, transportation, while going for your next goal.
Cameron Martinez
Welcome to the club, chap.
Jeremiah Ward
me too lmao, so much time
>30
>still loser
oh wait..
Julian Lopez
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Aaron Collins
ha ha dude. I'm 19 and my birthday is tomorrow too... what's so bad about life right now? Mine is pretty good lol
Jacob Hughes
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I didn't realize this stupid meme was that popular
Jackson Hughes
HOLY SHIT OP SAME IM 20 NOW
Lucas Howard
1. NoFap
2. Working Out
3. Healthy Eating
Those 3 things alone will change your whole life in a positive way.
David Sullivan
i screenshoted this
thx user
happy birthday user
Daniel Gutierrez
Aiden Diaz
20 is a crisis point for many robots (myself included) because you realize your teens are permanently gone and they were terrible while for some other people they were amazing.
the bright side is that 20 while not young, isn't old either. you have until 25 to get your ass in gear and fix your life imo. if you turn 25 and you are still a neet pos then you really have something to mourn. until then try to turn your life around.
I'm actually only 21 op and will be 22 soon. when I hit 20 I had a crisis like you, but imagined myself turning 30 and having similar regrets about wasting my 20s (which by many are considered the prime of your life). I used that as motivation to get my ass in gear and now with almost 2 years passed since then I can say I'm definitively moving in the right direction. I don't know if it will be in one or two years, but I think by the time I hit my mid 20s I'll have things figured out, and that's seems just fine by me.
basically, use the fact that you wasted your prime teen years as motivation to not waste your 20s. the worst thing you could do is waste the rest of your prime years regretting missing a ship that already sailed, then hitting 30 and realizing there was another ship all along that you were too busy moping to notice and board.
Brayden Stewart
Im 25 if you think its bad now dont worry it gets much worse.
Evan Powell
im 27 enjoy your ride to hell