Are there any pure guys in the world?

most importantly:
>optimistic and not jaded by experiences
>doesn't watch porn because he believes it to be dirty
>Chivalrous for the sake of it and not expecting anything in return

Almost like a man-boy, if you think about it.

How are pure guys taken advantage of?
I don't really have a story, except for the fact that every guy I know is too sexual and even those who say they want pure girls, immediately ask for nudes and sex after getting to know each other.
Cumbrain is the definition of being impure

> #
>20% is still a lot and I haven't met any yet
Maybe they're just not interested in you, ever thought of that?

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I didn't say that I've never met a pure guy who was interested in me. I said I've never met a pure guy period

op is a turbo roast. yew were warned

They avoid you because pure boys aren't interested in roastie

What made you assume I'm a roastie? What type of girl attracts pure guys according to you?

statistically you have, but they're just not interested in you so they don't approach you.

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>How are pure guys taken advantage of?
I see it as
pure = innocent = ignorant = potentially gullible
Same way so many nice girls have a shitbag first boyfriend. They can be taken advantage of because they are not privy to warning signs since they have no experience to go by.

>One that wouldn't watch porn or push girls to be lewd with him right away

I come under that banner, I don't think I could overcome my anxiety to do sexual stuff right away with a girl, I'd wanna get to know her and fall in love with her and start kissing and stuff before sex

>what made you assume I'm a roastie
>I've never met a pure guy
You have met pure guys, but you don't qualify them because they're below your standards, roastie

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>what made yew assume
ho ho ho

You are literally just describing a child

cus she wants a child to counter her turbo roasting

Yes but you wouldn't want them when you meet them. In fact you probably ignored a couple because you didnt like how they looked. Also girls who go after "pure" guys tend to be vindictive, unabashed sluts themselves who get off on the attention a "pure" guy gives them. Makes them feel like they didnt take miles of cock like the whores they are, it's actually pretty disgusting when you think about it. Then those same men get jaded when they get dumped or cheated on.

Just stay away from them.

dammn son. thats wassup

absolutely based
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We are selectively bred to be exactly what women need to exist. So, no...sorry OP.

Op shouldn't approach pure boys she'll just ruin them.

Hello sarah,, how are you doing

I don't care about looks that much. I went after guys who definitely weren't handsome before, all because they talked about respect and how they value innocence and emotional connection. It was all lies though because they tried to get into my pants as soon as they sensed I trusted them. I still managed to stay pure and I just want to find someone who is the same

By pure do you mean not have any firm opinions?

I would classify myself as pure in a Nietzscherian / semi Stoic standpoint, but it sounds like you are just wanting a child rather than anyone striving towards a traditional life-style with a strong will and it disgusts me.

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sounds like Turbie

I don't watch porn. (I don't consider it dirty really, just cheesy and... idk, it just feels 'off').

The other two are pretty difficult to find in adults. A lot of really young men start off that way, and then they got mocked or walked all over. I suppose some of the really hot guys who started out nice would remain optimistic, because everyone treated them well due to their good looks.

>I went after guys who definitely weren't handsome before
You weren't interested in them, otherwise you wouldn't remember them as that. Actual attraction, unlike normie roastie relationships, make you sorta infatuated to their looks and you think there's no one more good looking than them.

I realise that saying "Nietzscherian / semi Stoic" may misrepresent me here. I am just referring to a classical life-style though and rejecting modern consumerism and hook-up culture.

I also have no respect for the average women who will often sleep with several people by the time they are 20.

I used to be happy and just wanted to make someone happy and be nice to them and was "pure" like you describe I guess, but then I just got cheated on. I didn't really want to be lewd, I just wanted to make her happy, but I wasn't enough.
I wish I were enough and could make a woman happy.

I've been on NoFap for three years now and do not consume porn or engage in sex outside of committed relationships. I spend most of my days studying, writing music, working out, and learning languages - my favorite hobby on weekends is going for hikes.

I also go on this site once every two weeks or so. Make of that what you will.

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>implying your way is the only good way
Wake up, pseud, purity doesn't come from sticking to one strict path. Your path may make you happy, but it doesn't make me happy. Purity comes from the simple clarity of how someone conducts oneself. I want to do what makes me happy and I will not mask that nor manipulate anyone into believing or following me for other reasons apart from the ones I genuinely believe in.
My purity comes from the clarity of my intentions and I intend to be around likeminded people

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>By pure do you mean not have any firm opinions?
No, that's not what I mean at all. What firm opinions do you have in mind?
I'm not much of a Nietzsche expert myself but stoicism is a philosophy that actually helped a lot. And I'm not looking for a child at all.

Oh and this:
wasn't me

I don't think I am who you think
I was into them because I tend to like the way someone looks more and more when I get to know then and like them but they weren't attractive by the conventional standards

I think a fair 30% of us truly watch in horror from the side while occasionally encouraging critical thinking when shit gets too retarded.

Sounds perfectly pure, user

i just want a girl to let me rest my head in her lap while she scratches my head

Ok i know i sound like a liar but im actually pretty pure tee bee h

Have you read any of the stoic literature?

Epictetus Enchridion or Marcus Aueralius' meditations? I recommend reading Meditations at the very least, I would say stoicism is a very 'pure' philosophy but I dont take it to the extreme. I do value my people and dont take it as far as Epictetus would do.

I thought that
Was you anyway, which is why I was angry.

If you are going to read Neitzche I recommend starting with Thus spoke Zarathustra though rather than beyond good and Evil. I am not a massive fan but I do like his ideas on will.

I dont think a single line of that meant anything past be yourself dude.

Also Seneca was fat and lacked the will he wrote about, I equate fat with a lack of willpower and it annoys me more than most things.

>I dont think a single line of that meant anything past be yourself dude.
And is that a bad way of walking through life? Since when is doing what makes you happy bad?
Mate, listen to me, go one week without bullshit, no masks, no mind games, no guessing.

do what you love and you'll be happy, get what you want when you want it. Treat yourself because you only have one life and it really goes away in an instant

I hate bullshit hedonism like that. Doing what makes you feel good all the time is going to lead to the downfall of western culture and a society left to us by better men.

Pain, suffering and constant striving is what makes a great man not pleasure.

Too many people expect short-term gratification rather than holding it out for personal enrichment. The word "degenerate" is cliche but tempting given the root of its meaning - one who chooses to degenerate himself further as opposed to committing to a stringent moral code.
I'm not even a prude or anything, just a 19yo who spent his whole life moving between cosmopolitan world cities and observing that the plague of modernity that swept every one of them as I matured was merely an extension of what had happened on the internet over the past decade. Concepts like irony, hedonism, and pornography are plagues on the mind, and it is your duty to eliminate them and become a greater man with every passing day.

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I did read Marcus Aueralius when I had more time because a decent translation of his meditations wasn't hard to find in my country. I haven't gotten much further than that with stoicism other than applying in in real life because honestly it's getting harder and harder to find time to educate myself extracurricular. I might look for something when I'll have some break so thank you for recommendation. As for Nietzsche, I only agree with some of his ideals which makes it harder for me to get through all of them. It might be because I misunderstand his philosophy though because I've never truly read him.

>Doing what makes you feel good all the time is going to lead to the downfall of western culture and a society left to us by better men.
>Pain, suffering and constant striving is what makes a great man not pleasure.
Wow, you really are blinded by your "superiorness", virtousity doesn't come from walking in the slaughterhouse so others can be fed.
See, I think your issue is you have no idea that you can be virtuous and be happy at the same time, in fact, virtuousity will make it easier for you to be happy. You can arrive to pleasure with pain and suffering. You can be happy from the pain and suffering, everything emerges from it. Your own mother went through the pain and suffering of pregnancy and giving birth to you, but in the end happiness arised.
I recommend that you read Aristotle's Nicomachean ethics

Yes, I am. Pure and virgin.

But I'll only date a pure virgin girl.

I dont know how a women would relate to Neitzsche's teachings, however as I say I am not a big fan either and havent read anything of his other than those two books.

With you not having enough time though are you a university student? I really don't think you will find many 'pure' people in a modern university..

Also are you in a a central european country or are you just referring to the English copy of meditations?

Did I say a single thing about walking into the slaughterhouse so others can be fed? I won't suffer on behalf of others, I make myself 'suffer' because it increases willpower and improves me.

Unhappiness as well did I mention that? You equate work, self restraint and striving with unhappiness thats sad and says a lot about your own views I feel rather than my own.

well I wouldn't suffer for others who wouldnt do the same themselves.

Im not having a debate on a site with a captcha this bad anyway and I dont think they achieve anything anyway. We will both be set in our ideas already at this age.

I currently wageslave and I still might do that when the college starts, I still try to read in the meantime but I choose fiction as it's just easier to get into when I come home tired from work.
I might not find pure people in University but honestly I don't know where else to look for them. And yeah, I'm from central Europe.

well it depends on what pure means to you but based on >One that wouldn't watch porn or push girls to be lewd with him right away
i myself don't watch mainstream porn but i still consume my own share of sexual content for example in anime but i dunno if you mean porn in general or just the "porn". i also wouldn't initiate anything sexual in relationship because i'm autistic and i'm not assertive in any way. they girl would have to even kiss me first or maybe i'll warm up after at least a year of being together. i do think i'm kinda pure but not really because i know too much. but i still feel like even if i was pure by your definition you'd find me too boring or autistic to actually want to be in a relationship with me.

You're describing a fucking child lmao - the middle one should be a requirement for all guys though.

I'm not pure in the traditional sense of being untainted but I am optimistic & porn/lewdness averse. Haven't met a lot of guys I can relate with that aren't also hard-line stoics or otherwise philosophically oriented, whereas I'm just trying to get by.

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Lol its the same shit every time. All these self proposed nice pure sadboys are all mentally unbalanced self loathing betacucks who will waste your time no matter what.
>complain 24/7 about benign problems
>hidden bipolar outbursts, shows up after dating
>whines about having no friends while never messaging anyone but his oneitis back
>has no personality beyond being weak, depressed and generally incapable of being independent
>actual fucking energy and emotional vampires
And you guys wonder why the fuck you get ghosted. They arent looking to date people to feel whole or full, or because they actually care about human contact and bonding on a level deeper than comparing mental illnesses, theyre looking for attention in the form of perpetual drama and having a guaranteed emotional wetwipe hanging around to clean up their diarrhea piles of worthless emotions.

I dunno if "pure" is the way to describe me but I love headpats, tummy scritches and long tight hugs. I love receiving effection and also giving it.

i wish i could relate to that pic so bad bros. how to find a virgin girl who is willing to wait for marriage?

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Can confirm. Nearly fucked me over being used by people. Didn't let if crush me though. Still hurts though...

i don't myself think i'm so bad. i live alone and manage well enough, i do have friends too. but it's just that i've been made to think that i'm not that good of a choice to hang out with.

I strive to be. Porn and especially just fapping in general is hard to get away from with my libido but I'm trying.

I don't want to get into sexual stuff with a girl until we really know eachother and I can be confident she is the love of my life.

I'm also wageslaving but I am lucky and enjoy my Job, I havent read as much as I should be doing recently though and do find fiction easier at the moment. I recommend Dune if you haven't read it and like science fiction. Also a lot of historical stuff as even with a job I like it is still draining sometimes to read more than that. Feels like its killed a lot of my other hobbies as well just due to shifts, havent done any smithing in like 3-4 months now

I am going to kill myself though because of this captcha, its taking me 3-4 minutes to get through it per response.

If you do want to talk more message me on discord, I am not in any servers but check it a decent amount to message a few irl friends
Epictetus#5747

If not im off Jow Forums for tonight so good luck

t. scorned BPD dom

Thanks for the recommendation, user. I enjoy science fiction do I might get into that once I finish reading Norwegian Wood. Good night, I have to go to sleep now to wageslave well tomorrow.

absolute not. and all of the true pure ones have been snatched up