R9k bf (moved in together a few years ago) just cheated on me with a sex worker while I was out of town. AMA

Honestly because I was scared of normal people not taking relationships seriously. I thought someone from here could love me as much as I loved them, especially if I deliberately dated down in terms of physical appearance, which was probably shitty of me. I was wrong and it was probably more likely for someone from here to fuck me over than any normal person. It was great the rest of the time though and "we" (now I question if he ever loved me) loved eachother a lot, had a lot of fun, and never really fought in the years we were together. Our relationship was great. I still don't know why it happened and that's what hurts most.

yeah fuckers like that really give us good robot chaps a bad name

guess it's time to move in with me then.

What did he think a relationship's purpose was when you guys were initially talking?
What do you think his original purpose in getting into a relationship, was, if it mismatches with the above?
Was he a virgin, were you a virgin?
Do you guys look at porn at all (per person, together, alone, is that normalized or seen as deviant in the relationship)?

He did betray you, though, and that's hard to process; hope you're going to be alright in the future.
Takes a lot of hard work to get over that type of betrayal as it usually invalidates a lot of your old beliefs, in the sense that he was one of the most important people that constructs a lot of your "perceptions of people", and so it invalidates a lot of those old beliefs.
Also, are you thinking about discussing it with him? Have you determined his motivations?

What makes you think it counts as cheating? He paid someone to do a job.

Was he a closeted gay? I mean, you'd have to be gay to fuck a tranny.

>I still don't know why it happened and that's what hurts most.
Because you lack a penis, obviously.

This. It is not cheating if he had to pay for it.

Thisbis what you get for fucking up my board with your suitty presence. Fuck off before something else bad happens to you.

>someone cheated on me guys be sad I need another emotional tampon to use
Lmao how many guys have to deal with this shit?
Oh no, omeone did it to you before you could do it to them, quick everyone don your shiny armor and defend this fair maiden

are you guys retarded? it's cheating because he still fucked someone and stuck his dick in someone that wasnt her, it doesnt matter if the tranny was paid, it was her bfs choice and hes a piece of garbage

how long did you move out for
what kind of thread did you two exchange contact

It could take months or even years

Yeah why don't you gtfo out of this board roastie

>implying OP's bf was the one using his dick
All he did was make use of a hole OP wasn't using anyway.

Fuck off roastie your "r9k bf" lied to you about being insecure just to get into your walls, and you let him cause youre a dumb broad

You're not the only one. The same thing happened to me except he didn't try to pay for it. He tried to find them off Jow Forums instead. Jokes on him, because he's now a registered sex offender for fucking an underaged one.

Sorry to hear abt that. Cheaters will always get the rope.

testing fuck cunt woman aren't human

What was your relationship like? Most people here are introverted and seem like pretty shady people so I'm curious why you'd even date in the first place

i'm a guy who had a girl date down to him, it either fucks with your head and makes you think she's actively getting other guys(doesnt sound like it in your case) or the guy gets a super inflated ego despite only being below the girl, its shit dude dont do that

im an attractive guy and im dating down a little bit now but not purposely, and you bet your ass im gonna make sure she feels as pretty as possible because i don't want her to feel anything less

what's it like being too ugly for a fucking robot?

sorry that happened
hope he gets hit by a car or realises his mistakes and proceeds to live a life full of dread and guilt or something i guess

We talked about getting married and having kids one day.
I think it was the same. I think something fucked up in his brain the day he cheated. Maybe he was lonely because I was gone for a week, maybe he thought I cheated on him too, maybe he's a big homo, I don't know.
We were both virgins and agreed to wait for sex until after a year of being with eachother irl.
I do, he said he used to but stopped when he met me because it didn't do much for him anymore. I believe him for the most part. We were both fine with it as far as I know.
We've discussed it a lot. He just says he doesn't know why he did it. I know it's not because we don't have sex, it's not because I got fat or ugly for sure, it's not because I'm a shitty wife and don't clean or cook poorly or anything and it sucks harder because of that. Maybe I was too doting and it went to his head when I was gone.

I'm sure some people could mental gymnastics themselves into thinking this but we even talked about what cheating was a while ago back when we were still LDR.

How long did I move out for when he cheated or how long was I gone for before he cheated? If the first, packing tomorrow and if the second, I was in Hong Kong for an aunt's funeral for a week. We exchanged contact in a thread about general interests. It wasn't for hooking up or finding friends but he liked a lot of stuff I liked so we discussed in the thread a lil then I asked for his Skype.

It was really great. I mainly liked that we did a lot of cute stuff together like feed ducks almost every weekend and go on picnics. Neither of us went out much but when we did it was usually to do stuff like that together.

I don't know if I really did it purposefully from the beginning, but I know I thought it'd make him less likely to cheat or fuck me over. That mindset really fucked me up when I first found out.

I have a bf but it's not all great. On the one hand I'm not lonely but on the other I want someone more attractive and I was more attracted physically and personality wise to an old fwb. I don't know how to end this though because I kind of don't want to because I could end up lonley for a long time again and I also don't wanna hurt him because he's very nice.

>fwb
You're already damaged beyond relief so don't expect to have a meaningful relationship ever.

>REEEEEE A WOMAN MADE A THREAD ABOUT HOW A BAD THING HAPPENED TO HER
>TIME TO FALSEFLAG SO PEOPLE DON'T ACTUALLY THINK WOMEN ARE PEOPLE INSTEAD OF DEMONS

At the risk of sounding like an orbiter, break up with his cheating tranny-fucking ass and recover, maybe lay off relationships for awhile, no one deserves to get cheated on.

Already dumped and moving in with my brother Friday.

WHY CAN'T I POST GOD DAMN IT

Good. A lot of people tend to have flings to bounce back. Don't do this mistake. Do stuff that you enjoy to cheer yourself up. Treat and indulge yourself a bit, within reason of course, and you'll be fine eventually, just make sure not to be stuck in the past for too long. That kind of paralysis is what brings down people. You're free now, and you'll find someone else, someone better. Good luck. Sorry for taking so long to reply, for whatever reason I can't post so well.

Good. A lot of people tend to have flings to bounce back. Don't do this mistake. Do stuff that you enjoy to cheer yourself up. Treat and indulge yourself a bit, within reason of course, and you'll be fine eventually, just make sure not to be stuck in the past for too long. That kind of paralysis is what brings down people. You're free now, and you'll find someone else, someone better. Good luck. Sorry for taking so long to reply, for whatever reason I can't post.

Nothing really to say that hasn't been said, sorry user "people" are often unworthy of the title

He was a furfag wasnt he

>fembot gets a bf
>he's an actual faggot and a cumbrain
>she still proceeds
Maybe have some standards instead on jumping on the first dick which pays attention to you.

Did you get tested for STDs?

It's not because he's from here that he cheated. Anyone can cheat. People who go on about virtue and loyalty can cheat. Humans can and will cheat under the right circumstances. I don't want anything but one love for life, one person I have sex with, live with, love with until we're old and ugly, but even so, I am an animal, a human. They make mistakes. Does that make it OK? No. Just another life experience to learn from. I have plenty of those shitty experiences. Life isn't perfect, life is hard, painful and full of tragedy. Let it teach you and inspire growth of your own character. Look towards the light. Don't let it kill your trust completely in people.

>A lot of people tend to have flings to bounce back. Don't do this mistake.
This point really must be stressed. Tell him to fuck off and make it permanent, or you'll just be in for more heartbreak down the line.

what country? original124jkfgkjfd

>AMA

Why do only the worst robots get fembot gfs?

Why do only the worst robots get fembot gfs?

the good ones feel awkward contact fagging.

This whole psy-op to make desperate people look like monsters is getting more and more sophisticated.
What is the goal of this ? Anihilate us so only the brave valid individuals remain ?

Go back to fucking chad

Well he probably left you for a tranny cause you are a larping faggot post tits and pussy if you are a girl.

Because that's what women are attracted to. They'll never pick one of us, they always pick the Chad-lite sociopath hanging around here for easy pussy.

Welcome back to the netherrealm, sister
Dont forget, you're here forever

Can I ask how old you both are, OP? I really lack a point of reference for these things.

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go bait somewhere else

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Lot of variables not in here
>how long out of town
>why out of town
>does he have a job
>does he have any hobbies
>how often did you have sex
>did he expect sex or did you initiate sometimes
Im sure theres some important questions im missing but these will at least help narrow down why it might have happened. Cant change the past tho

>samefag here
Also
>how long were you together, not LDR, before moving in together

>cucked by a tranny
my condolences