If a girl squeezes your penis with her vaginal muscles, can you feel it?

really depends on the mood/buildup but yeah, if you're finishing together, it feels really good holding it in as you feel her clamping down on it.

its not just the sensation but the passionate moment you share.

that makes me sad.
what do you get instead? is there any way to completely subdue a guy?

It feels like a hand squeezing you a bit idk. Its not overtly pleasurable, at least not more so than the actual feeling of your penis rubbing up against the vaginal walls

All yes I promise

>subdue a guy
by him acting like a sub

100% absolutely
i am more romantically inclined towards girls anyway but find the idea of lesbian sex stupid and gross. i just want to be a man and a father with a wife and a family. hahaha.

so effectively there isn't really anything i can do to make him feel better. he runs the show. he makes me feel better. i can do nothing. fuck this.

the last one isnt a yes or no question

thats not the same thing. it's not "acting". its a physical thing that sort of overtakes? like there's a point where i just sort of want to moan and lay there unmoving except noises, or my legs twitch/spasm/i cant control them. i want to do that to a guy but i am guessing i cant. sad!

if i were on top of him and sort of edging/teasing? would this do anything?

maybe prostate stuff would work but i dunno

i dont wanna cram things up someones butt. that's not ok and also shitty and gross.

yes that's one way you can subdue us, when you do that its all about rhythm and knowing when to ease up so he doesn't cum, and then keep doing that and he'll melt

i just want to be a loving dommy that takes you gently to space and kisses your exhausted forehead under me aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
i dont wanna anally violate anyone

then give up and learn not to be degenerate

ok fucking cool.
i rode horses growing up and have killer hip rhythm and muscle from moving with the sway of the horse.
idk how to determine the time to ease up though. besides just asking are there like key signs?

im not trying to be generate i just want to be a strong loving figure that provides someone with love and pleasure I CANNOT HELP THAT I HAVE BECOME VERY STRONG AND DOMINANT REEE JUST LET ME WARMLY SMILE AND LOOK INTO YOUR EYES WHILE ON TOP OF YOU IN SUCH A WAY THAT REASSURES YOU EVERYTHING WILL BE OK SSSSHHHHH LET ME TAKE CARE OF IT YOU CAN PUT YOUR GUARD DOWN AND GO TO SPACE
sssssssssssssssssss

sure, then find a sub guy but you be making him unconscious with pleasure

>idk how to determine the time to ease up though. besides just asking are there like key signs?
key sign is probably the way we're breathing, when i start getting that feeling like i'm about to cum i start breathing a bit more tensely

>JUST LET ME WARMLY SMILE AND LOOK INTO YOUR EYES WHILE ON TOP OF YOU IN SUCH A WAY THAT REASSURES YOU EVERYTHING WILL BE OK SSSSHHHHH LET ME TAKE CARE OF IT YOU CAN PUT YOUR GUARD DOWN AND GO TO SPACE

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you wont*, im dyslexic

what does "sub guy" even mean why cant i just do this to a Normal Guy who loves me and doesnt subscribe to some BDSM shit

oooohhh ive heard that in their voice when they jerk off actually. the breathing. it excites me because it immediately signals "they are enjoying it" in my head. so bring them to the breathy point then back off. ok.

lemme be your completely Normal Guy that you dominate

it just means someone submissive, i doesnt have to mean that you're going to step on him and call him names it can be normal too

dominate is probably a bad word, it sounds more aggressive and toxic/cruel or something
i want to give/provide. i dont mind being given stuff in return (this whole "im dom ur sub" thing is stupid me me for this reason) but i want to also actively give. i dont want to just receive.

i felt my ex gf do that a few times. we never discussed it. i think she was probably seeing if she could make me cum faster. the answer was it didnt effect that.

>oooohhh ive heard that in their voice when they jerk off actually. the breathing. it excites me because it immediately signals "they are enjoying it" in my head. so bring them to the breathy point then back off. ok.
yea, if he's grabbing you with his hands he'll probably start tightening his grip too. there's this point for us when we can feel an orgasm building up and we start getting overwhelmed by it, if you can figure out the guys signs when he's starting to feel that then you can control it.

that disappoints me a lot.
is there anything that does effect that?

Well, if we still had foreskins we could

I can understand if you're not comfortable with the terminology here. however, dominant just seems to mean that you're giving more than you're taking. while a sub takes it more than they give. it's just words being words.

still lemme be the guy that you give it to.

Well, for me it would be all about the things you're saying and the way you're touching me. But I work different from normal guys so my advice is probably useless, sorry for taking up a post

yeah. the guy not jerking off. the girl being a normal weight. pretty basic attraction stuff.

i think i am more inclined towards emotional/sentimental type anyway so you are maybe similar to that?

This guy is retarded, men can absolutely feel "overwhelmed" by a woman who is giving great pussy and squeezing down. Unfortunately, the result of doing so means that he's going to cum early and the sex will in all likelihood be over, so choose your spots unless you want the pleasure to end.

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i meant that could be done during.

is that what edging is when guys masturbate? just keeping it at that point?

i dont need to do it every time and understand once he cums its pretty much over. im ok with him giving to me instead at times too.
i just want the ABILITY to give that to him. i want to be giving to. i dont want to be the only one receiving.

maybe you should look up female orgasms on the internet, unless you're girl you will know its not the same

>is that what edging is when guys masturbate? just keeping it at that point?
sort of. edging is bringing yourself like 98% of the way towards an orgasm, then you stop to let the orgasm settle down, then you start again and keep doing that over and over.

I guess so. I definitely prefer an emotional meaningful connection to a sexual one. Though I understand the need for sexual chemistry as well
I guess if you were looking for that kind of guy then worrying about how to manipulate his dick wouldnt be so big a concern. You should focus on other things like sensual touching and tugging his heart strings with your voice

oh. so like you can talk dirty. you can ask them to put it up your butt. you can tell then theyre big and it feels great. you can tell them theyre the best youve ever had and you love it

gross. dont wanna do that stuff. butts arent for that.

is that good for a girl to do to him?

well when you get more mature as a female who has sex with guys you will realize that alternative stuff like anal really gets them off.

The point being, if you do your kegels and really clamp down you can absolutely make a man just melt in the palm of your hand (pussy). If you build it up with tension and release and let him edge a couple times (assuming he isn't the normal troglodyte that just lets it go on the first impulse, in which case he'll melt anyway) the man will be completely overwhelmed, especially if you've came one or more times already and are pulsating.

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If you want to give a guy something, then give him an orgasm by letting him fuck you in the pussy, I don't get the hangup here

not wanting to be sodomized to satisfy a fetish does not make me immature

its the care/caregiver aspect

well yea but you'd have to know a guy very well to know exactly how to edge him like that, you can probably edge him if you follow the breathing advice, but that's not always going to happen right at the brink of orgasm

Learn to suck dick really good, this is what you are after.

i can squezze my dick with all my force and i feel nothing, but im a virgin maybe i know nothing

ie:
there is a difference between being cared for, and caring for someone
there is a difference between being fucked, and fucking someone

I was with a girl who could contract a little bit. She also was religiously on the pill and encouraged me to finish inside her, talking dirty the whole time
>come on fill me up
>I want you to cum fast
>I can feel you pulsing inside me
I hate her now but still masturbate to those memories on the regular which say something about how hot it was. Makes me want to cry

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maybe but having the faces separate from each other removes some of the intensity/intimacy and it isnt the same as using the actual sex organs

So basically, you want to do something like fucking a quadriplegic after spoon feeding him?

i can squeeze them so hard its absurd
nothing is getting inside if i tense them enough unless its a tiny steel rod or something
anything inside is also getting shoved OUT asap
i think i have an absentminded habit of flexing them too

I meant the woman squeezing and coming, it's a whole new world of experience. Even if you've had sex, the difference between having GOOD sex and boring, bad position, unassuming sex is like the same difference between being a virgin and not.

I'm only here because my gf 18 years my senior and I are greatly unhappy with our lives (separately) and also disputing right now so I'm greatly depressed

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i have no idea how you made that leap
youre weird

Always been a vaginal guy. Never cared for anal but I like blowjobs. Nothing beats pussy though

dont want bad sex
want to give him good sex

Tell you what, I'll help you with your desire to figure out how to feel like you're fucking guys instead of being fucked. I have a flexible work schedule, just tell me when to show up. I give great feedback

no
i havent had sex with anyone just masturbated
i only want to have sex with someone i am going to stay with forever

Are you white? I think we can make it work.

yes but youre smarmy so i dont want to marry you

Alright, can't say I didn't try

Yes you have nothing which you can offer physically besides if your guy is into butt stuff (Fingers or whatever.) the clamping is just mentally arousing. Just play a dominant role if he's into that, the atmosphere can get a guy off 2x as hard.

cant i ride him? isnt what he is doing for me just based on that he is better able to control the insertion and withdrawal?

Also, by smarmy do you mean
"revealing or marked by a smug, ingratiating, or false earnestness"
or do you mean
"of low sleazy taste or quality"

It's barely fucking noticable compared to the strength of my hand grip. Don't flatter yourself.

Yes of course. I wrote this but deleted bc thought it was pretty vanilla and assumed u would already want to do that. Dirty talk, taking a position where u control insertion. It depends what you're into really but you can turn any part of your body into a dom game for him just by commanding him. Combo with whatever fetishes he has. Mentally getting a guy off leads to 10/10 orgasms.

>tfw my gf is about to cum she squeezes and pushes me out and i have to like fight to stay in

anybody know what this is and why it pushes my dick out