Tell us why did you reject the only chance you had at having a gf and/or sex in your entire life

Because she sucked off two of my friends at a party the week before. I'm not committing to that.

Because I was 13 and didn't know how to shave

She didn't want to use a condom and was broke as fuck, not worth the risk. Now I'm still a virgin but don't really give a shit anymore

Because i believed that's what i needed to become happy, but when i got a gf who cared and loved me, i got grossed out and lost interest, so yeah, maybe in the 1st place i never wanted a gf to begin with.

I was bullied into insanity

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>implying I ever had a chance

it was back at the start of high school
some bpd skinny slut from a nearby town which couldnt get into any better school thought i was cute because "i looked at memes and look like pyrocynical"
ignored the fuck out of that bitch
side note:no, im not in a shitty school just the demand for this course was basically none

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Maybe its starts with the fact ive never had a meaningful relationship with even a friend that could rely on me to hear their feelings about something. I feel like not having a serious relationship at all has dashed my hopes of actually achieving. Was the lack of real social growth during my preteens the reason why every conversation that i randomly start i have nothing to say about barely even 10sec after it started? Why is the only thing i can actually talk about is video games and fucking fish keeping, which ive never actually had a tank that didnt kill the fish in a day except for betta fish. AND WOMEN????? 1 life and was born with a lazy eye lid. My face symmetry is fucked. If someone does actually willingly talk to me her having to carry the conversation is sure to finally drive her away if she doesnt have the same interests. Is there something wrong with me? Or am i overthinking it, and really want to live like this?

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I actually had 2 chances
1.
>girl dated my two best friends at different times and it ended ugly both times
>said she wanted to date me
>obviously I say no for the previous reasons
2.
>actually acquire gf in high school somehow
>been together a couple weeks
>she never wants to go on dates so we only see each other at school, usually just during lunch
>we dont even get on that well when we're together
>she wants me to come over so we can do the sex at her place
>nervous as fuck but I agree
>get there, turns out her parents are home and I'm supposed to sneak past them into her room right next to their
>chicken out cause I feel like I broke in
>go home

I honestly dont regret either one

I do not remember ever having a chance.

She had nothing in common with me. I knew I wouldn't be able to form a genuine connection with someone I couldn't understand.

I didn't reject it. I got a gf by pure luck a few months before graduating from high school. After that we moved to pretty much the opposite sides of the world.
Since it was the forst relationship for both of us we had no idea what we were supposed to do with it. I deeply regret not moving things along faster and losing my virginity.

It was after my firends wedding party. There was that one girl who had her eyes on me all the time. I danced and talked with her a bit and shortly before I decided to go home she asked me if I would like to have an afterparty. I was completely drunk so I agreed. We took a bus and went to her place, drink some more and suddenly she said something like: "Oh, it's so late that there's no way for you to home. Better stay the night. Oh, I'm afraid I only have one bed."
We were cuddling and kissing a bit and when she asked me if I want to go on I said that I'm so drunk that I won't manage. The truth was that this whole situation and sheer shock made me sober in an instant - I just freaked out because back then I was 25 years old virgin.

Sitll a virgin, sadly.

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She was frail and had parkinsons and she'd have ended up like Stephen Hawking if we fucked.

>had suspicions that she was cheating
>didn't have the balls to confront her so I just broke up without telling her why
>intense feelings of regret for next 2 years
>think that maybe I was wrong and should have just confronted her
>I talked to her later about it
>first she confirmed my suspicions and then laughed at me for being a virgin
>I don't know what to feel

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how did she accept to be your gf and also to fuck you if she doesn't even like you that much?

Because she was literally 70+ and was friends with my grandma who was sitting right beside me when she hit on me and I don't think my grandma would like me fugging her friend. And I don't have a thing for girls over 60 anyway, so I guess I was just being picky. I was super flattered though.

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She was fat and I didnt have the balls to respond to her FB pm

nigger what? How old are you. Fucking cougar

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I will not lie and make up a long-ass fake story like most robots here

She was ugly and fat, and i just lust after +8/10 instagram thots
Robots should acknowledge more their high ass standards as one of the primary reasons they are lonely losers

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Turned out she wasnt real popular but was a massive whore that would give it away to basically anybody. I found out later that she had dated one of my close friends before me, I had just never met the guy's gf so I didnt know.
Apparently she kinda had a reputation for being a jerk, but I didnt know anybody else that knew her so word didnt get back to me til after

I was only 18 at the time when it happened. It was really uncomfortable, she kept rubbing my leg and putting her fingers through my hair. Honestly, her being my grandma's friend was just an excuse, I wouldn't have fugged her either way. It was really creepy. I guess I'm just as picky as the roasts are afterall.

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as much as i'd like to have sympathy for yall, if you had one chance, you still have a chance. you're normal (as in part of the 99% that will lose their virginity). i'm 34 and no woman has ever even flirted with me, much less held hands

You should have hulked out and splattered her wrinkly ass all over the floor, walls, and ceiling. Are you not even averse to being touched from abuse or something? Fucking casual.

My mummy raised me to never be angry because anger is the devil.

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ANGER AT MUMMY. BECOME UNSTOPPABLE DEVIL. RELEASE THE BEAST. EXTERNALIZE THE HURT.

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>why did you reject the only chance you had at having a gf
She was too hasty, I want to take things slow, I ain't a manwhore fucking on the first date.
>and/or sex
Had 10x more occasions for mindless sex than gf but I'm not interested in that.

I have rejected 2 girls in my 23 years of life so far. Both were nice girls and I enjoyed my time with them, but I friend-zoned them both, and only talk still talk to one.
The first was a girl I met at church during my high school days and I thought we would probably get together later in life to start dating when we have figured out what we want to do with our lives before making that kind of commitment. I grew up a traditional southern baptist can only see dating as a precursor to marriage and did/do not have to capacity to date someone just for fun. So as a preschooler, I friend-zoned her because I was incapable of making that kind of commitment at so young an age before I even knew what I was going to do. One day a year later, I fucked up (still don't know what I did, or if she just broke down) and she asked that I don't talk to her anymore. Like an idiot, I complied to her request and we swiftly drifted apart.
The second girl is a very different story. During high school she was pretty much a a horny slut, by her own words. She was also a huge nerd and I met her when she joined my D&D group. She ended up dating one of my best friends and that's how I got to know her well. After high school, they dated for a while, but the relationship broke up in flames, and I ended up being the go between for the two of them. A year later and she was still chatting with me, and eventually asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend. At this point she was living in Hawaii and I'm still in Texas. So the first reason I turned her down was that we had been chatting solely over text, never face-time, or seen each other in person, and I do not think it is good to start a meaningful relationship at long distance when the basis is solely that we enjoy each others company online. The second reason is that she is an avid atheist while I am an avid christian.
In short, I didn't date one because I thought I was too young, and I didn't date the other because she is an atheist.

Because i was and i'm picky, also i don't want gf anymore too much trouble to be worth it.

>nerdy guy turning down a shy cutie ever
this has never happened

I wasn't ready
It was a dumb idealized crush and I knew I was too immature

not even gonna lie she looks alright. usually when they have that much makeup they look like fucking gremlins, she's just fat. would fugg.

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smat

It as when I was 15, and I had my homecoming coming up. I was at one of my mom's friends parties, and I was just sitting on the stairs. One of the girls came up and said that she wanted to go to homecoming to me. She was ok, not too attractive or unattractive, but she just wasn't my type. She was all into school and smart, but I just did what I could to get a borderline A-. I'm pretty sure we were gonna be conflicting.
I was also pretty keen about everything, and I predicted that my mother asked her to come to my homecoming. I was also just a terrible person, still am. Maybe I'll find someone eventually.

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the only clearly interested girl ive ever had was ugly and annoying

couple others I look back now and think they were interested but my confidence was far too low to think that at the time

The first time i rejected was because i was too young and didn't understand the message.
The second time i was too young and she was a roastie, and didn't really know what to do.
The third time i got dumped because i didn't do anything sexual quick enough.
The third time i finally started to understand a few things, yet rejected her since she was unpleasant to be around and a fattie.
The fourth time she was a roastie.
The fifth time she was an ultra club roastie.

And here i am, ready to be a wizard in a bunch of years.

This is true for me actually, but eh it stayed in the past and I can't fix it. Also I'm getting my shit together with being an autistic khhv

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She'd be super cute if she was thin
what a waste

This one is true for me actually, but eh, it's in the past right now, and I can't fix it. Also I'm getting my shit together with being an autistic khhv so I don't really mind. Just feel a bit sad for the girl, now that I remember it, she put her both hands on my shoulders and said "Do you want to be my boyfriend?" with a pretty cute smile in her face and when I said "no" her expression changed completely. Maybe if I'd said yes back then my life would've been completly different, but I don't want to think to much about it. I start to feel pressure in my chest when I get into that thoughts.

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>the fourth time*
>the fifth time*
>the sixth time*

I have had plenty of opportunities to fuck, and to have a girlfriend,but I never do it, because I always think that I can do better.
In this moment, I have the female equivalent of orbiters, but I don_t really want anything to do with them (they have a beauty average of 3/10).
Sometimes I think that I don't really want a relationship or to be responsible to take care of a family, and I_m middly happy being a virgin at this age.
Maybe I should find a female friend to have some interaction with the opposite sex, and just fap in my room alone.

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liar or you have mental issues

I wish, it always brings me suicidal thoughts thinking about the beauty of the first girl that asked me out in middle school.
I was just a kid minding my own buisness and playing with friends, who even thought about girls?

geez, is your mom sick?

Because the chance never showed up

Oooooh fuck, I remember something the medication erased.
>asked out a tall girl in middle school
>did it via a proxy because I was afraid of rejection
>she said yes
>went to confirm in person, I didn't think it was true
>she said she would go out with me
>was afraid she was leading me on to make fun of me
>said I changed my mind and walked away
I moved away later on, but fuck, I really did shoot myself in the foot there. Fucking pills man.
I have another one though, this time was lucid
>ex said she would have sex with me
>turned her down because I don't believe in premarital sex
I don't regret that one at all, but I can't help thinking about the former story and what could have been. Shit sucks.

also
>mental issues
Explain to me why should i even fuck an unpleasant hambeast?
Why should i fuck a roastie that fucked as many people as are the ones posting in this thread?
Why should i even consider a roastie that's probably just as bad, that i met in i club, since i don't even like clubs and wouldn't be here by choice?

There was an old lady who was faculty at my uni, apparently was recently divorced (forgot how I found this out).

Anyways near the end of the year she started aggressively flirting with me, and doing things like rubbing my leg and touching my shoulder.

It was creepy at the time and I could finally understand the resentment Stacies have for creepy beta guys who aggressively flirt with them.

I kind of regret not fugging her, now that I am a 24 year old virgin with 0 prospects. I had a milf fetish, but she was too old even for me. She was in her 60s and not incredibly attractive either. I may have considered her if she hadn't been so creepy about it. But it was just so sudden, out of the blue, I had no indication of her being interested in me until close to the end of the year and BAM creepy old lady stalker mode.

I'm so lonely now I sometimes regret ignoring her, but those feelings quickly go away when I think more about her.

Also when I was in high school I had a chance with a girl but was too shy.

You shouldn't. Anyone telling you to date a slut has their priorities wrong. Refusing to compromise on looks is one thing, but wanting someone who at least has basic human decency is perfectly fine. Robots are so focused on getting a GF they don't even think about the relationship itself. Why does anyone think they'd enjoy a relationship with a slutty roastie who doesn't even love you?

Idk, maybe I'm wrong and user is right. Maybe you'd be happier if you'd dated her, at least you'd have a companion. Nah, I'm probably right.

Because the only girl that showed interest in me in highschool was anorexic and I am not sexually attracted to fucking skeletor.

Because Im a complete fucking asshole who would lose his sense of self identity if I ever fell in love

friendzoned, cheated on, and then friendzoned again.
i don't have anyone else who showed interest.
Ii wish i could just have someone who was nice to me but the fact is i don't even deserve that.
i deserve to be alone because I'm a boring loser

>Tell us why did you reject the only chance you had at having a gf and/or sex in your entire life

I never had a chance.
Although there was this one cute tiny blonde with blue eyes back in junior high (I think that's it, 8th year of school) that spent most of her free time looking at me.
I never had the balls to talk much to her, she was a foreigner and was too pretty for an ugly guy like me.

At the same time I had a bit of a crush for this tall, fat redhead with grey eyes.
Fucking girl had the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen. She was way too tall and fat for me, a manlet in reasonable shape (at the time). But we were friends for some three or four years.

Obesity completely destroyed what little value modern women could have. (because sure as hell no one would like them for their character)
That chick is clearly a cute chick, except the beauty is buried under 200 pounds of fat.
But again, while her beauty is there, I'm not quite sure there's any character to save.

I was too scared to say yes when she asked me out. All I could think of is that I barely knew how to hold a conversation, let alone how to go on a fucking date.

I became obsessed to the point it was too toxic. We were best friends, we loved each other, we had sex. But I wasn't boyfriend material for her. Then I fucked up due to obsession and we cut all contact
But maybe if I had got my shit together and maybe get a job and show her I could be a provider I could have made her my gf

Had one girl contacting me out of the blue few years back, it was one, younger girl from vocational school.
I was surprised to say the least. We started texting a lot due to there being 100km (around 60 miles) between us but we would arrange meetings/dates whenever possible.
It was all fun and dandy but it was still kinda awkward LDR-friends-but-almost-relationship-situation mainly due to my lack of assertiviness - "what are we", "should we take this further" etc. but also lack of response from her side.
Then at one point during late Autumn she stopped responding to my messages and vanished off the radar. Some time goes by I try to contact her - nothing.
Then at one point I saw she changed her WhatsApp profile pic, her with some dude. My mind jumped to denial immediately thinking first it is her brother but deep down I knew.
I stopped sending messages to her at once, it was over for me.
Few months went by and then I got a message on Valentines Day (how fitting) from her. See explained whete she had disappeared and what was going on in her life but she dod not mention her bf yet.
So I chatted with her for a while and played along until by asking some indirect questions managed to make her admit she has a boyfriend.
I got the usual "I hope we can still be friends" treatment but I politely turned it down and argued how it would be better to focus on that relationship and so on (she did admit months before this she had some untreated mental condition and in hindsight she was bit "off")
She was convinced, we exchanged goodbyes and that was that.
Few weeks later my phone broke so I got a new one and changed my number as well.