I get NUMEROUS compliments about my looks and style. My colleagues can't stop talking about all the girls I "must be having sex with".
I have no friends, no gf and no exciting life. I just go home, sit in my room and stay on my PC outside of work. It's made me realise I was dealt a good hand and fucked it all up.
As a starting point, where the fuck do you go to find friends?!
I go to bars to meet people. Any hobby club or team activity or social event is good too
I actually do, a lot! I'm one of the most social people at work and have a few clubs out of work, which further inflates this perception.
I can't seem to find someone that sees me as someone to frequently hang out with, though. All they do is give me compliments. I'm suffering and they think it's all rosy
I'm so lonely
What is a lot to you? How often do you invite people?
i wish i got dealt a good hand
I'm invited to go out drinking every friday and a few days in the week with colleagues. It's not very enjoyable company - things like completely different sense of humour, interests, etc, so we really only have wanting to get drunk in common.
I have an activity/club almost every weekday evening.
Despite this, I wouldn't be able to pick anyone out and say that we are friends, or think of someone to tell if I wanted to go somewhere and vice versa
AHHHH, what's the point of all this style if I haven't got a group to show it off with???
You may be a mentalcel. That's basically what I am. You can be tall and have good features but an abusive childhood basically fucks it all up anyway.
To find friends think about your hobbies or interests and go and find someone with those interests, talk with them about said interests and hang out
I'm literally in a bar right now
Everyone ends up alone and pathetic
Just stay home
which country?
originaloooanonoonon
France
Orginano
Don't bother. What do you need friends for? It'll always end badly
oh shame. what do you mean everyone ends up alone and pathetic though?
even if that's so, doesn't mean I want to spend the whole journey alone. fuck that, Im dying from loneliness already. I need people help numb the pain
What have been the residual psychological effects for you, user?
You sound like a catch. Will you consider being my bf?
absolutely not, sorry
Everyone tries to impress everyone else because very few people are actually satisfied with their lives
Just get Friends, they are the only ones necessary to have fun
>waah everyone knows and likes me
it seems like that, but I still can't connect with them. My life is essentially as lonely and miserable as yours (unless you have friends which will invalidate your post). Being told good things but it not manifesting comes with its own set of problems and topics that I self reflect on
i said I wanted friends in the OP. That's my first goal
Yeah but you don't need more
Few good friendz is enough
Why not, user? That was a little bit rude.
Anxiety, eating disorder, intrusive thoughts, emotional episodes, trust issues, flashbacks. Ive made a lot more peace with it over the years but it really takes a toll on you. I've learned to socialize and open up better but it still gnaws at me and can strike out of nowhere. I don't have a large social group but I'm grateful for what I have even if there's a battle in my head to be fought everyday.
I don't have 1 (one) person I'd consider a friend... Someone that I'd call up and ask if they want to go somewhere. No one like that at all and it's so saddening
Sorry, I've met up with people from here and they were not normal. Its like they're actively trying to be as weird as possible, but they're not trying, they... just are...
I also had a pretty abusive upbringing. You sound very sweet though user. I wish you the best.
Thank you anons for keeping me company, I'm going to cry myself to sleep now. Thank you once again x