How you holdin' up Jow Forums?
I hit the gym hard 3x this week, had the first practice of the year for my spooky Halloween band, then started editing the 3rd episode of our youtube show.
oh, and the coomer meme got me to start nofap for the first time
gf going out to a "girls only" night with her friends so I get to chill all by myself and play vidya
feels good
Just got my first gf ever and im trying really hard to not look needy and desperate for affection, despite the fact that all i can think about is how much i want to hold and kiss her.
Been hitting two a days all week trying to reach my goals faster and today is rest day so I can kill back tomorrow. I’m tired, sore, broke, depressed, still have pubertal gyno and a fucking toxic living situation but what can you do. Time to finish my shake and keep on trucking, I’ll be competing at the Mr. Olympia in a few years and this shit will all be behind me. We’re all gonna fuckin make it brah
Depressed here lads. Not socializing enough and got no gf. I've developed an emotional dependency with being with my dog and vice versa, the bastard refuses to eat unless I'm present so if i stay out too long I feel extremely guilty.
Also stopped working so I could focus on school and maintain good marks. 3.84 gpa so far but now I'm dependent on the folks as a result.
Am i just being a bitch?
You're doing great in school, keep going. Find the little things you can be happy about, and enjoy where you are right now.
Good attitude
Wtf, are you serious? Mind posting body?
Your girl is getting dicked
>imagine not valuing a nice alone time night because you're scared that your live-in girlfriend is cucking you
men who are scared of getting cucked get cucked
Neediness can make a woman as dry as the Sahara desert.
I've got a word of advice for you man, do not ever put her on a pedestal.
She'll think you're weak. The only way she can see while she's on top that pedestal is by looking down on you.
Avoid the neediness.
Have sex
FairPlay, I regretted saying that to user almost immediately... I have also fucked a decent amount of girls on girls nights and now I’m fucked for life... don’t worry user enjoy your alone time
>Finish work late
>Get to gym at 10pm
>Just me and the mirror
>Take shirt off
>Mire juicy pump and recent fat loss
>Listen to the Dragonborn song while I do it
This ain't so bad
I wish my gym was open right now but they fucking close at 9. Wish I was in your position right now.
>2019
>Not going to 24/7 gym
They have a lot of shit there so I rarely have to wait for things to open up. 8 squat racks, 5 benches, it's a nice place.
you're going to fuck it up, just enjoy it while you can and learn your lesson once it's over
finally passing my uni classes and working out 4 times a week
want gf, have to make gainz as my face exudes incel-energy
Just taking a census.
How old were you when you moved out
>23 year old loser
Id rather be homeless than move back in with parents desu, id feel pretty worthless
I’m dead serious. No body pic yet, the statue isn’t complete. Keep an eye out for a broad shouldered 6’3 American white dude with blonde hair and blue eyes entering the classic division in a few years. I’ve been training for almost a year with a shitty diet and I’m the biggest non-roider I know, for example my arms are 18” without a pump. My frame is fantastic and my insertions are even better, my cuts are so deep I was able to see muscle separation in my quads, back, and shoulders at 25% bf. If Chris Bumstead still has the title when I get there he’s not gonna know what hit him.
>oh, and the coomer meme got me to start nofap for the first time
This is why you get warned and banned for posting it.
18 went to college
Going to the gym tonight.
Special work detail tomorrow night
Date on Sunday afternoon
The only thing I'm concerned about is my habit of self sabotaging and that I'll fall asleep and not wake up on time on Sunday.
Out at 18, back in at 25, out at 29, then back in at 34, don't see myself moving out any time soon. To qualify this 1) it's a family property, they don't live here more than a few months per year, 2) I could buy a nice house with cash, I'm just cheap and good with money.
Two years from gaining wizard powers, here to give this thread some testosterone.
Haven't moved out yet but I'm thinking about moving out sometime next year after getting more freelance clients and selling houses in real estate. 21 right now.
>had 18000 dollars saved up after working for 9 months as a pizza delivery driver
>blew it all after being lazy and not working for 9 months and getting fucked by bills
>down to 4500 right now
Take advantage like I did man. If you're living with your parents use this as an opportunity to stash as much cash as possible.
Do any other Anons know this feel? Especially with women. Its so exciting and fun to get them, then once I do i just want them gone. And when it seems like they don't want me I get upset and depressed. Any advice on how to fix this shit?
Fucking larp. You have no idea if your body will react to gear. Or if you have the discipline or intellegence to run skin.
>guy comes to look at my Miata
>make a deal on price
>dude leaves to go to the bank
>sends me a text changing his mind on the fucking way there
>dude who was going to look at it tomorrow cancels
>earlier this week another person who was "very interested" bailed
>booty call says she wants to "hang out" today
>then ghosts me when I reply
why the fuck are people so flaky? on the other hand I got a 180 2x5, 1x5 bench today so it was a pretty good day today
Why did you not write 3x5?
Post miata
Lmfao pussywipped beta cuck whiteboi, you absolute moron, shes 100% getting fucked and cheating on your ass. If a girl wants to be alone, she cheating, u can never trust women
Sorry yo, shes cheating. Better drop her and block her
I did nofap the last 3 days but only because there's about a 40% chance I get laid tomorrow and I don't want to go soft
I'm a noob but I'm proud of deadlifting 300lb for the first time today
I meant 2x6 and 1x5
Going to eat a pizza then visit the downtown of the town I moved to to get a feel for the nightlife
Hoping to make friends at a rock climbing gym I'm joining tomorrow, but worst case scenario, I love climbing shit
18 for college and been living on my own after graduation too.
God I wish I could move in with my parents, I'd be saving so much rent money.
Sad cunt mentality
NGMI
You're seeking female validation and once you get it, you don't care anymore because you don't actually care about the person just the (You)s.
Stop being insecure.
I'm wondering why I'm bothering with fitness when my max potential is already determined by genetics and I doubt I'd be able to compete with anyone
Not so good if I'm being honest. But snow has fallen and my true love lies just around the corner
I'm not saying he shouldn't try. Just to be a bit more humble. We should all be critical of what we see on the internet without proof
Purdy. I like miatas.
Compete with yourself. You should set some goals in your life, even if they aren't fitness related, and work towards them. That said, having a healthy body should be a consideration for everyone. 3-4 hours at the gym a week is doable for almost everyone, and with proper diet you can get pretty far
Got into a fight with mum because I am literally into my lowest point.
>27, NEET (not by choice) with a useless major, everything so far in my life has crumbled, and i am getting desperate
> mum tries to comfort me saying God has a plan.
> finally snapped and told her if its because of a cosmic jew, who seems to like to see me eating shit and sink into a shithole, whatever its out there its either cruel or fictional.
> I think I hurt her with my comments.
I really wish things to get better and get my life back on track.
what does this cryptic shit even mean? plz elaborate user
Go apologize, she has your back and tried to comfort you and you lashed out at her in return. Come back when you've set things right.
Managed to get my lifts back to where they were after fucking dengue fever fucked me up for a month and I lost a chunk of my dyel gains. Today I hit a lmao2pl8 3x5 diddlies, just where I was before the fever. Rejected 2 different invitations to go out drinking (been drinking a bit too much lately because depressed, taking any excuse to do so) and instead went to lift. Her absence hurts something fierce, luckily I've been pretty busy at work with new interesting projects. A young thot smiled at me today mirin my leg curls and I smiled back, happened couple of times. I feel like happiness is a possibility if I keep on doing right.
Get a job or go back to school? Can relate though i majored in biology and couldn't get into medical school and it became worthless otherwise.
I've tried to do this in the past but I don't know how to. I just get frustrated and angry at my lack of ability and keep comparing myself to others instead of myself
A lot has happened in the past month. I really liked the girl I was seeing, then she started to hate me, and then we broke up. I started seeing someone else, but I'm not sure how much I like her. The last girl had an ass that I lived to eat, and always tasted great. Tried it with the new girl and had to wash out my mouth after :(
A rat got into my apt from the basement, and the landlord has kept pushing back when maintenance will seal up the holes into the basement. It's been a month, and I'm concerned another will dig a new hole through my walls.
Lastly, I turned down a very lucrative part time job in favor of focusing on school, lifting, and chasing girls. Im pressed for time as it is, but it's a lot of money to be passing up. I hope I'm making the right decision, but I don't think I will ever know for sure.
>asked out gym crush to dinner
>Get a resounding maybe
>I'm not a fool, I know it's a no, still she seems to like me.
>Doin a new talent standup routine next week
>Gonna invite her to that
>If she balks, then im gonna just move on but remain a flirt
>have three other girls I know on the chopping block to ask out.
>Almost saw my ex who tore me inside out tonight as well. Luckily, I did not. Life continues.
All and all, I'm pretty happy I asked her out, regardless of the soft no. got pumpkin spice coffee from Trader Joe's to tide me over in the mean time, so just trying to stay comfy.
Set small attainable goals. Like make it to the gym this week. Compare yourself to people near your level. Know that many buff guys at the gym have been training consistently for 7 years. Not to mention people who juice
I like this attitude. Seems a bit much to take a date to your own standup though. Like a bit self centered. How long since your ex and you split?
25. I visit them once or twice a year. I can't tell if I'm a shitty son or not.
I am actually a Doctor , but in a third world shithole.
Being a GP here its literally a punishment, you get the insane load of work and get paid minimun wage in our coin because socialized medicine.
Of all my friends, my field is the shittest in everything, even my hipster cousin earns more with a major in arts, or the very least the rest dont deal with the situations we do.
Next sunday I present my grade exam to get into Pediathrics, have left everything for it since January to focus in that exam.
Work, friends , gf, will be my third and last, if I dont pass I really will just drop it, and will only aply to office jobs.
There’s a difference between being confident in what you can do and being arrogant. Why attack somebody because they didn’t rush to post body on an anonymous Mongolian basket weaving forum, he really is gonna be competing at the Mr. Olympia his body would be recognizable. In today’s cancel culture would you really want to be publicly associated with Jow Forums
what are you asking for it?
What country? I kinda lied in that I got into medical school in spain (dual citizen US/spain) but i could reach the same quality of life if not better in a fraction of the time by just entering nursing in the states. Currently busting my ass in an accelerated program, my former school has an accelerated nursing program for international physicians.
Been too long. Split in January. Impacts me hard still because it was a mutual first love, we were together two years. We mutually defined half of college for each other, fundamentally. But all in all, it's far beyond over. There's the standard regrets and mistakes that will bother me if I get reminded of them. I still miss my friend, but she's a walking ball of hurt, were I to even speak to her. Best to just stay away.
And I figured the standup would just be a pretty hooking novelty. I've never done it before, but I think the fun factor is there. If not, I could invite her out to Karoake, which I do quite a bit, or just talk with her more and charm her over. But the standup seems pretty unique.
Nice, good on you for pursuing stand up if that’s what you wanna do. It’s like the great Bill Burr says, there’s no chance in following a dream, but there’s a tremendous risk in playing it safe.
We’re all gonna fuckin make it brah
Yeah there is a difference, and his post reeked of arrogance. Or larp
I still make it to the gym consistently, been going 3-4 days a week since october (though I had to take 3 months off for an injury and restarted from scratch). It was really fun at first but now I just get upset every visit because of the aforementioned stuff. I know it takes time but then I also see people get to where I am or better in a lot less time too.
México
Next week begins the season of the nationals called ENARM, of 86,000 GP that apply only 7.5% will get into a speciality, the rest back to the salt mines until they drop dead.
Lmao fair enough, I guess we’ll see in a few years
Do you think it's the truth that women are never going to love us the way we love them? Do we have to keep all feelings hidden?
In my last fling I caught myself playing the same dumb games women play with everyone. Like waiting a day to respond to a text. Talking with other girls, mentioning said girls on a off the cuff manner to make her jealous. I fucking hate myself, and I hate her for making me do those things.
But idk Im still not sold on standup. I like karaoke more, but I try my best to keep the attention on her for a first date.
Maybe try eating more. If you are working out consistently, diet is going to be what's holding your progression back. Doesn't sound like things are so bad for you. Maybe some other areas in life to take a look at
Drunk as fuck eating cookie cake lmao. Weekends don't count faggots
That's fucking brutal. I know how difficult it is for the US but what about getting your specialty in spain? It's not the mountains of dough US doctors get but it's not min wage levels of hell. ~60k euros a year for a low tier specialist kinda sucks but eh.
You can't love a woman the way she loves you because she signed up for a different type of love than the one she gives out by being straight
You show her love but in a man way, not by hiding your feelings, but not by going "omg ily sooo much sugar plum
Also, did she hold a gun to your head and make you text her a day late? You chose to do that instead of calling her out on her bullshit because you were afraid of taking an L.
Never be afraid of taking your ball and going home.
That's exactly why I hate myself. So many things I needed to address, but became passive aggressive over instead. Eventually I left, but she was pushing me away for weeks. It's been 3 weeks and I still feel so angry sometimes. I think I need to drop current girl and find someone I actually like.
But thanks mate. Good luck with your date.
>. I have also fucked a decent amount of girls on girls nights and now I’m fucked for life
yeaj ill bet you have
Mucha suerte
[spoiler]De cuál universidad eres egresado?[/spoiler]
let me try to understand Jow Forums here. everyone always says its important for a bf/gf to have their own friends and do things with their friends separately to have their own friend groups and alone time from each other with their friends. its fine for the guy to go on "bro trips" no problem. but if the girl ever does anything with her friends then it means shes immediately taking miles of dick
I live in Salt Lake City and in another short month or 2 I get to do this for another 6 months
The AMIR sounds as scary tho.
The thing with Mexico its that all entry level jobs are hugly downgraded in payments, but at least in medicine for example with a speciality you x4 the pay, besides you become more independent to enter the private sector to even do more.
But again its literally a win/lose it all, sadly I am in the last.
But thanks for the recomendation, good luck when your time comes with the AMIR.
I could only go to the gym Monday this week cuz I am sick as shit. Constant coughing, nose is a mess, weak and tired. I want to die.
>muscle seperation at 25%
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ok dude
>pic related is your grasp on reality
>take subway every day to and from work
>every day see a handful of cute girls on the train, even at my home station standing there
>have been doing this daily for 4 years
>have never spoken a word to another person on the train the entire time
Anáhuac Mayab, gracias !
>t. Shit genes
Coping this hard
because fit is full of insecure faggots who can't imagine letting their gf do things on her own because they immediately think of how pathetic they are and that some Chad will come and mog them and fuck their girl
I'm Standup user, but I agree with the other user's advice. Women love differently than men. Women ultimately are very pragmatic about it all, men start shallow but grow a lot of depth, usually too much and in a needy way. Showing a woman you aren't afraid of losing her, that you stand on your own with or without her is kind of an ultimate point of strength in a relationship as a man. Obviously this is on a fulcrum of love and not pushing boundaries or abuse, but it makes you the one in control of the relationship.
While it is nicer to think about vulnerabilities and such, of being open with feelings, some men will be too sensitive and others too closed. I fear I was too open about my misery to my ex about losing her, but wallowing in it is no use. I advice the same to you, to find better things to ponder and get stuck on that won't drag you to a lower level of pain and sorrow.
I hope you find what you are looking for user. Not everything will work out, but it doesn't have to if you find your own peace.
And for the possible date, I'll probably talk to her in person again, probably just gonna do Karoake or dumb it down to something less serious, and see if she bites. I asked her to check out a new Biergarten with me, and she seemed interested in that, just not with me. Maybe she'll come around just through talking. Who knows. Thank you for the kind sentiments.
Protip, there’s no reason why you should be unhappy in a relationship
Obviously ups and downs etc, but don’t be afraid to toss a girl if you start dreading spending time with her
Now that you are aware of the demon, you can kill it
Lol who? Girls should never have any friends besides some girls that I approve of. Women WILL cheat on your ass, without a doubt. Theres always someone better than you and in the right conditions, she will cheat. Guys are different, they are allowed to cheat and fool around. Women must be kept on a tight leash or else they whore out.
you're so fucking dumb. guess what? you can coerce your gf into staying with you, but you cannot actually change her desires. if she wants to cheat, she will find a way, no matter how controlling you get. and the more controlling you get, the more resentful she'll get, and the more suspicious and insecure you'll get.
Cuck, if you actually trust and belive your gf or girl, then your pussywipped. I never date cuz girls will cheat and dumb your ass, no matter what. Even if ur a 10/10, they will fuck other men. Untill society makes adultery for women punishing with death, I will never date.
Fucking lol, you just proved my.point. Women will cheat no matter what. And please mr. 200IQ, how do u coerce a girl to stay with you? Cuz that sounds like bullshit
you never date because some girl hurt your little feefees and instead of realizing how dumb fucking retarded you act in your relationships and fixing yourself you decided to become a nigger
no, my point was that IF a women wants to cheat, she will cheat no matter how controlling you are. you're insecure as fuck
Nigger there is no IF, it's only when. Whenever its day 1 or 9 years Into a relationship, girls no matter what will succumb to the whore urges and fuck around. How can you tell me you fully trust your gf? Especially in this day and age. Its impossible. Enjoy becoming a cuck, you cant lose if you never play :)
Found the fat neckbeard
don't feel guilty.
take the time off, your body needs it
unrelated, tomorrow I'm gonna go skateboarding
>t. 36 yo zoomer
Enjoy being cheated on, girls will cheat.
Good for them, I hope they enjoy that stranger dick