>tfw it's socially acceptable to walk out on a date that isn't working out without saying a word or confronting said person at all >tfw it's socially acceptable to walk out on someone just because you think they're weird
imagine sitting at a bar on a date and all is going well, and all the sudden your date just disappears and all the bartenders eye you like you've done something wrong. your personal reputation is now completely stained, your date is gone, and you have done absolutely nothing wrong.
women are spineless. i swear to god. literally walking sacks of victim complexes, using any mental gymnastics they can to justify ghosting someone without saying a word
I would leave a date if the girl was fucking dumb Whats wrong with that
William Powell
the fact you're pretty much labelled a rapist by the entire staff of that bar from that point moving forward. all because some spineless bitch thought it wasn't working out but didn't have the balls (lol) to tell you
Camden Ward
>entire staff of that bar Holy shit How will i ever recover
Joshua Bailey
Fear not. Hypergamy will only get worse as technology improves and public morality crumbles. Eventually enough of us in the bottom 80% of men will have their eyes forced open. We will reintroduce the old ways like our ancestors did thousands of years ago, inshallah.
you don't think it's fucked up to ruin someone's reputation and walk out on them without telling them ANYTHING just because your date wasn't working out?
you don't see how that could be kinda shitty and spineless?
Lucas Reed
date? is that like esports
Gavin Ward
also. why would she not just bring her own car
Lucas Wilson
I don't see a problem. It's probably a good idea to meet up for drinks first and pay off your tab right away. If it's not going well you might as well just ditch out. I stopped dating cause I ride the bus to get around. Kinda a pain in the ass to just up and ditch a date if they know where you're going. I really don't think you thought this through OP. Why do you want to have an argument about someone staying on a date with you if it's not going well? That just makes a scene and actually does fuck up your reputation since you're going to make yourself look like a whiny child. >boo hoo why don't you wanna be on a date with me >starts dribbling tears and snot down face Either you're going to cry or you're just going to start screaming at her that and calling her names. Just leaving the date is the better option. If you don't have enough common sense to do it and she does it first, she did you a favor. I kind of actually wish ghosting was more of a meme before I stopped dating because I use to only do that to girls after the date. It's a way better option to ditch them during it if it's not working out. A girl can't even go through a parking lot without another guy trying to pick her up you don't have to worry to much about leaving them on a date.
Adam Cooper
>I don't think thats right Also i will never come to that shitty place again so its their loss
Easton Young
You americans and your country are fucked in the head desu
just ditching out on someone without saying a word is a shitty thing to do, no matter how you cut it.
>you're going to make yourself look like a whiny child no, im not a beta faggot and i like to confront issues rather than running away from them. if you can't leave the date in a respectful manner, you deserve to sit through it for being a pussy. you shouldn't have a free cop-out that places blame on the other person just so you feel better for being a shitty asshole.
Dylan Bennett
>you shouldn't have a free cop-out that places blame on the other person just so you feel better for being a shitty asshole. and to clarify, that's not saying that leaving is shitty. the only shitty thing is leaving without saying a word.
Easton Wilson
you arent entitled to her time
Joseph Miller
i'm also not entitled to the lack of respect that leaving in the middle of a date without even telling me is. that just makes you a shitty person.
and i'm not a basement dweller neet either. i have a social life and a girlfriend of 2 years. this just strikes me as fucking retarded.
Sebastian Price
There's nothing wrong with this though.
I'd be fucking pissed if some roast made up some shit rule for why I can't bail on them during a shit date
Angel Roberts
o rly? here i thought you were upset at this because you are a fellow basement dweller like myself
Jack Johnson
oof, yikes. you arent entitled to replying to this thread sweetie pie
Elijah Parker
*walks out of this thread without saying a word to you*
Oliver Ward
Honestly if you've managed to fuck up a date so badly that a woman is mousing to the bar for codeworded escape taxis you're probably not doing well on respect exchange.
The absolute state of normoid men around vagina today. I have three roastie sisters and men just lose all self respect around them and start doing like insane obvious negging shit, touching too early, talking themselves up in obvious ways etc. JUST.
Matthew Robinson
>just ditching out on someone without saying a word is a shitty thing to do, no matter how you cut it No it's not. What's shitty is someone expecting me to sit around in a confrontation and try to emotionally burden me with a guilt trip or bargaining. If they're not doing that the only other options is they want to spit venom. I'd much rather give a person that didn't have an ugly end another chance again sometime. If they forced me into a shitty confrontation I'm not likely to give them another chance again and it's a once or done sort of deal in my book.
>i like to confront issues rather than running away from them Maybe you should confront your issues about why someone would walk out on you
Elijah Howard
it's probably better than waisting more time on a date that will lead nowhere
Lincoln Powell
Works both ways you bunch of retards.
Landon Moore
better tip the bar good
Owen Kelly
>rapist gets angry he gets exposed as a rapist lol, try respecting women next time
Ryder Morales
Inb4 a bunch of men start asking for Angela because their tinder date turned out to be fat Lols will be had
Jackson Reyes
>expect to find some hot chick in her twenties >its some 40 year old hamplanet >ask for Angela >skip out from the back of the restaurant I don't see the problem.
Caleb Jenkins
>OP has never gone out on a date >It's somehow a harrowing fact he'll have to face rejection one day
I think you'll know far in advance if the girl isn't attracted to you, furthermore, your image basically applies to Tinder
Isaac Roberts
>you arent entitled to her time
Women literally act entitled for attention, nothing stops them from act like the world owes them something
Eli Peterson
You're right, but white knights with no self-respect will never admit it. Playing the victim is one of women's preferred tactics for not taking responsability for their actions, and it usually comes down to demonizing men. We have every right to hate them.
Jayden Torres
If a man leaves a date with a woman without notifying her, he's considered a jerk.
If a woman leaves a date with a man without notifying him, he's considered at fault (he was a loser, I felt "weird", he was going to assault me, etc).
It's just how it is unfortunately. There ARE women out there who are legitimately respectful and compassionate people, but it's not the norm.
It won't change man, just gotta suck it up.
Xavier Jackson
>I'd much rather give a person that didn't have an ugly end another chance again sometime Are you literally retarded? Who's going to give you another chance when you covertly ditch them like they drugged your drink?
Nolan Nguyen
Don't bother arguing with that person. Listen to the wording "give you another chance". They're putting themselves above the person they're on the date with. They're allowing oh so graciously the opportunity for you to please them.
That person isn't going to be fathom the concept of respect, so don't bother barking up that tree.
Lucas Turner
If you think your date roofied your drink, then by all means, walk out. If he's just a little weird, then it should be a dick move to walk out. >women are spineless. Well, yeah. They're so much physically weaker than men, and they're around men all the time. I can imagine some of them would be paranoid. Also, it's pretty fashionable for protected classes and minorities (not just ethnic ones, either) to whine about being victims.
>Why do you want to have an argument I like how the two options are "scream and bitch" and "sneak away"
baka people on that level of maturity should be barred from dating in the first place
Noah Parker
word gets around. the food service industry is tight as fuck. you may as well leave town. sounds like you're projecting how you react when getting rejected, roastie
Parker Young
It's socially acceptable if you're a woman. Society cuts them slack, because they are retarded children.
Josiah Garcia
Haha what the fuck Girl power shit never works out. What does work out is civility and the ability to talk about your feelings. (Noone knows how to do it these days. Not r9k, and certainly not whores on tinder)
Caleb Russell
Well if she walks out on me I would certainly do that. I mean I already bought the drugs and spiced her drink. That shit isnt going down the drain. I wont get sex but I will at least get high lmao.
Lucas Bailey
Basically this. Woman want equality and freedom and rights, which is all well and fair, but are unwilling to accept the responsibilities that come with it. That's how children act.
Hudson Nelson
This surely wont be abused by women... >get taken out on a date >guy pays for your drinks but since you dont really like him you just use this bail method >guy is labelled as a creepy pervert and you get to have attention and free drinks
Sometimes I think being a woman in the western society is like winning a lottery. You are always a victim, you get attention and nobody (other than some women) has any serious demands for you.
I've been watching some videos on yt about the FA community and a number of people there say they don't know what they are doing wrong or right. As in no one ever taught them how to be normal, make small talk, etc. If someone just walk away from someone weird and never even tells 'em why they are leaving, that person never has a chance to improve, and this is the worst anyone can ever be, never even having a chance to improve themselves.
I think there was an anticle stating that 30% of men between 18-30 didn't have sex the last year. You can only have so many losers in a game before they decide to either leave the game or change the rules. I'm not saying people should do X or Y, I'm saying that the game isn't even worth for a good number of people anymore. The future will be interesting to say the least.
Exactly, and this is what Jordan Peterson talks about to some extent, but everyone just calls him a misogynist. Like if it's misogyny to identify a group of people (young men) who are suffering (the reasons for which are certainly up for debate) and doing what you can to help them, well then society is fucked is because real problems that are uncomfortable will never be addressed.
Michael Hernandez
Free drinks and a free ride home too goddamn
Alexander Powell
>I've been watching some videos on yt about the FA community and a number of people there say they don't know what they are doing wrong or right. As in no one ever taught them how to be normal, make small talk, etc. Hey you know who else has the same problem? WOMEN. Except everyone coddles them and they can do no wrong, but the result is the same, they develop shit personalities.
Dylan Ramirez
>The future will be interesting to say the least. google search rat utopia experiment
Ditching a girl on a date is no where near the same as slipping something in their drink. How in the fuck can you even equate those things to being near equal? I don't see why a girl would suddenly not be interested in me giving her the dick if she was that upset about me running out on the date. Clearly I would deserve another chance once they had time to think about what they did wrong that I wouldn't want to date them. Those are you options, you can snivel and beg like a spineless beta, get angry at them for you being boring, or keep both your dignity intact save face and simply call it quits.
Grayson Cook
Of course it's socially acceptable to flee from a fucking rapist.
Luis Carter
>How in the fuck can you even equate those things to being near equal? Read the post again retardo.
Thomas Richardson
just do it for women
Jack Bell
>You can only have so many losers in a game before they decide to [...] change the rules
I've also seen a few articles on the correlation between polygamy and civil wars, in which the wife-less men at the bottom of the socioeconomic/mating hierarchy end up joining groups like Al-Qaeda as a way to get to the top by killing the chads at the top and stealing their wives, or to die trying. Alternatively, having an army of undersexed men is something that some leaders have exploited and facilitated. I recall reading (I don't remember where) about how Roman soldiers were kept away from women for long periods of time to make them more aggressive in combat. This also means that access to women can be used as a reward for victory. On a somewhat related note: youtu.be/OubHHtNM94s?t=50
