No one can legally prevent you from getting a girlfriend anons, why not just try?

Anxiety is the first barrier and perfectly normal for everyone, when you get exposed to a new thing you become numb to it after a while. You can't ride a bike like a pro at your first try, it's called getting better at things. Just accept the fact that you're making excuses not to do anything.

Rejection hurts I shouldn't have to feel it. Why should I give someone the power to do that to me

>Rejection hurts I shouldn't have to feel it
Beta mentality, rejection makes you tougher and more resistant to criticism, you people are really just pussies in hiding, never gonna grow up if you live like this

I am going to church now but I am scared to reveal that I had sex with an animal in middle school and havent done anything else

>ask out random girl after girl until one says yes
is this how you find love these days?

How do you even score a gf without lowkey hitting on her?

Its true , every thing you said. My back up plan is to marry the first girl who ask me out.

It's a much harder difficulty for people like us
And I'm already shitty at it

You don't necessarily improve if you keep trying
Plenty of failures just keep failing

Nah you fool, don't need to ask out every female you see on the street, that's just desperate. Go to some public place, pretend that you're interested in something and you might start a conversation with some qt. You do it slowly, you look for opportunities, not just straight up ask for a woman to be your girlfriend.

I don't even know how to approach them

That sounds way too social for me to handle.
I'm the type of guy who gets a girl talking to me but can't say a word back. I'm the type of guy who gets a girl touching him but is too awkward to do anything but stay very still.
This has happened a lot of times. My head just goes empty in these situations and my instinct to run or play dead. I play dead.

Guys here will never talk to girls then complain about how it's impossible to have a gf.
Anyone who can make friends can make friends with girls. And anyone who can make friends with girls can get a gf. Most people on this board don't try though under the pretext that it's impossible because they're too ugly or girls have too high standards or all girls are sluts etc...

I know I'm like that and I don't blame it on anyone else than myself.
It would be so easy for me to achieve all that but the thing is I might just be somehow broken. I don't know if it's the fact that I stress these thing so much and I can't really handle stress well. Or if it that I just don't want to have that. Or is it some pride thing for me. I just can't put myself out there and when I magically am "out there" I can't act.

>Anyone who can make friends can make friends with girls.
Can't make friends
>too ugly
This is true
>girls have too high standards
Also true
>all girls are sluts
Also true
So why did you even bother?

>it's impossible because they're too ugly
I was bullied and rejected all my life by my peers just for this exact reason, how is that not a valid excuse? I'd have have to try 10 times harder than normies to fit in anywhere. Fuck that, I'll stay in my room and play vidya instead, life is rigged from the start.

Most ugly guys have girlfriends tho

>ugly
Retarded and meaningless term, there are many things that makes a man unattractive, it's not just his face.

Not necessarily all of them
Especially with no social skills

>rejection makes you tougher and more resistant to criticism

Meh, I get rejected alot. What Ive learned is that I am just not good enough.

Correct, most ugly guys learn social skills and then get a girlfriend

I've tried 25+ times and didn't even get nor the simplest compliments, nor even a kiss. I don't want anymore, it's just don't bring me any joy.

I can make a fuckton of male friends but don't have any female. Bruh, you're lying.

You probably come off as desperate and creepy, try talking to them like you don't give a shit, treat them as kids and look down on them

Nah, I've always contained myself.
"try not to give a shit" is a dumbest thing I've ever heard.

So if I can't into social skills I'm pretty much fucked?

>what doesn't kill you makes you stronger
nah man, I just gave up after twenty rejections
no bitch is worth such emotional duress

That is right, communication is a core part of relationships

It's not any harder to make female friends than it is to make male friends

Small steps man
Every day try to do something that you haven't done before, and before you know it you'll do things you never thought you could achieve

>Can't make friends
This is your main issue.
I'll be honest with you, if you dont even have any friends then you don't know shit about girls

I think you have issues that aren't related to your looks

>It's not any harder to make female friends than it is to make male friends
Big lie

Its a hard truth to swallow

>if you dont even have any friends then you don't know shit about girls

Shitty correlation, making friends isn't as complicated as getting gf

Maybe I just can't bond with people. Maybe I'm just overly critical of others. But I've never met anyone who makes me feel good. Being around others makes me feel disgust, hatred, loneliness. I'm a rotten, jaded person who can't see a speck of good in anyone.

I feel nothing about people, not even family members. Supposedly that's called social anhedonia. I was always like this, since kindergarten.

I am incapable of feeling love. I just wanted a girlfriend so that I could tell people I had one. A few more years and it will not matter anyway.

Are you some sort of Chad? If so then it might be true for you.

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>I just wanted a girlfriend so that I could tell people I had one.
Same. I'd like to be married just to appear normal.

No not chad I see many losers make friends with girl losers easily too

I am incapable of feeling love. I just wanted a girlfriend so that I could tell people I had one. A few more years and it will not matter anyway desu.

So basically your proof is:
>dude, trust me

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It's true mate, you just think it's harder but that's all in your head

If you lack the social skills to make friends then you lack the social skills to get a gf.
And if you dont even talk to girls then you can't understand them either. Once you make female friends you'll know that they're nothing like what this board tells you. Remember that people here have almost no understanding of how people are because they spend very little time socialising.

No rules active Jow Forums server, get the fuck in here already:
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>If you lack the social skills to make friends then you lack the social skills to get a gf.

And Im saying you can't compare getting a gf to making friends because one is way more harder than the other. You don't need to know how to flirt, be good looking, or give off attraction to get friends.

>Remember that people here have almost no understanding of how people are because they spend very little time socialising.

I go outside almost everyday, and I still have shit time talking to people

I observe females from my sister to classmates and coworkers
R9k didn't develop my opinion of females because I already knew from seeing from afar who they are

Even then it's not my problem really
The incel thing is half true. There are many men out there right now as we speak doing their best in whatver eay to try to make themselves more attractive to females and by putting themselves out there and they STILL won't get a girl. For us it's not just a matter of skill but also luck, being at the right place at the right time plays into it and even then it still isn't guarenteed.

That's why volcels are becoming more of a thing. This game is just not worth busting our ass for anymore. To me at this point if it happens then it is what it is and that's fine but I won't be stressing when I don't get it either.

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This
The only winning move is not to play
It's why I don't bother

>I already knew from seeing from afar who they are
Do you think people who know you, but haven't talked much with you, perceive you as who you really are?

This isn't a bad attitude but remember not to push away girls
I used to do that and it didn't help me

>Do you think people who know you, but haven't talked much with you, perceive you as who you really are?
They probably see me as tall, creepy, and not worth their time which is probably close enough to the truth

Nobody wants a deformed brute as a boyfriend user. I'm not even ignored by women, I disgust them.

I'm 24 and don't have a job right now. I'm trying to get a full-time job. No woman will respect me if I have only a part-time job.

>just b urself xd

Yawn

I'm sure you have many redeeming factors

Your self worth is not determined by your job
You're a person with a lot to offer, and that's what you have to people when you interact with them

I just want to take care of a fembot and be their life partner but they dont want to talk to me.
I'm a piece of shit ugly rapist to them I guess.

>I'm sure you have many redeeming factors
Like what?
I'm king of the losers

What do you spend more time on, r9k or flirting with girls

Ive seen hundreds of deformed brutes with girlfriends

Yeah, they're confident, and I'm not

I mean actually deformed not just ugly. Sure ugly guys get girls but I'm not just ugly.

AHEM
NO HYMEN
NO DIAMOND
*drops mic*

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Do you think I've ever flirted?
Would be no point in it

Exactly bro, exgactly

>Anyone who can make friends can make friends with girls
Top kek. I have a very easy time befriending guys but it just doesnt work with women. Their mentality is just shitty and different.

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>It's not any harder to make female friends than it is to make male friends

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And your original point is what exactly?

That exactly why you should do it nigger

It doesn't matter so then what they will say to you after you attempt it equally doesn't matter so why not just give it a shot anyway and see for yourself?

I do it even though I know for a fact I will get rejected most of the time. I actually get a gaggle if they do reject me cause I proved myself right then sometimes you get chicks who will actually want to talk to you and then boom you can take it from there.

Pic related. Be the guy on the right

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I don't see the benefit of automatic failure
I'm not gonna get a girl to talk back to me
Not given how creepy and awkward I look and sound
Plus even if I did, what then?
I see other guys with their gfs and how miserable they look
How much they complain
What benefit do I get?
Plus now since I work most of my time outside I can get fired for harassment

One day, I took the oath to ask out the next girl who seemed interested in me. That was 5 years ago, it hasn't taken effect yet.

>Anyone who can make friends can make friends with girls.

That's false. I'm pretty gregarious and outgoing when I'm in all-male environments like my workplace or the hockey locker room, but as soon as you introduce a somewhat attractive female into the situation I completely shut down.

It took me 7 years and maybe talking to 600 girls to finally find the one I would date for the rest of my life

Then congratulations
I'm not gonna be so lucky

I hate women too much at that point
These walking holes can get anything they want just by being attractive and knowing that they are attractive

Yeah probably not, talking to girls isnt something guys do anymore

The sooner you realize that you are gay, the more happy you will be

Yeah fuck you too cuckold

I'm not sure what you're expecting
Sure you got a girl
Maybe most guys do
But not all guys do

You dont sound happy :(
One day user

Every interaction that I have with another human being come off as broken and awkward. Any girl I try to talk to sense these off-putting, bad vibes in my essence and drives them away.

I just gave up

gayboi
lol

Why not just try? because what he said it aint worth it my man and yeah no such thing as an incel. Take the escortpill and free yourselves anons.

It's illegal here plus I don't have enough money to pay a girl to cuddle with nightly

>tall
>king of losers

Same with me when I was younger but I learned what I was doing wrong and got much better and had a lot of relationships

I'm having a lot of trouble with my girlfriend right now, there are a lot of good reasons not to have one, you have to be just right for that other person or a lot of it won't work
That said even though we don't work well at all we have good times and care about each other, which is what matters

Being tall is only attractive to gay men, not girls.

When you're awkward, creepiness amplifies every inch above 6'

Bro, I've had male friends my entire life. A few I know had girlfriends, but I've only met two of them. One in high school and the other they started started dating a year ago. There just isn't any interaction I have with women outside of work unless it's online. I've been invited to parties/get-togethers where women have been but it's always difficult to interact with them and I get written off as just an awkward guy.

>everyone does at some point, that's why you gotta keep trying until you succeed
>just ram your head into a brick wall unit it breaks
you see the problem is your head will crack before the wall does and your soul will break before you get a gf
>there's no such thing as an involuntary celibate
yeah just like there is no such thing as a starving people

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>tee hee. I want him tall because he can protect me and I am biologically driven to be attracted to that.
Manlets are the only ones allowed to cope and rope.

An old friend invited me for some board games with his gf and her friend. We had a nice time and met up the next day at a festival, but the full force of so many people coupled with the fact that I would have to spend a large part of my day interacting with these two unknown girls (friend's gf and gf's friend) made my autism go into overdrive. I bought some fancy whiskey at one of the stands and excused myself. I spent the next few days as a complete wreck (in my mind, on the outside I seemed just peachy). I just can't deal with people. I really try to be polite and nice, but holy shit am I terrified of other people (being an intj doesn't help). Thank god for my motorcycles, they are the only way for me to vent after my dog died (god damn it, it's raining again).

Sorry for blogposting.

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Sometimes, I wonder if being tall is just a polarizing trait, depending on face and everything else. It just seems that it is just all good, at least for men, compared to being short. You can height mog. You cannot be the king of losers, that way.

A 6'2 normal guy might find more success than a 5'8 normal guy
But a 6'2 robot is gonna be found creepier and scarier than a 5'8 robot