Femanons, why the FUCK are you into maledom so much? Why does femdom disgust you or turn you off...

>The man is supposed to be the dominant one. The woman should submit to him.
Yikes.. stuck in biblical times much, fascist?

Most women aren't into maledom or femdom. You need to get off of the internet.

>The man is supposed to be the dominant one. The woman should submit to him.
I'm fairly conservative so I agree this on everything else but sex...
>I guess I feel safe and like he's taking ownership of me?
Honestly a good explanation. I like being dommed but I also really like making women feel safe and protected. I just don't prefer beating them while fucking.

Ahh, I can understand that. Have you had issues with abandonment before?
>I'm also scared of everything I would have to do to lead to intimacy.
Could you explain further? Hope you find someone you can really trust, it's fucking tough out there

>Have you had issues with abandonment before?
Um I guess but it wasn't even something you could call a real relationship, I just got attached too strongly and too naively to someone I've never even met.

>Could you explain further? Hope you find someone you can really trust, it's fucking tough out there
I'm too scared of getting to know others because I consider most people that I know to be bad so I usually keep distance from everyone. I also don't go out much to places for people to socialize.

Ah, yeah I get it...definitely has happened to me before but I got through it. It's just something you need more experience with before you start to not care as much. I used to get attached to any girl that talked to me privately for more than a day. Now I can talk to girls for months and not feel attached unless start giving me "special" attention.
>I consider most people that I know to be bad
What makes them bad? Where do you even meet them/know them? You might just be in the wrong places to find people to be friends with

More like stuck in a nature, you massive faggot. It is always been that way, fascist or not.

>Now I can talk to girls for months and not feel attached unless start giving me "special" attention.
The thing is, being a girl you get a lot of "special" attention but you never know if the person is truly genuine or if they just want to use you or maybe they were just looking for interactions with any female.

>What makes them bad? Where do you even meet them/know them? You might just be in the wrong places to find people to be friends with
It's mostly people I meet in college or on parties if I get invited. I don't like how easily everyone talks shit about others when it's just about "weird" behavior or something a person can't control. Also how they don't show empathy towards groups they can't relate to. I know I'm probably just too judgemental but I don't really know how to change it and be able to trust someone.

Yeah I agree, in that regard it is pretty tough for females tbf I really like talking to girls, they just make me feel very comfortable and I also like listening to what they have to say, which a lot of men say they don't. I kind of test my waters with a female to see if we have things in common i'd want to be with them but hasn't happened yet, at least someone i've actually made the first move on. Again, it might just come with experience. You might also need to be more confrontational but obviously that can be hard if you don't talk to a lot of people, losing one potential friend could mean a lot.

So basically, you hate normies? That's pretty fair I think. I don't have any tips with irl since i'm mostly a shut-in, I have no clue on how to find a non-normie irl other than chance.

You just have to find someone you trust.

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>You might also need to be more confrontational
I am pretty confrontational if something doesn't sit right with me but that leads to further isolation
>So basically, you hate normies?
Yeah and I avoid interacting with them since it's usually exhausting and depressing. I try talking to some people from here but as you can imagine many of them aren't good people either and I rarely have enough common interests to keep the topics going. I wish I could meet someone from here irl actually but there aren't that many robots where I live and the ones who go on this board seem to be here for the wrong reasons. I'm also unable to talk to multiple people at the same time because once I like someone I just try to make it work with them and not anyone else but people's interest usually fades anyway.

Ah yeah I get what you mean, irl confrontation just makes people feel awkward I imagine. What are your interests, where do you live?

I mostly like analysing movies (anime too sometimes), reading and learning about pretty much everything and I'm slowly getting into photography but I currently don't have enough energy to go out and experiment. I'm from Europe but I would rather not mention my country since I've never come across another femanon from there and I mentioned it in a different thread.

Femdom is disgusting and unnatural. Maledom is the natural way to bang.

it's mostly virgins and people new to the dating scene that are obsessed with sub/dom bs. i would be wary of any experienced person who is really into being a dom or a sub.

Please develop some self-respect.

Those hobbies aren't too bad, I mean I guess I wouldn't say they're mainstream but they're not insanely uncommon either. I've actually been getting into watching more movies recently. Seen a lot in the past 2-3 years. I'm not into photography but I do know a decent amount about it considering my interest for graphic design.

Country doesn't really matter right? I mean from what i've heard it's pretty easy to travel countries in europe anyways at least if you live on the mainland.

Yeah, I don't think my interests are uncommon but they're not something that can be talked about much with other people and they're activities that don't involve company. I would say country matters quite a bit though because even though it's easy to travel across the Europe, forming a true relationship would require someone to move which usually means a pretty big sacrifice.

You think I can't respect myself while being submissive?

If you believe that all women should submit to men, while being a woman yourself, then it goes without saying that you do not have a shred of self-respect. At least have the decency not to put all other women in your category.

Fair point though, I think movies and anime can be pretty social.
>forming a true relationship would require someone to move which usually means a pretty big sacrifice.
Agreed though that doesn't mean you can't try to be friends with someone to get to that point but with what you said before, it's definitely hard for you to not get attached so yeah. Shit sucks user, hope you get the person you want. What about you moving to another country though? Against it because of family?

t. feminist
It's just the way I look at the world. I don't see any lack of self-respect in valuing a woman's position as nurturer over some bs idea that she should be slaving away at work during her peak child-bearing years because women are expected to do the same things as men now. I mean it's good that the choice exists but I choose not to go that route.

How about you stop being a faggot for a moment

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Only sissies are into femdom if you look like a hairy bear no girl wants to dom you might as well be a faggot and get dominated by crossdressers

Incredibly based views on relationships. idk why but girls with traditional relationship values and beliefs turn me on. I'm still a shitty sub tho

>Fair point though, I think movies and anime can be pretty social.
Well I'm planning to sign up for movie discussion meetings so that might help me a little.
>What about you moving to another country though?
I wouldn't be against it if it wasn't for the fact that my education won't be as useful in another country. If I could move somewhere with a certainty that I'll find a decent job, it wouldn't be a problem for me.

What's your education? Why is so country dependent unless it's like history or some shit

>I'm still a shitty sub tho
the memes write themselves

Shut the fuck up whore before i'm forced to pin you to the ground with my hand against your throat. You WILL dominate me, or else

>being told the truth that girls love feeling protected and having the man take ownership of her
>as how it has been done since the beginning of mankind
>"get some s-self respect!" "stuck in the biblical t-terms huh?"

holy fuck and you wonder why women are turned off by you limp wristed faggots? there is a reason why they lose all respect for you the moment you tell them you are into femdom, fucking faggots

youre normal. that freak you were replying to is the whack one. sick ass "modern" psychotic

I'm studying a language that is very desired by the employers in my country. Depending on where I would move, it could become useless.

being into maledom doesn't stop someone from being into femdom

>only to please their partner
no fucking shit you dumbass
women and men don't think the same way
do you also believe there are girls who unironically love blowing dicks?

it's a chore, it takes time, it takes effort, and it's not rewarding, there's nothing but salty, bitter juice as a reward
they do it because they know it pleases their partners, and that's what they enjoy

you should be happy to find a girl that's fine with domming you at all, even if it's 'just to please you'

Sounds more like a bitter roastie to me. Upset that her empowered lifestyle hasn't resulted in any meaningful relationships and she'll probably still be single and childless at 30.
Sexual liberation was a mistake.

user, the niggers posting that shit everywhere sure as fuck aren't women

stop being so fucking new holy shit

idk if the guy who said that is into femdom tho

Ahh, that's pretty fair. Unfortunate.

This shit is exactly why I contemplate killing myself AT LEAST once a day. I'm 100% sub, could not be a dom, it just isnt in me
Outside of relationships though I'm just a normal person (not normalfag kind of normal, you know what I mean) I'd even say I can be alpha in some situations. But girls are disgusted by male submission. Even the self identified "dominant" girls I knew didnt like sub guys, they always went for dominant ones
So yeah when I do eventually kill myself, it will be because of this

>do you also believe there are girls who unironically love blowing dicks?
Didnt read the rest of your post but I met a girl that admitted to loving it. We weren't dating and neither of us wanted to sleep with the other so it wasnt flirting. She just likes to have wiener in her mouth

It's not that I want a woman to dominate me as much as it is I am too lazy to want to be on top.

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>The thing is, being a girl you get a lot of "special" attention but you never know if the person is truly genuine or if they just want to use you or maybe they were just looking for interactions with any female.
How am I supposed to talk to a girl with the intent of forming a romantic relationship and possibly marriage then? I am talking to her and giving her attention and if she picks up that I want to be more than friends than she leaves cause she is so used to guys only talking to her for sex. And if I try to play coy or keep her at arms length and act cold or whatever the fuck convoluted song and dance then I just stay in the friendzone with her cause she wont want to go any further than that and is just used to the attention and only if I try to go any further does she start to distance.

I dont understand how I am supposed to approach women in general.

i know the feel man. i was really into this one girl who was perfect in every way but she thought i just wanted to use her and didn't believe i was in love. there's a lot of memes about girls with trust issues but us guys don't understand we're the ones getting JUSTed in the end.

Femdom is unnatural like gay sex

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And yet gay sex is everywhere

>And yet gay sex is everywhere

Not where I live maybe your country is just gay

Well I'm I'm America so you're not really wrong, but I stand by my statement

Yeah that's why i always feel like i should have been born a girl. My sexuality and personality would fit like a glove.

I'm too soft to be a femdom
but honestly? my bf does like it when I act bratty tho, not sure if that counts sorry

acting by bratty while being dommed is just a part of it lol.

Playful femdom is the best.

ohh I always thought that was kind of a femdom thing, sorry user I'm still kind of new to this stuff haha

cute, it's fine though.

It's not a part of femdom but I love brats when domming

There are countless virginal men who think they are sexually submissive because they are used to masturbating while laying on their back.
I've seen the transformation happen. They finally get a chance to dominate a QT girl that they're rock hard solid attracted to in bed and its like a lightbulb switches in their brain. They're not content to just sit back and let her ride the dick. They need to scoop her up and take that pussy to pound town.

A woman who "isn't into maldeom" is exactly what user is describing though
The default normie female position is wanting the male to take charge and be dominant in the bedroom
You're a fool if you don't believe this

You might be right, I still think i'd be into femdom but I might get my chance soon with someone who is into me but hates femdom

I dont hate femdom, I actually really enjoy it my bf and I just need to be in the right mood. We are both switches, hes just more dom and Im more sub most of the time.

>is anyone except me actually into equal loving and not this sub/dom bullshit?
me

I don't know why this is so hot.

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I've thought about this as well and it is the reason why I am still on the fence as to whether I want to actually do femdom stuff with a girl. Like I am so used to just passively fap and I am sure just like you say if I were to get with a girl I am into, things will just fall into place and I would be taking the reins naturally. Gentle femdom I think I would definitely be down for no matter what.

women are naturally submissive you twinky dinky faggyt

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i'm not a twink, I seem like 100% the maledom type that's what makes it even harder to get a femdom gf.

Nice pic tho

I am right. What you are looking for is a submissive girl with a strong will who isn't a complete pushover who is zomg le shy to the point of being unsociable.
A non deadfish that will actually have agency will being intimate. Someone you can genuinely find support and cry on their shoulder when your grandma dies or some shit. Something like that.

I get it. You want to just chill out and be pleasured and have your cock worshipped. Thats what blowjobs are for. What do blowjobs do most of all? Get you ready to fuck her with gusto. Hell she even gets it wet so it's like lube to go in.

almost every woman is a NPC, OP. They're all the fucking boring same.

I'm a virgin but I know how sex works lol, i'm still into femdom specific scenarios like her physically hurting certain parts of me, controlling me, pegging me. I still want to fuck her hard yeah but I think it'd be nice to experiement with the above and i've fapped to plenty of porn with femdom

I do think there are more underlying feelings and stuff with people who claim they want a femdom "mommy" gf and all that

>I seem like 100% the maledom type that's what makes it even harder to get a femdom gf.
in appaerance and attitude, right?

I remember when i was younger i was really into older girls, really loved it when they were playful with me. Now that i'm older i'm into submissive but kinda bratty small girls, even though i look beta af, and younger

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>in appaerance and attitude, right?
Mostly yeah. Appearance wise I definitely look like a dom. Attitude I like to act like a big dicked dominate chad as a joke, which ironically turns girls on but i'm actually just a virgin who doesn't know what to do.

I just like inflicting pain both mentally and physically.

I'm a girl(...actual) and I also prefer being sub
I dont want to dom guys but I have no problem with the idea of being in a relationship with sub guys and having sweet equal sex. I still wouldnt want to dom.
The only issue I have is when guys claim to want 'femdom' but what they really want is gay sex (being cucked, scking dicks).

im into gentle femdom
im also into girls, so...
/shrug

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i'm a girl and i'm into both femdom and maledom, just more into maledom because i'm mentally ill and have suicidal wishes
anyways, i still would love to dom and from my conversations with other girls, they usually don't find that disgusting at all

>because i'm mentally ill and have suicidal wishes
you and me both :(
let me give you boob massages

>The only issue I have is when guys claim to want 'femdom' but what they really want is gay sex (being cucked, scking dicks).
kek

>guys claim to want 'femdom' but what they really want is gay sex (being cucked, scking dicks).
I'm not into that but what are your thoughts on pegging? (fucking a guy with a strap-on). I don't consider myself gay but I really want a girl to fuck me in the ass.

fuck

weird, maybe girls are more comfortable telling other guys they like femdon, just not telling guys they like it? dunno

>The man is supposed to be the dominant one. The woman should submit to him. Him taking charge is just really hot
I have a hard time believing the average man can work up the nerve to do this kind of thing after everything that's been going on as of late, what with #MeToo and all.

I could never take charge, and do anything you described without my hypothetical gf blatantly telling me she wanted me to, and what exactly she wanted me to do.

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i like guys too buy yeah
fuck memetoo, as a girl

I am the person you asked... Sorry but I would consider that an abomination to wear a strap-on and penetrate anybody. I don't understand why men's prostates are erogenous; it's antithetical.
I dont like being anal'd either. Never tried and never will.

i don't think being fucked in the ass by a girl is gay and as a girl i would love to fuck a guy in the ass
i guess i just don't have a very dom energy cause i'm small and petite, guys in school days literally used to call me loli

fuck a tranny in the ass itll be hot

wat? how tall are you?

>guys and girls still call me a loli to this day
oof

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4'10
don't think any guy that wants to be dominated would get turned on by imagining someone like me

Are you only into femdom with girls??

Shame but I can understand it. Though i've heard from various other girls they like anal. I've tried anal on myself

I think you being small would only make it hotter to me, especially considering i'm nearly 6'1 myself

>HURTS
> I'm a dom in everything

Spoken like a true submissive faggot. If you don't find obvious reason why females want to be treated like trash, you're just a failed man.

Have fun never getting what you seek in life

Did you go through precocious puberty? You're lucky your parents didn't decide to hormone block you, thus making you tall.
Asian?

OMG A GIRL SHORTER THAN ME
ARE YOU BI?!?!?!

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i went through puberty normally, and yes they did consider hormone blocking but gave up. i'm white tho half slav half italian
yes i'm bi

At what age did you start puberty? Sorry I'm interested from a scientific view. You sound very cute; it's weird that they use hormone blockers to try to stop short girls from existing.

Lots of sub guys are specifically into small girls. And most sub guys who aren't are not exactly picky. Stop being a dumb loli

>just more into maledom because i'm mentally ill and have suicidal wishes
Is that the point where he gently pins you down and proves to you right then and there that he's not just pretending to be attracted to you for whatever silly reason your nasty little insecurities conjured up this time, followed by hours of quality time as he holds you in his arms and has a calm but serious talk with you to reassure you that you have value and just as much right to live as anybody else?

are you into being gentledommed by a girl? i'm 2 inches taller than you, lol.

why no gf to be gentle with