>It's also a lot easier for me to ask someone out via text.
I know, but I am worried about consequences of asking a girl out.
What does it matter if you get rejected over text if you're just going to see the girl in person later again anyways and have to face her sooner or later?
I feel like asking out over text just means you have the time between getting rejected and seeing the girl again to become anxious and nervous about everything.
If you want to preserve what you had with that girl then text her though what to talk about is up to you. Who knows she might be thinking the same thing you are waiting for you to text first. The worse that can happen is some girl on the other side of the country stops talking to you which is what will happen if you dont try to connect. If meeting up is brought up tell her your situation and if she wants to preserve your relationship then she'll understand. Godspeed user
yeah, even when I finally got friends to hangout with I still feel alone.
none of them care about what I care so I have to pretend to care about stupid shit that bores me.
Just give up on being slow and steady with everyone and meet people in large numbers if you can that way you can just find those few people like yourself who you actually want to hangout with
girl I know sat with me for lunch with her friend and she was just keeping eye contact the whole time, but I realized I hold eye contact for like a couple seconds then glance away.
I always thought that was normal, but the way she was staring into my soul I felt like I was being shy by looking away every so often while talking. But also this girl was sitting alone in our class and came over to me when she noticed i was in the class which meant she at least felt comfortable around me.
She also calls me by name a lot. like "hello user", instead of just saying "hello", or "user how are you" instead of "how are you". do these things matter? idk
>best friend may have killed herself
>definitely reasonably attractive, still a khhv
>addicted to cocaine, alcohol, and attentionwhoring
>guilty over my bad attempts at following my religion
>feel worthless without any attention
>my family all either hate or neglect me, or want me to talk to them but they always come off so fake
>no car
>shit job
>more alone than i've ever been
The only thing keeping me from suicide is the coke guys.
There was a girl i liked and i invited her out for a drink, she kept postponing the date. First this went for a week but then i realized she was not interested and just kept toying with me.
I also have great fear if i get rejected and I'll become a laughing stock, but I'll never know unless I try. I also dont care much about what others think about me.
When it was the time to go meet with that girl i was super nervous at first and was super careful trying not to say something foolish. But as the conversation continued i became more relaxed and everything was smoother.
Experience is the key. We all had bad and good dates. You just have to keep trying until you make it.
Depends if she was like this with everyone she talked to. I guess if you had a lot of long eye contacts and she kept smiling, she might liked you.
Calling someone by their name also means she might like you. I guess the only way to actually tell is to make a move and see how she responds.
the internet is a blessing and a curse. It's gotten everyone cooped up in their house all day, but its also connected us to all sorts of people.
Now I know i've never seen you or talked to you in person, but I feel like I've met you before just based on your situation.
Families always feel fake, this is because you grew up with them and you know who they really are, and you know when they're forcing behavior.
Truth is most people act fake we just don't know them closely enough to pick up on their deceptive behavior. It's gross to see people acting so phony
I've been there with no car, it makes you feel trapped, but this is your chance to learn. You can learn how to move without a car, find ways of getting around.
Same thing with money, I am glad I grew up poor, I found out how much could do without money that I don't need it to enjoy life.
Addiction is the worst, I have been there too. Unless you're superhuman, you're not going to kick it alone, but the longer you wait the more it will haunt you when you eventually do kick it. You have to tell someone who is a good influence about it. if you cant find anyone, go to a church and tell a stranger, go to a small church not a giant money grubbing business/church, chances are they don't care and can't relate.
Bad attempts are better than no attempts.I must say though, If you're following a religion, you're just following a meaningless practice. Follow something that really changes your life, something that is real. If you seek God and do not find him you probably weren't seeking something real to begin with. I think if you want something real you must be willing to leave behind what is not real. Go to church again like I said, If you find a place that isn't corrupt. a place that is made up of people who aren't trying to look like perfect people , then you'll be in good hands.
You're not alone, you have Jow Forums, as stupid as that sounds. There are people like myself, and I DO CARE. Sorry I cant be there
yeah, I'm like OP's situation though, she's at a summer home for the summer, and I won't see her till next semester. Idk if I should text her over summer, seems like that hasn't worked out for OP lol
I'd text her every once in a while so you won't lose touch completely. When school starts, ask her out. You got nothing to lose so go fo it.