why are normies so disrespected when you don't have friends? Its like an insult to them
>"Where are your friends"
>"You shouldn't be going places without your friends"
>"You should get friends so you can go places. ya know!"
Its almost like I go everywhere alone because I have no friends or something
Any cyborgs or normies since this board is like half normie
want to explain this to me?
why do you care about normies so much
>walk around neighborhood
>weather is beautiful
>the experience is ruined by the knowledge that the normies are judging me
>they can tell I don't have a job because I'm walking around during the middle of a weekday
>they see my plain clothes, disgusting beard and flabby body
>everyone else my age has mysteriously vanished
>don't see a single person I went to school with ever
>not only do they not want to be seen without friends, they only appear in top secret, robot-free locations
>they only people who have the gall to walk around the neighborhood are elderly people and gigachads and gigastacies no younger than 35
>they can tell I don't have a job because I'm walking around during the middle of a weekday
Why does this piss off the wagies so much? I used to be a wagie so I don't get it. We can't have fun? I'm not breaking any laws
"Arggggh! You have to miserable!"
"Hmph! look at that freak with no job, disgusting!"
>they not want to be seen without friends
>they only appear in top secret, robot-free locations
This is so fucking true. Its not even about the awkwardness for them
They see going places with friends as normal. And going without friends
is "creepy" behavior.
A bunch of NPCs they are
>they can tell I don't have a job because I'm walking around during the middle of a weekday
well if they can see you, they must not be working either
>Its almost like I go everywhere alone because I have no friends or something
ok, now that you've identified the problem start figuring out why you don't make friends the normal way and start making friends the normal way so you can go out with friends like a normal person.
failing that, figure out a way to make e-friends in your local area that you can then turn into real friends by meeting up and hanging out irl.
It's always retired people and sometimes very fit, successful-looking people over the age of 35 walking their dogs on weekends or after working hours and nobody else. Everyone else is either a pool cleaner or a gardener.
>Love eating out
>Go to good eateries in the city alone
>Hear others laugh and make jokes about me
>Customers looking at me and giggling
>Workers asking sarcastically if my date is late or something
Why the fuck do people do this, you can bet a pretty penny their social media accounts are littered with "Be kind to others" type of decoration, probably preaching about good people etc... I just want to have nice food and enjoy myself after a long week of work.
you're more likely to see fit, successful people walking their dogs because that's conscientious, proper behavior. lazy poor people don't walk their dogs, they beat them and then they watch scripted reality TV.
The normal way is work or uni. And I dont have a job
And uni is the hardest place to make friends. Is it over for me?
>e-friends; you turn into real friends by meeting up and hanging out irl
I doubt anyone I talk to online lives near me
But why are you walking around a suburban neighborhood alone? That is very creepy, it's just not a thing a socially-adjusted person would ever do. At least go to a park or walking trail.
for real senpai. some shit like this has happened to me recently
Do they think we are like them? I don't feel embarrassed or scared to go places alone
They can only think about themselves. Believing everyone see's the world through their eyes
but as someone that been alone for the great part of 20+ years,
It barely bothered me
I just to genocide all you normans so that I can take a walk during the pleasant spring weather wherever I please whenever I please. Is that really so unreasonable?
lmao. other user
BTFO
It's not hard, you're free to do that. But yes you will be judged. So either don't do it or stop caring what normies think.
What exactly is your point? You wish normies wouldn't perceive you as creepy? Find something not creepy to do, then.
Jesus christ you're the defention of a normie. Walking around in a public place isn't a creepy thing you dumb normie.
you might also be overly sensitive to perceived disrespect. I was never really bullied and I still belong in this camp for some reason.
>Hear others laugh and make jokes about me
>Customers looking at me and giggling
not denying that this can happen but are you sure all the people laughing were laughing at you? I feel weirdly attacked when people laugh in public even though I know 99% of the time random people laughing in public has nothing to do with me. I still can't help but become alert and question if there's any reason they could be laughing at me. Many, many times now I've felt sure someone had to be laughing at me because they seemed to be looking my way while laughing (you can hear this, even if the laughter comes from behind you) or saying something that caused others to laugh and I ended up identifying the source of their amusement after all. For instance they can be laughing about something that is in your direction or it can be a complete coincidence that the person who said something funny or one of the people laughing happened to face roughly your way. Furthermore, if you look at people they're likely to look back so if you then turn to check they might make eye contact with you even though they weren't previously looking at you.
>Workers asking sarcastically if my date is late or something
Again, sometimes this might happen, but are you sure all of these workers were asking sarcastically? They want you to tip them. They have more incentive than anyone else to be nice to you. Is it possible some of them were just trying to make smalltalk and didn't realize the potential insult until it had escaped their lips?
>uni is the hardest place to make friends
No, it's the second easiest after school. Uni constantly supplies reasons to talk to each other (course work, professors, local gossip, smalltalk to just pass the time during a lull etc) and everyone is young and pretty much expected to be extraverted. You can strike up a conversation with anyone and if the response is anything but negative you're a few coincidences / commonalities away from being "friends". If you can't make friends at uni you're either too picky or there's actually something wrong with you.
I noticed how it's all in my head since I became a waiter, I used to feel judged by waiters but now I feel judged by the customers
This. Most robots have very negative/skewed views on how people perceive them. People are concerned about themselves and probably don't even pay you a second thought, most of the time.
Maybe there is something wrong with me, but I find it's a HUGE step to go from smalltalk/hanging out during class to becoming friends and part of their social circle.
>there's actually something wrong with you.
duh you goddamn retard
since when was this a creepy thing to do?
>there's actually something wrong with you
OP here. I give off a bid auora I guess
most people cut conversation short when I try to talk to them
bad*
is what I meant before it was autocorrected
yes, this is the way! unironically putting yourself in the rest of society's shoes is how you lose insecurities. turns out nobody's staring at you, you're staring at others. turns out people aren't judging you nearly as harshly as you're judging them (and yourself) etc. a large cause of social incompetence / defeatism is just solipsism, projecting your own mindset onto everyone else.
in a way it is since it doesn't seem to happen often. but that's only how you feel. meanwhile most people make and change friends all the time so making a new friend is nothing special. reminding yourself that it's probably nothing special for the other person might make things easier for you.
>edge
there's most likely nothing wrong with you and you're just stuck in your ways and acting dramatic to avoid having to change your behavior in a non-lazy way.
how to make normies suck my big ol dick?
act like you're one of them and like it would be no big deal if one of them sucked your big ol dick.