how would one start talking to girls when they're boring as fuck? e.g. all I do/know is vidya and theres no chance a girl would talk about that.
How would one start talking to girls when they're boring as fuck? e.g...
Talk about how cool it was that Arya killed the Night King
I'm just gonna leave this for you
You ask normal interview questions and when they say something interesting, you take a word they said and take it deeper.
>Where are you from?
San Antonio
>oh that's cool, I know there's a lot of Mexican culture there.
>It was cool going to the taqueria on the River Walk. Do people from San Antonio go to the River Walk or is it just full of goofy tourists like me?
Blah blah blah
It's just free association. Once you dive deeper into a word she said, the conversation flows easier and you can begin flirting.
>All girls are boring
>I only know how to talk about vidya
I don't think that the girls are boring
Girls like video games user. Even the ones who don't actually like them will pretend to because that's what's cool these days. It just takes the right swagger and confidence to make a girl laugh at a Legend of Zelda joke and pretend she knows what you're talking about
Your a retard. All groups have a collective conciousness. It's often called mob mentality. Most people are completely unaware that it is ever present, even less can tap into it.
Plenty of girls are into videogames. And you sound very boring. Fucking nerd.
Reading comprehension, user.
Contrary to popular belief, there are girls out there who play vidya. You just gotta keep looking.
What is this comic implying? That a guy is wrong if he says girls don't like him? Sometimes it's just true. Some guys sometimes just have something avigr them that repels women.
Yes. Has all to do with gender. Nothing about region, or language, or heritage, or upbringing, or peers.
We all just think alike and agree to not enjoy the things men enjoy
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>Your a retard.
classic irony.
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Talk about her. Ask her questions. Find out her interests and have her teach you. You dont need anything to talk to somebody but curiosity for that person.
>Girls like video games
Yeah, but they suck.
OP, you got to stop being boring first. Read some good literary books (not sci-fi). Watch some good non-commercial movies. Think about how they make you feel, how they probably would make others feel. After a few years, you will have genuinely compelling things to say.
If you try to take a short cut and find a girl now, you may succeed. But she will be even blander than you are, and you'll both pull each other down.
>e.g. all I do/know is vidya
>implying you're not boring as fuck yourself as well
Not sure if you're not self aware or just really stupid.
>how would one start talking to girls when they're boring as fuck? e.g. all I do/know is vidya and theres no chance a girl would talk about that.
Sorry to tell you this chap, but it's not THEM that's boring as fuck...
you get some hobbies that arent video games. Like playing an instrument, playing sports, maybe archery idk something you enjoy. You can do it user!
they aren't boring, you are boring
What games do you play, user? I made several female friends on Overwatch. Yeah, they are boring as fuck for us autists, but we keep conversations once in a while.
Jesus Christ you're all retards
You ask a simple question, and give a simple example that YOU ONLY KNOW/DO VIDYA... and you think we're the retards for assuming that you, the person who only knows about computer games, is the boring person in this situation... and not the 4 billion women.
have any of you ever had a satisfying discussion with a woman?
I haven't
I've tried. it took time and stubborn naivety but If I had to choose between stable lifelong male friendships and as much female company I'd choose the first and just jerk off when the need arose.
the option of building a family with a stable female partner is more desireable... but also an even more elusive unicorn.
to be understood, for a woman to recognize and value the emotional and ethical dynamic of my convictions... I long for it
but the older I get the more obviously stupid it seems to think that could ever happen
ive utilized games and gaming groups as my last remaining avenue to socialize with people. i went this shut-in escapist route right after a last batch of personal/educational/professional failures to drove me to robot life
maybe the fact I had a chain of girlfriends and regular sex in the past made it possible for me to size up any girl in an online gaming group to the tune of:
>we're never going to meet. she's not going to fuck me
>is she any fucking good at the game? can she participate in interesting conversations?
nearly every fucking time the answer to the questions of importance was no
every goddamn time there's a "gamer girl" in the group: she's incompetent and just sucks up the lonely-boy attention
every goodamn time I'd be in a purpose-driven leadership position and manage-a-girl-to-accomplish-a-task she'd resent me for "not treating her nicely" whereas men routinely respond to constructive criticism
there has been a minority of women encountered in gaming groups that have been competent but they've usually entered on the coattails of a boyfriend - and it seems like their level of effort is correlated to a desire to "be good at the things he likes"
and none of this really relates to your perceived problem... doesn't matters what you're interested as long as you can speak and frame things in a way that are of interest to her. Framing "vidya" as a topic of interest to a girl is going to have diminishing returns as you age. if you're young and, say, both participated in the same game, same community, same clans - you could be interesting to her discussing how you are a skillful and respected community/clan leader
It's about what makes YOU a king swinging dick in whatever circle you're a part of: that could be "community manager, streamer personality" even to a gamer girl - but obviously there are better hobbies/involvements to have to gain sexual market value.
>Yeah, but they suck.
Does it matter? Op says all he can talk about is games, girls like games so he has a topic that he can use. It doesn't matter if they suck at games, all that matters is if they'll suck dick.
I wasn't clear. The girls who play vidya suck as people, not at vidya (although probably that too). OP is asking the wrong question. He needs to learn how to suck less rather than looking for people who suck worse than him.