The psychologist is in

then why continue to use debicki user? do you have any proof of being a psychologist? why would a real one come here anyways? theyd be too busy with their actual clients

Why don't you start a discord group instead?

>why would a real one come here anyways?
lmao

>theyd be too busy with their actual clients
double lmao

>then why continue to use debicki user?
She's my chosen illustration of myself here. This thread needs a feminine presence, Debicki is perfect for that.

>do you have any proof of being a psychologist?
Of course. But you will never see any of this evidence, obviously.

>why would a real one come here anyways?
Because there are people who'd benefit from help here; sometimes they can't afford professional help, sometimes they're in countries that don't do mental health well; sometimes they're in countries that don't believe in health insurance.

>theyd be too busy with their actual clients
It's not like therapists work 24/7. I come here on my off time, when I can. I do this job because I believe in healing humans.

Because I know what would happen and I want none of that.

fuck off whore go make this on soc

Not him but, psychologists don't work that much they have a shit ton of free time.
So it isn't hard to imagine that this would happen. Also, don't imagine that psychologists are particularly smart, so even though op is kinda a brainlet it's still possible.

>I do this job because I believe in healing humans.
does this include trannies? I for one don't consider them human

i think having a feminine presence and insight is great for the board, but debicki is normally used as a wierd fetish thing so im not sure. i am glad you are willing and able to help if that is the case i am just very wary as well since most of these threads/cases are larps. what brought you onto this board specifically? the news? and you also dont need to (You) someone everytime for a quote
fair point i just am glad to see another helpful and emphatic person on this board i just dont want it to be a larper hurting those already hurt

Are you implying incels will try to pursue you sexually and romantically?

>fuck off whore
If you'd like to discuss your anger towards woman, I would recommend it.

>don't work that much they have a shit ton of free time.
Depends. Some of my therapist acquaintances do 11 hours of therapy per day, 5 times a week. They don't have much free time left. You can work a lot less if you're OK with less money. Since it pays very well, you can easily work 3 hours a day and live comfortably.

>does this include trannies? I for one don't consider them human
Of course it includes them.

>what brought you onto this board specifically?
I figured this would be where the anons who needed the most help would be.

>you also dont need to (You) someone everytime for a quote
I do. I select what I want to quote and click on the digits, and it greentexts that shit automatically. It saves me a ton of time.

>Are you implying incels will try to pursue you sexually and romantically?
I'm not implying anything, I know exactly what would happen because I have already tried such a thing.

fair enough but ctrl c and v are what im used to more so i thoguth id just let you know just in case. again i really hope you are real and can help some robots out. good luck op and good health

fuck off, go make this thread on soc

Do you think the white race will summon the will to survive?

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Thank you. Whether I am larping or not doesn't matter if the information is real and useful, and it is. Reaction to these threads is usually positive, with a small percentage of very asshurted anons who can't stand women.

>I came to a thread I hated! Now I'm in it and it's horrible! How could this happen to me???

Of course. People don't die out easily, and people don't race mix much. Most people want children who look like them.

do you advocate surgery for trannies, or would you prefer (if you had the freedom) to counsel them in matters regarding their delusion in a similar way you would try to treat that aspect of schizophrenia?

you're not impressive

Can you run me through some of your favorite music, films and (if applicable) television shows?

And are you over 30 or under 30?

>thoughts on Iq
>thoughts on big 5
>thoughts on weed/schizo correlation, is it real?
>thoughts on Jung
>thoughts on Lacan
>favourite psychologist
>do women have visceral hatred for incels or meme
>are women attracted to dark triad or meme
>why pursue psychology
>interesting psychological knowledge most are oblivious to
Feel free to answer any of those

I'm personally on the side of changing the mind, not changing the body. The way I see it, it's indulging in someone's delusion, to great risks for the patient, so I cannot condone this.

I am.

I try not to give out too much personal information. You can ask my opinion on specific things, however.

>i just dont want it to be a larper hurting those already hurt
Well, he isn't prescribing them any meds and his advices are not very different from those that one would get from the average somewhat liberal boomer normie.

If you're a real psychologist what books should I read to get the equivalent of a bachelor's degree in Psychology? I'm looking for textbooks

Why are you a woman?
Original question

I was in that discord, but I sperged out and left. Not sure you would even remember me since it was 2 years ago.

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thats a good point, i know there are many bad influences on this board but i also know there arevery naive and young kids on here who might fall for this persons words just be virtue of the tripfag/title/dedication to larp/popularity of the thread and want to be sure he/she is really wanting to help and is able to give decent advice

If CIA psychologist niggers are referencing me on here, would it be beneficial to me to say seemingly wanton, cruel things to me at times like what you here see on this board some of the people posting

I can't get over my oneitis obsession and I'm gonna go on two yrs soon. I tried getting over it but I always fall back. I also can't imagine myself with them if anything were to happen due to ugliness / extreme self hatred despite them reciprocating the love. So I distanced myself far away. What now, kms?

IQ tests are useful but people give them too much importance, understandably.

No thoughts on Big 5. I'm not impressed but didn't care enough to investigate it much.

Weed, if overused, can cause paranoid schizophrenia, yes. This is certain.

Jung was great, as good as a psychoanalyst can be. Without a scientific approach, however, it remains up to the reader to figure out what may apply and what is just intellectual fantasy. I'm skeptical of psychoanalysis until science backs it up, which, when it does, usually shows the problematic in a different way.

The little I know of Lacan only makes me scorn him as a charlatan. Charlacan.

Women don't have visceral hatred for incels until they murder them.

Women are attracted to traits that can overlap with the "Dark Triad", but it isn't these pathologies that are attractive.

I studied psychology because I wanted to make a difference in people's lives, and I knew doing this would make me feel alive.

Developmental psychology is woefully ignored, when it should be mandatory for future parents to know about.

Any advice for someone that's completely stuck?

My mother is a heroin addict, I'm getting worse and worse about how much I pop pills. My brother has a grip on me and my mother even if he's in prison, he uses me for sex during visitation. My father left me here, a second time, after having sex with me under the guise that he would stick around. I keep sleeping around and every time I try to feel something and all I feel is disappointment and frustration. I can't leave my mom because she would probably die if I did.

I just want out.

I tend to be really rough with the way I talk to people, but I didn't know that until someone told me. I try to be kind in that I teach my fellow shipmates [Navy] how to do stuff so they won't fuck up, but only a few people seem to genuinely enjoy talking to me.
How can I fix something I didn't even know was broken?

>his advices are not very different from those that one would get from the average somewhat liberal boomer normie.
>advices
>memes
I'm not liberal, nor a boomer, nor a "normie", though I wish I was.

There are a ton you'd have to read to get a Bachelor, but you can start with this.

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Because XX and not XY.

I doubt you were there. It would be a crazy coincidence.

>though I wish I was.
Why?

gf used me as a rebound. broke up with her husband of 7 years 2 months prior to dating me. she was my for friend 2yrs before this. said she wanted nothing serious. 6 months in we ended up getting serious. 1 month after this she dumps me because she isnt ready to love another person/isnt over her ex yet. 3 days later comes back crying because she cant bear to be without me. 1 month later repeats this behaviour, except this time she writes me a letter and hand delivers it, telling me she wants to fully commit herself to me, and that she loves so much etc etc. 1 month later, things are seemingly fine, and then out of nowhere she dumps me for the final time because "i love her more than she loves me". she dumped me over text, and has blocked me. she wouldn't even give me any closure. didnt even get to talk about it.
its a month later and she has since got a divorce from her husband. that is all i've heard about her.
do you perhaps have any idea what the fuck is going through her head? perhaps shed some light on what the fuck im supposed to glean from this? i fell for this girl, despite her weird ass situation, because it seemed like she was ready to move on. then i got fuckin played. did she plan to play me? was she ever really going to commit to a new relationship? am i a fucking idiot?

>tfw no CIA nigger psychologist gf

Lucky for you I am also a psychology professional.

What is your opinion on repressed traumatic memory and multiple personality disorder? More specifically do you believe or disbelieve in the validity of each phenomena?

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>who might fall for this persons words
Considering not a week goes by without an incel murdering innocent people based on words you guys post, you have quite the nerve. It is far more dangerous to spread dank memes about "Chad" and "Stacy" and "muh genetics" than it is to inform people the way I do. It's also weird how you guys think psychologists are like shamans or something, and that their words are somehow more lethal than anybody else's. It's words, not brain surgery. My words are a lot more harmless than yours.

I don't know what to tell you.

Of course not. What is the source of your low self-esteem?

>repressed traumatic memory
Freudian meme
>multiple personality disorder
No scientific evidence

You said this cock was nice before. Do you still feel that way?

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>he uses me for sex during visitation.
Excuse me?

This needs to stop right away. Maybe I misread but it sounded like both your brother and father rape you. You should call for help, the police will be enough. Things can't get worse at this point.

>thoughts on pornography
>thoughts on lobster man's knowledge of psychology
>do you subscribe to any psychological school?
>are mental disorders becoming more widespread or meme
>thought on analyzing dreams
>thoughts on MKULTRA
>are any powerful insitutions you know of using psychological knowledge to promote social engineering on large scale through movies, social media and other outlets
>how powerful are subliminal messages
>thoughts on hypnosis
>is self authoring useful
>is keeping a journal useful
Answer those you feel confident about

hey op thats not that im saying. the fact that you are adressing me in this manner makes me think you are not a professional. to know about chads and stacys and other similar lingo its clear ou have been on this board for a bit which also makes me question your authenticity. its great to clear things out and say your words are helpful but all ive done is lightly question your legitimacy and you are already getting somewhat worked up. i think its best to hang it up here. there is a lot of hate on this board, yes, but your larping is not helping.

>How can I fix something I didn't even know was broken?
Perhaps you don't feel much empathy for others. Have you been diagnosed with anything?

I only seek to be happy. Being a normal person makes this more likely. I do my best to be normal.

How do I build the confidence to call the police

>Considering not a week goes by without an incel murdering innocent people
There have been only one case of someone who self identified as an incel and commited violence aka Alek Minassian which is a very weird case in itself but lets pretend that he was real.
All other cases are not related to inceldom.
For example ER wasn't aware of the concept of incels, and he didn't know about lookism or the black pill.
So i don't know who you are talking about?
Can you post some names?

Hey OP,
I need counsel. :(
There is a family history of depression and other stuff, and I am doing ok in life, despite my problems, but every now and then I turn mute. I can talk, but I have nothing to say. I cannot form thoughts properly let alone have proper conversations. And this lasts for several days. If I ty to talk it feels like I don't make any sense at all and I feel like hearing me from the outside, not being the one who actually does the talking. I am even surprised by what I say sometimes. Depersonalization, I guess?
It just makes me withdraw from the world and shy away from human contact because I will just be awkwardly silent. And I feel bad and like a failure because I cannot fix this. I learned to fix/handle many things, but I have found no way to deal with the Silence when it comes.
What can I do to make this pass quicker?
Thank you

You aren't an idiot, you are most likely a good person who can offer support. The problem is on her side: she seems emotionally unstable to a very high degree. Attachment issues, etc. Her feelings for you seem to change, also, and she probably decided it would be better not to disturb you further, considering what she feels isn't stable (and is most likely related to her problems).

Even though it is hard, you are better off without her, and I am not certain she can find true love in her condition, but you can, and should.

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Why do poeple argue that one should seek outside help for "mental stuff" because you would do the same for physical injuries and what not? My main priblem with that line of thinking is that doctors can generally "read" the body by various means. Youd have to be a mind reader to do the same for mental stuff, hence only you can reqlly help yourself.

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Naw. Zero issues mentally, and I'm not any meds.

I was, but you don't need to worry about me starting shit or anything. In fact, I'd like to apologize for being a retarded antagonistic poltard teenager back then. I just wanted some closure so I thought I'd say all this. I've got nothing more to say to you. Farewell.

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>Being a normal person makes this more likely. I do my best to be normal.
What separates you from being normal?

>I am also a psychology professional.
>multiple personality disorder?
Actual psychologists know the actual term for this, and it's not that.

At least you tried, but know I resent people trying to take me for a fool. I'll respond to your questions if you provide an apology. Sounds fair to me.

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This is going to shock you but Jow Forums isn't the super secret board you think it is and many long term posters have since gotten older and gotten jobs.

Correction I didn't realize the lingo had changed. What is your opinion on Dissociative Identity Disorder and Repressed traumatic memories?

It was called MPD when I was learning about it, I forgot that it was changed not long ago. An honest mistake I assure you. I did correct myself
But your response was a few seconds faster.

Repressed traumatic memories are a thing. On my end, I still wonder if the "repression" is due to a defense mechanism or whether the trauma itself prevented encoding, memory-wise. That said, you will easily find people who came upon traumatic memories that were repressed for years.

>No scientific evidence
Dissociative Identity Disorder is a thing. It's rare, but it's real.

Social anxiety, it's only gotten worse and features, sure I could self improve in others ways but that won't fix a thing. I have no redeemable features and no, I don't feel as if I can redeem myself in any other way i.e. intelligence to boost my self esteem.

fair point and i wasnt trying to say that was the case but op's words so far have been very formulaic and i feel that while knowing the board lingo and culture can help in a way, posting constant pics of debicki and similarly attractive women is an odd choice that makes me question the rest of their choices

Have you ever had an encounter with a bear or other ferocious animal?

When is the last time you made pee pee in your pants? Poopy?

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I bet you look nothing like Debicki lmao

Jow Forumsommando here, jesus fucking christ what in gods name is the cause of all the shit on this board? What causes all the trannies, discordfaggotry, suicidal thoughts and shit in this place? Have you spotted any patterns with the questions/requests for help that you get on this board that might lead you to an answer?

They say these things sometimes like what the normies who come on here say, I just wonder if that is okay and they are leading me to some kind of thought. Or if that is entirely harmful, I try to think of them as friends and I talk to them from my phone all day and most of the time they are very kind

Why do you think so many young people home about suicide and portray depression as cool
And why can't I stop jacking off

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That girl has no hand game.

>thoughts on pornography
I think people who engage in porn have issues, most of them. For the rest, I don't think porn itself is a problem, except when it comes to giving people an idea of what actual sex is like.

>thoughts on lobster man's knowledge of psychology
He has legit degrees, so he probably knows his shit like anyone else would. I never heard him say anything stupid.

>do you subscribe to any psychological school?
Behavioral-cognitive. I don't like bullshit, so I stick with what seems the most down to earth.

>are mental disorders becoming more widespread or meme
They aren't, we just talk of them more, and we recognise them more, because we know of them. You'll find historical instances of all of these everywhere if you go back. We just didn't have the knowledge at the time.

>thought on analyzing dreams
It's good, but it can only be done with the dreamer. Dreams aren't to be taken very seriously, though. Sometimes they mean something, sometimes they're just brain farts.

>thoughts on MKULTRA
Not convinced at all.

>easily find people who came upon traumatic memories that were repressed for years
It's very difficult to say whether the memories that "re-emerged" are actually memories or fantasies that are induced by the influence of the psychologist.

>Dissociative Identity Disorder is a thing.
Just acting

>do schizos have higher IQ or meme
(Asking this because know a schizo in social media and the guy is a legit genius. He is able to come up with absurd, creative, verbally abundant narratives on the fly, extremely quickly, and still seems to have some grip and insight on things, mantains a heavy presence on social media, one of my few friends desu. )
>do trannies have higher IQ or meme
(Most of them i interact with online seem to be in technology fields, fluent in philosophy, etc)
>thoughts on psychodelics
>thoughts on trauma
>i start shaking, salivating and struggling internally when a specific subjects are brought up, although i had no significant experiences relating to them, is there a term for this?
>what are the psychological traits common to people attracted to extreme ideologies

>are any powerful insitutions you know of using psychological knowledge to promote social engineering on large scale through movies, social media and other outlets
No. Facebook, Instagram, both use psycholigical tricks to get you hooked, but everybody knows this. I don't think there's any social engineering attempts going on.

>how powerful are subliminal messages
Mostly inefficient.

>thoughts on hypnosis
A real thing, but not nearly as powerful or weird than people commonly believe.

>self authoring useful
If you don't explore your own thoughts regularly, this may be a good way to do some introspection.

>is keeping a journal useful
Same answer.

Well congratulations your answers check out on what the general consensus is among people in the know.

>On my end, I still wonder if the "repression" is due to a defense mechanism or whether the trauma itself prevented encoding
Yes, at the time I was studying it the great back and forth between Loftus & Burns and the skeptics was still going on. There was a loose association with it and things like PTSD where information is simply too painful to deal with so it is set aside for a later time. Opponents bring up the White Elephant Effect but what they don't account for is that people forget things all the time, including non-traumatic but no less important things which can spontaneously resurface years later with the appropriate trigger.

Fuck off you uninteresting retard lol

Why cant I keep a man? Each of my relationships seems to end around the 3 month mark. I end up completely rejected by them and they want nothing to do with me despite me doing everything I can to be the perfect girlfriend. I am tired of people telling me to move on or to love myself.

How do I get over the fear of possibly being bullied?

It stops me from doing a lot of things

>you are already getting somewhat worked up.
I am not getting worked up, user, I am only pointing out the hypocrisy. Pointing your shortcomings does not mean I am automatically angry.

>except when it comes to giving people an idea of what actual sex is like.
What is the difference?

Thanks for the answers btw

>Each of my relationships seems to end around the 3 month mark.
pump and dump
Because they are smart enough to get what kind of trash you are

I really don't have any problems in my life right now mentally
However I have this weird thing that motivates me forward
Its that I can become God and anyone can become God
That we are all Gods
But we have to work for it. I've started lifting and learning my father and mothers native languages (Spanish and Turkish)
I stopped getting unnecessarily angry at people. I do what I need to do.
I've never voiced this before and I'm not sure if I'm weird for thinking this
It cant be wrong if it motivates me forward to become better.
Sorry if this is a ramble and incoherent.

I've been diagnosed with almost every cluster-b under the sun and even though I'm doing really well for the most part I still feel lost or empty from time to time. Is that never going away or am I just missing something? Do I need a career? A relationship? More therapy? I don't want to start pills again so hopefully the answer isn't just more antidepressants.

The idea that you won't get raped anymore should help. Just call already!

Men who commit mass murders are almost always socially isolated; whether they are familiar with the concept of incels or not makes no difference. The common misogyny you see on this board stems from the same roots as the murderous rage that these shooters act on.

What happened in your life to make you crave validation and attention from lonely anonymous men on the internet?

3 months of living together isnt pump and dump you tard. Virgins do not interact.

>Depersonalization, I guess?
Sounds like it. Derealisation, depersonalisation.

You need to get better gradually. Physical exercise does help, it should become part of your normal life.

Good afternoon user, I just have a question about my anxiety-induced breathing problem. I've heard from others that being severely stressed/anxious leads to manual-breathing which I've been going through for a about a month, I know that tackling the stress is the easiest to get rid of it (which I'm trying, thankfully), but is there any ways to supplement the recovery process? Or just, well, dumb question, breath better?

>home
*joke
Whatever

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how was i a hypocrite? i merely pointed out that people, especially considering how vulnerable they are on this board, should take your words with a grain of salt since you call yourself an expert without providing evidence (a sound choice). you went on to go off on incels killing people based on what people say on here and how my words are lethal somehow. again, i agree that there is a toxic community on here but thats not the encompassing feel. its mostly poltards which i am sure you know about since you seem familiar with the site. i have tons of shortcomings to point out but you know nothing about me and i think its dangerous to do this kind of mass quasi-evaluation online and it reayll does feel unprofessional

If you failed to realise you were talking badly to people, there might be some issues you aren't aware of.

Hi

Why is autism aspergers such a turn off to women?

What strives you to go on user? I know that you mentioned a while ago that you've gotten multiple degrees. What pushes you? What drives you? I want to pursue your profession as well after my EE degree because I genuinely want to help people, I just feel that my drive might be lacking(?) and is seeking for your input.

How do you dissociate yourself from the 'present' to be able to give 'clear-er' advice without (or minimum) bias as possible to your clients?

>Behavioral-cognitive.
You are alright by me OP.

Now I have a bit of a question for you since your answers so far indicate you are the genuine article.

Recently I have noticed that my personality has shifted from being quiet and reserved to being more outspoken and shall we say lively. I have also been self-sabotaging myself and I don't have a clear understanding why other than frustration and a spiral downwards towards unfounded paranoia. I also notice that I will go through episodes of very intense fear followed by shorter more brief periods of numbness. I do not doubt that my mind is deteriorating but I do not think that even if I sought out help it would make a difference. 1. because of the costs involved and 2. because of the stigma associated with mental illness. What are your thoughts on this? I find that having outside perspectives helps me think.