Sounds like you're just a little overwhelmed. Congrats on the job and moving out of the house! I think before you start looking at how to proceed in your life from here, you should give yourself some time to just adjust to the new situation. Get into the swing of things at your job and your new place. And enjoy it! Once you've adjusted to that, then you can start looking towards the future.
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Nolan Walker
Benjamin Parker
How do you connect and build a support group with other people at uni? It seems to be really useful as opposed to having to do all the work yourself and guessing when you have no one to rely on. Also how do you deal with relying on other people? I've never had to do it before because it's something that you would be taught not to do.
Jack Howard
i think you are right. i am sure in time i will see a path to take in life.
Aiden Long
Well, I think you've already done the most important thing. You recognize you have the problem. A lot of people wouldn't be able to own up to that. I think a good way of curing feeling of superiority is to look at everyone as the sum total of their experience, and realize that even those who we think are beneath us, may have gleamed some knowledge out of life that we don't have. If life's a puzzle, then we're all looking at it from different angles and no one knows what the picture is supposed to be. Some of us may have a bunch of pieces put together, but even so, you can't finish it without the corner piece that some low life, no blinker using asshole that cuts you off in traffic has. Talk to people and get to know them. Be friendly to them. Even if you feel they're beneath you. Frankly I think some of them might surprise you in ways. Be humble. In the end, that will make you a real superior person. And you'll feel proud about it. Remember, even Alexander the Great traveled hundreds of miles to meet Diogenes, a poor bastard living in a clay pot and covered in dog shit because he had heard how wise he was. That story always checks my superiority when I think about it.
Anthony Sullivan
First I'd look to see if any groups already exist. I'm sure your school has clubs and study groups for different areas of study and interests. That's where I'd start. And if there isn't one, start one. Sure it might seem like a leap, but print off a poster and pick a time to meet. In the end, you'll probably meet a few people or maybe many that can help you and support you on your way. And you're right. It is useful. Having to do everything yourself isn't the best way to go about it. The reason why people have an issue finding support and relying on others is that it requires trust. Which, unfortunately I feel is kind of lacking in today's society. Trusting people is always hard because there's always the fear that they may let you down. It's not dissimilar to the fear of rejection. It requires you to open yourself up to being hurt. And you have to go into knowing you will be hurt sometimes, but in the long run it'll help more that it hurts. But remember, if you want a healthy support group, the trust and help has to be reciprocated. You have to be there for them just as much as they are for you and vice versa. Trust is a lot like respect in that, often times, you get out of it what you put in.
Jonathan Powell
I hope you find it, user! Best of luck!
Gabriel Smith
Do not reply to gunjy threads, are you fuckers retarded?
Gabriel White
What's a gunjy?
Caleb Jackson
How can I get Daphne to love me?
David Jones
Hey Dr.Crane, I enjoy these threads of yours. Anyway, what do you think of your ex-wife? Also, what do you think of these red flag laws?