Finally get a gf after thinking i was terminally undateable

>finally get a gf after thinking i was terminally undateable
>unable to love her

have any of you been in this situation before? what happened in the end?

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Please clarify what you mean.

you marry her. do you even know how adults function?

why would you get a gf you're unable to love
?????

Get a better looking one, trust me
>inb4 she's good looking
she looks like shit

I somehow managed to get a gf early on in highschool who I previously crushed on pretty hard. As soon as we started going out, I lost all feelings for her. It wasn't that I didn't like her anymore, I just couldn't feel anything. I've been single ever since, and know that it's hopeless to pursue any relationships

I know this feel. I can objectively state I love people, but there's no emotion to back it up, which is all that matters.

>unable to love her
pack it up nigger. it's done. either she's going to start behaving really cruel towards you until you break up or she will go for a soft landing by talking to someone else before breaking up. these are your only two options if you allow things to continue unfettered.

Having love to give but no one to give it to sucks ass, even more so if that person loves you. You must know what you are aiming for chosing some Inio Asano picture. [org: palm trees]

this user knows it. it's what is going to happen.

because its not about dramatic love. thats a meme, and the reason why you dont feel it is because that dramatic love comes from longing or desiring for someone you either dont or cant have. the love youre describing is literally what lonely people who "fall in love" feel.

tl;dr youre fine, you havent bonded yet. get some bonding in and then youll see what loves all about

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>>finally get a gf after thinking i was terminally undateable
>>unable to love her
>have any of you been in this situation before? what happened in the end?

I broke up with her
She got engaged 2 years later at 20 and i have yet to date another person.

>She got engaged 2 years later at 20
dodged a bullet

there isn't a cure, user. i know what you mean.
you can't love, nor will you ever love. lust is your only form of it.
protip, just give up. work on yourself and loving yourself before you ever date again. maybe it'll never happen, maybe it'll happen next week. just understand you wont ever love anyone if you cant love yourself first.

Those who hate themselves, cannot love.

>work on yourself
how does one even do that for this kind of problem?
>you wont ever love anyone if you cant love yourself first
what if i already love myself. i don't have low self esteem or anything, that's not the issue here.

if the issue is that you already love yourself, yet dont like this girl, could it be that you never really liked this girl, and you only decided to hitch yourself to her so you could rid yourself of the stigma of "undateable"? you'll never force yourself to love a girl that you didn't get together with because of love.

true love and shit isn't real kiddo

> be me
> get gf after 1 year of nothing
> I don't love her
> Fuck it I just want some company and sex.
> My intentions become clear
> She gets upset
> I tell her the door is there I really don't give a shit
> She grabs the doorknob and opens it 4 years later.

OP it's pretty chill but you'll eventually get bored or her or you will develop feelings but ultimately discover that it just wasn't ment to be and it will be over. HOWEVER, if you keep at it get yourself a job and be a good man for her meh who knows, maybe better for you on the long run

>finally get chad after thinking I was undateable
>unable to love him
>thought of losing him makes me slightly sad but more out of pride than any genuine emotional attachment to him

Any other fembots know this feel?

I have bpd and have started to realize I can never truly love a man, only lust for his status and physical attributes.