I have some questions for the guys and "girls" that grew up in fostercare/ophanage

I spent some time in an "orphanage" of sorts as well, cuz no one wants older foster kids. it was a longer-term 'young adult' shelter. sucked cuz it was just some staff and you had no privacy at all. no computer time like at all so I hated that, I lived to go on the internet then too ofc. it was awkward for school too cuz I was the only kid who lived in a shelter.

What about the other kids that lived at the shelter, didnt you go to school with them?

How do orphans feel watching films about family? I imagine its like an incel watching a romcom

Can you tell some more? Never really been fully into the idea of adopting a child, but someone in their mid/late teens almost ready to leave the nest and just needing some support, stability and privacy appeared more feasible, more like a young, glorified roommate you financially support.

no, some of them were 'homeschooled' or went to a different school. there's some dumb law in my state that says that if you wanna go to a different school or something, ur old school pays for the bus. idk. but that's what I did cuz I didn't wanna be in the same school. so most of us got bused out to a school.

honestly the reason why people don't foster older kids is because they think they're all fucked up and uh, most of the time, that's exactly right. can you blame them though lol. most of the time I think the only thing they need is support, stability, and privacy yes.
so, one of my foster sisters was 14 years old, this puerto rican girl. and my foster mom found out that she was talking to a guy in his 30s and was planning on running away from her foster home. so sometimes....some snooping is necessary. some of the foster kids are kinda fucked up. but being prepared for that and dealing with it like you have a young roommate who might need some help is a good approach I think.....
I really wish there were more foster parents willing to accept older kids. in my county there were only two. the one i mentioned who also kept the money she got from CPS and didnt buy me new clothes or whatever she was supposed to do with it and ended up just dropping me off at the office when she didn't want me any more, and then the other foster parent who ended up dying after I was there for about a year.

I think it's normal to not want to adopt an older foster kid btw but fostering some older foster kids is pretty neat.

>they're all fucked up and uh, most of the time, that's exactly right
Most teens that don't have a stable mother and father figure in their lives are fucked up. Sincerely, I just believe they need some kind of rock to support on when things get tough, and someone to guide them when they feel lost. Quite literally a parental figure but without being an actual parent. Being a teen in this day and age is a strange experience I can imagine, it was already weird ten years ago.

>the one i mentioned who also kept the money she got from CPS
What the hell man. That's beyond fucked up. I'm not even expecting money to help raise a teen, people shouldn't do this shit if they can't financially support a teenager and themselves.

>like an incel watching a romcom
they masturbate to the main characters feet while crying?

honestly I'm not shitting you when I tell you I had it kind of easier than most foster kids. yeah she kept the money and all and desu I've never cried as hard as I did in the CPS office after she had just dropped me off but like, at least I don't have really bad horror stories of like, physical abuse or rape in foster care. my adoptive mom physically + mentally abused me but that's why I ran away when I was 16.
how do I feel when I watch films about family? kind of sad sometimes I guess but mostly just meh.

The only really shitty thing was the food. Cleaning and hygeine were always top priority since they couldn't really do fuck all if you got sick (and it would probably spread to everybody). They were pretty lax with the curfew so I spent most of my time at the library. Ended up there because dad pulled a tyrone and my mom died of a heart attack. As for girls getting passed around? Not really. Obviously there were the sluts who slept around with their classmates but none of the foster kids fucked each other. Way too akward, even for horny teenagers. We were definitely more like roommates.

I'll say one thing, we already have people mass-adopting pets as if they are children (mostly young animals). If I want to put my child-rearing instincts, parental instinct or whatever on something or someone, it might as well be a teenage kid who needs it in their formative years. Sounds more fun than rotting alone in some apartment and it's doing someone a favor at least. It's not like I'll have financial troubles in the future either and teens aren't expensive if you teach them how to spend money properly (you likely have to do that as a student anyway).

godspeed user, I hope you end up doing it

If I end up in a position I can responsibly take care of a teen? Sure, life's tough enough on teens. No need to create more robots if we can prevent it.

>I don't really know why I ended up so fucked, like I said, my older sister is doing her own thing and isn't like me.

People don't come as clean slates into the world. Different humans have different tendencies and are better able to deal with different scenarios.

Been to many
First on was for like one month but I didn't like it.
Then I went to another for almost 5years where they abbused me (The reason why I even got taken away kek)
Then they put me in another one which was pretty trashy the first 2years but the other 3years were alright. But it closed down and came to a new one. I dropped out of school, tried suicide, lived isolated for a year.
got a job after a year worked 1/2 months there and got fired.
Started taking Xanax and had arguments with them because of the xanax got put in a mental ward because I was aggresive cause they refused to give me my fucking xanax after one month of mental ward i got thrown out and live now with my dad where i'll soon commit suicide either by hanging or OD.
At least I get benzos from the state for 3 bucks but because i'm a stupid eurofag I can't get a gun and blow my fucking brains out i hate my live so much and everyone else I just wanna die but I have to suffer all the time this fuckers ruined me and made me incompatible for this shitty and pointless live and now they force me to keep living. I hate this state.
fuck this fuck this fuck this fuck this.
Wow this was a real rant and I got really fucking aggresive I should stop doing cocaine most of the stuff prolly doesn't even make sense.

This was not foster care everything was state stuff. I dunno how americans call it

Growing up we had Catholic neighbors. More like SUPER. CATHOLIC. neighbors.
They had 5 kids (all boys) and when the youngest was 15 they fostered a 16 year old girl, adopted her at 18 (as fast as they could).
My dad asked them why and they said
>everyone should have a family
My mom did not like them because they were pro-life, but even she admitted they lived up to their beliefs.
It has been a decade but she is *always* there for Christmas, Easter, you name it.

Were your abusers white? Did the CPS sever you from your family in order to give you to pedophiles and child groomers?

I was in foster care from 1999 to 2007.

>it was shit
>parents had lost parental rights due to being retards that would not take me to school and took me to the doctor to much
>implying they don't separate the girls form the boys (all boy home all girl is the reality)
>kids acted like shitheads and there was no family fee fees

I had one foster mother ask me when I was about to turn 18 "why don't my kids get into contact with me? :(" Because they hate you bitch. Fuck off. You're part of a no-fun-allowed organization that pays you to keep children from doing what they want to do and there is zero love involved so as kids hate step parents they'll feel even more negative emotions towards this gay shit. Faggots.

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Also OP, 99-07 here, people do not simply grow up in foster care. If you get in early someone adopts you.

Go read about it. No one actually does that. What does happen is if you're like 10ish or older you stay forever in foster care until you age out. So it's a 8ish year sort of thing, or in a year or two you get adopted if you're like 5ish.

So I was in a foster home with a Rapist, he would rape all the girls and not allow them to see their families since he had the ability to cancel meets he treated us like shit and would threaten us with our lives if we opened our mouths, he only cared about money and rape. Guess who got that pig locked in prison for multiple accounts of rape?, I did

My abusers where white yes haha

Filed under shit that never happened to be quite honest.

post proof, newsarticle or something

Rotherham in britain had over 1400 similar cases, you absolute retard.
Hundreds of pakistanis grooming british girls and whoring them out for decades.

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Quiet down children. There are other bait threads to be baiting in.

You deserve no (You)s.

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Also if you were groomed you'd like it.

upi.com/Foster-father-charged-with-sexual-abuse/16181112729827/

>have sex with 14 year old
>life in prison
Gay ass society to be honest.

>upi.com/Foster-father-charged-with-sexual-abuse/16181112729827/
Did he get convicted?

>He agrees that he may have problems
kek

I hope did, to be honest I'm not sure, I was pretty young, my case worker back then told me he was took to jail, I was put into a different foster home after. So I'm not sure but they said that I helped him get caught and when I look into it online I found that.

Just found this
"Three girl adopted from foster care by Gary Patrick McCoy were sexually abused by him. McCoy had adopted seven children. McCoy received three sentences between 17 year and 5 and months and 35 years and is currently incarcerated at Earnest C. Brooks Correctional Facility. McCoy had once received the foster parent of the year award."

He should start making yt channel making tutorials on how to become foster parent of the year

>that much time for something so petty and not a big deal
>not actual pedo
>foster parent of the year

Just like Hitler being man of the year in Time magazine. Normalfaggots don't know what they want, they really do not.

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Yeah but do you know how to cook freebase?

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I spent 3 months in a care home once when my mum had a breakdown when I was 10. Then spent more time in foster care. I was around social services for the entirety of my childhood.

>It was much better than a normal household, they took me on trips to the beach and did fun things with us every week and I got to have consistent meals.

>My mum came to my school drunk and caused a scene, and I told a teacher I didn't feel like going home. 20 minutes later social services ripped me out of school and were bringing me somewhere.

>The girls were whores and it's had a lasting impact on how I see women like that (they disgust me, but you can't blame them).

>Best way to describe it was that we were school friends.

There was an older punk guy (around 16) that took me under his wing when I got there and made sure I wasn't jumped by the other kids.

The best way I can describe the whole situation is like a minimum security prison.

Will answer questions if anyone has them.

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>>did anyone grow up in foster care
>some user 3 months
>>ask me anything
>three fucking months
Fuck off.

I went to foster family for three years and they insulted me, humiliated me,made me scrap shit crawling in a trashcan.
I hate them.
Also foster care was horrible. There were dormitories and everything got stolen, even soap. The older kids were beating the little ones to assert dominance. They putted out their sex in front of younger children.

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