So it's a "Baby It's Cold Outside" scenario, then.
In the song's original context, the girl is using every excuse in the book knowing full well that they're lame bullshit attempts so that later on after they fuck she can tell her friends "Yeah, I gave every excuse in the book" when really she was 100% in control and wanted to get fucked.
Girls are fucking retarded cunts. More at 6.
>If a woman sees a guy she likes, she'll want to get to know him and check him out, see if he's nice, maybe take things from there if conversation goes well. But that's a gradual process that she may want to bail out of if the guy sends red flags.
Jee wiiz they sure do that fast these days, like literally in the span of 2 drinks and about 20 mins.
Its just basic human psychology, imagine if you were buying a car and the salesman was super desperate to get you to buy it, youd think theres something wrong with it. Thats why telling a girl you love her and shes the only one for you blah blah blah is total bullshit.
It's because they want to communicate with you either way. If you are sending all the messages then why does she need to? When you aren't sending them she's forced to. Either way she wants to talk to you, this seems like a juvenile question, op.
>girl loses interest when you express yourself and live in the present
>girl retains fleeting marginal interest when you hide behind barriers and watch your every move
And your response, instead of moving on to new pursuits, is to keep doing the second thing so you can nudge your elbow at no one in particular and go "bullshit am I right fellas?"
Okay
>like girl
>don't have enough confidence to ask her out
>start showing blatant disinterest to others
>they go crazy over it
>word gets around
>girl I actually like eventually figures out I'm not treating her like shit for a reason
>she starts to like me
>ride the confidence from knowing other girls are interested to suave it up and get a date with the girl I like
things are looking up
also
>some of the whores tried to spread rumors that I'm gay because I don't like them
some people are just pathetic desu famalam
I'd recommend all the anons out there just start doing dumb shit confidently and becoming more exclusive, people in general seem to eat that shit up
During my teens and early adulthood I was honestly pretty blunt/disinterested/rude to girls and they latched on to me like fucking leeches. At the time I truly hated it.
Huh. You know your shit.
Where did you learn this? Origiii