Girlfriend started going to the gym with another guy

>Be personal trainer
>Work with mostly female clients
>Never hit on them, and invite their BFs to work out with us whenever they want.
>Only ever speak in a way that is pro-monogamy
>Main lifts are hip thrust, squat, lat pulldown, OHP
>The women all make it and stay loyal to their BFs
Feels good not contributing to degeneracy

tell her to stop

OP, remake this thread, almost identical, but make one change:

>ex* girlfriend started going to the gym with another guy

Based user.

Worst thing you can do. Don't be jealous ever or you're weak.

Women pick up emotions of desperation very easily. If you're down and want to be happy via a women, they will sniff it out. When you stop caring about that particular emotion and just enjoy the ride, the ride will in turn lead you to enjoyment.

>>meanwhile my exgf is all happy and lovey with the new guy
she isn't when shes alone, believe me it's all smoke and mirrors for others to look like shes happy

t.s ex-gf moving in with her new guy, some friend of hers, after being together for 4 months

I don't know why guys always feel like they have to put up with stuff like this.
Just tell her you don't like the idea of her going to the gym with some random dude and don't want her going. Put your foot down.

If she doesn't agree, then you can appeal to her emotional side and say while you trust her you can't help but feel uncomfortable, jealous and stressed when you know they're together. You may look like a little bitch but she'll symathise and stop.

If that doesn't work just say "look i've asked you to stop for me, ive said i don't lke it, If you cared about me and this relationship why wouldn't you just stop ?? Why does this mean more to you than our relationship ?? "

Girls pull this shit all the time to get their men to stop doing things, meanwhile guys sit there and say nothing because they a) want to be supportive b) don't want to seem jealous and controlling. Meanwhile there gf is building a closer and closer connection with this dude when you could have just nipped in the bud from the start.

>Just tell her you don't like the idea of her going to the gym with some random dude and don't want her going. Put your foot down.
you want to control someone? wew

You don't get it. If she's actually his gf she wouldn't be going to the gym with another guy at all.

>his gf she wouldn't be going to the gym with another guy at all.
>yes my gf is my property and she HAS to do what I want

jesus christ

yes, and ..???

Are you stupid?

>yes
this is a big red flag you will learn once you had a relationship where you thought you could tell her what to do and what not

no, are you?

What? No. You immediately break up with her. Going to the gym with another guy? What the fuck is that. She shouldn't be doing anything at all with another man. Bitch is a cunt who doesn't respect you.

>not controlling your woman
Retarded faggot.

I'm in one now, and she's not going to the gym with other gus

This wouldn’t work. Don’t do this. Sounds controlling af. “Why does this mean more than the relationship?” Oof

>yes my gf is my property
Obviously?

>>not controlling your woman
you have a lot to learn
this

controlling your gf might be something you learn as a teen but in 25+ you either accept it and trust her, or if something really happens drop her like a hot potato

>you will learn once you had a relationship where you thought you could tell her what to do and what not
Lmao. Sounds like somebody is a little dick beta and got cucked.

Damn I once started going to the gym with a girl who had a boyfriend. Yeah I fucked her and she left him for me sorry OP.

Sad twist at the end though I fell in love with her like a retard and then got reversed cucked when she decided to go back to him.

>Lmao. Sounds like somebody is a little dick beta and got cucked.
t. underage

It is controlling, that's the idea.
If he's in a good relationship where the girl respects him and cares for him, then when he first says "hey this makes me uncomfortable, could you not go o the gym with chad anymore" she'll say "ok, no problem"

The manipulation tactics are a last resort before just dumping her

The only way to move forward is to just start hitting the gym like a madman, and start working more to make more money. Put yourself back in the cocoon for 1 year, work OT, get a new job if yours sucks, get fit as fuck and get on with your life. Thank her for freeing you and move on.

>inb4 you got what you deserved
Don’t worry user it happens to the best of us. This girl I met (10/10 no lie) had a bf that was in Europe for a month. I fucked her, was about to get serious with her, then she found someone else. I helped her get out of a bad relationship just so she could find yet another guy. Felt bad but I’m glad I’m not with a woman like that.

This dude has been banging OP's girl and going to the gym with her for months

>y-you got a lot to learn! ;_;
Lmao. I'm married with kids.

And I’m president Trump you homo

sure you are

I have never actually seen the skeezy PT stereotype whilst in this job. At least not ones that creep on their own clients, the moneys more important than the pussy I suppose

Dude your responses are pathetic. If your girlfriends is working out with another man multiple times a week you are getting KEKED.
You sound like some beta faggot who finally got some pussy and thinks I guess this is just how life is you gotta accept women are people too and like to have sex :D
FUCK THAT YOU WEAK FAGGOT
Fuck all the sluts until your mid 30s then get a mid 20s mail order bride from the Philippines whos going to be a good homemaker and not some gym thot whore.
Nobody listen to this weak faggot. bet his gf is a fat fucking cow. post pics faggot.

>If your girlfriends is working out with another man multiple times a week you are getting KEKED.
if you honestly believe this you have a self esteem issue

>gym cuckold is crying in the squatrack again

Beta

Imagine being such a little dick beta that being married with kids, a completely unremarkable thing, is considered impossible. Lmaooo.

Heading to the park bros, GL not "controlling" your women.

refer to exhibit a.

ok nice bait now move on f4gg0t

based and god bless you user

Eat that pussy and let us know what another man's cum taste like.
Come on, user. We're counting on you here.

Just kill the new guy desu

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Is exhibit a 'you're a faggot'? You're a faggot.

>that’s my name
>Scotty doesn’t know

the most based trainer alive

>it's all smoke and mirrors for others to look like shes happy

Why people do that?

Who let the children in the room?
Go in your corner with the other kids.

>If she doesn't agree, then you can appeal to her emotional side and say while you trust her you can't help but feel uncomfortable, jealous and stressed when you know they're together. You may look like a little bitch but she'll symathise and stop.
Horrible, horrible advice. Just put your foot down and skip this bitch shit.

I mean, you don't need to break it off, just start fucking other women on the side

Evolutionary tactic for group acceptance which leads to security and advancement opportunities. Woild you rather have someone in your tribe who has their shit together or someone who doesn't? Of course these natural survival tactics can be ill-suited to our modern circumstances and can manifest in unhealthy ways, as is the case here.

>Girls pull this shit all the time to get their men to stop doing things
wait you actually stop doing the thing when you get shit tested like this? hahahahahahahaha hahahah hahahahaha hahaha whew lad

>ex-gf moved in with her new guy after being together for 4 months
Are you me?

When she broke up with you, did she say she wasn't ready for anything serious?

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Tell her the truth pussy

My name is Ian

I used to think like you but I've seen it happen too many times. If your gf starts hanging out with a new guy for any reason at all then she's already 90% out the door

hit the gym. fuck this bitch

look at this guy.. being good n shit

>Women pick up emotions of desperation very easily
It's true. Think of women as dumb animals. They scare easy.

She's getting bench-pressed after doing squats.

Is it possible he's gay? Like the guy she's going to the gym with? But honestly some women like male company that isn't their bf, women are difficult to be around all the time, we're annoying, fickle creatures and sometimes the drama is too much to deal with. Don't lower your standards by assuming she's just cheating on you, and if she is, well you'll know. You'll sniff it out instantly if you have any sort of half decent relationship with her. Or you could demand she stop hanging out with this guy and see how that goes too. I bet she'd be more understanding of your feelings if you throw a tantrum too, girls love that shit.

Jesus, how afraid of being alone do you have to be to do what you just said? OP should break it off anyway

Word up. This is the only shit that helps with every single aggravation of modern life. Just work it out like a madman; specifically shoulders. Girls like shoulders.

it's over. otherwise put your foot down and tell her that you are not comfortable with the idea. why the fuck are you fucking telling?
quit being a fucking loser

What a slut!

I think you have no-one to blame but yourself.

you're a good man

>sig gets deleted but this shit stays up
Janissaries baka

this is bait

Are you going to fight for her or not OP? Don't listen to these posters. If you love her you can find it in you to forgive

They also deleted another hilarious dating app thread, but a fag anime sticky is ok....

Is it weak or authoritative?

>unironically suggesting a mail order bride

weak af

Cunt detected.

Right idea, wrong person. Kill that bitch, OP. She's the one who left you and hurt you.

So what should you do in situations like these? What's wrong with being down and wanting to be happy via a woman (provided it happens sporadically)?

and she is still your girlfriend? grow some balls son.

Kill yourself right now

bbbased

>he's not the defender Jow Forums derserves but the one it needs right now.
God speed user, have a great day bruh. Keep contributing to the greater moral goods of the world.

How about both? knock em' both into the cold hard ground where they must meet their maker with their degenerate sins in their heart

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She's giving you an excuse to get rid of her and not look like a shallow bad guy for breaking up with her because she got old, fat, sick, boring, or something along those lines. Consider it a favor.

nice b8

Really?

It's over, user. Dump her

no it's cockslut

Nobody here knows what they are talking about, never take any advice from the people here or anywhere really. Our society is so deep down the sjw rabbit hole it is frightening.

A woman can make her man feel less in control by choosing who she spends her time with. If she cheats, she's going to cheat anyway so there's no point in "babe, you gotta stop", you just break it off and move on because it WILL NOT get better.

You make it clear from the beginning what you like and what you don't like and stick to that. Everything else becomes fair game. If it's an open relationship you want, then you're not worried about this kind of stuff in the first place because you don't even love that person.