How do you guys deal with the lonliness >Going to college >Average looking guy >Girls everywhere >Can talk one in class okay, but it never leads anywhere >Guys everywhere flirting with women >Guys with girlfriends, cheating on them with other girls >I can't even get one girl >These chicks will knowingly fuck a guy with a gf in his car Its not even just about girls >Everyday things don't get better >Things don't get much worse either >Its just another day where I find it harder and harder to remember when I was last happy, or if I ever was >So everyday is just a little worse than the one before it, but not enough to really complain >But still on a downward slope
I'm thinking about getting a motorcycle just to ride recklessly. Hopefully I day that way doing something cool, instead of this long march to old age
this shit too relatable. like a retard i thought once i went back i could find someone but nope. 3 weeks in and still nothing. i hate seeing couples it reminds me that im still a dumbass kissless virgin loser
Adam Perez
i deal with it by trying to look outside myself and laugh at how pathetic i am. just make fun of yourself as hard as you possibly can and try to laugh.
Hudson Taylor
It kills me every time I see it and it distracts me from my studies
>See guy flirting with girl >Crushed because I wonder what woul happen if I tired that
>Later on see different girl looking at campus map >HERES MY CHANCE >All I have to do is say "Hey what building are you looking for..." And start up a conversation >She starts walking in my direction >Looks me in the eyes >No words come out
going through the same thing, minus the average looking part. in all honesty i dont, i see no point in trying to deal with something that isnt exactly a big problem. i know im alone and how bad of a person i am, but it just really doesnt feel that way sometimes. im hoping i either get severe depression and kill myself or somehow make a recovery and become social and happy again because i feel these days being wasted not trying to accomplish anything. i guess my only advice is to not force yourself to think positively, cause then you will realize just how shitty things are
Noah Sanchez
>minus the average looking part Are you good looking. I know some good looking guys have issues too. Its usually because they don't let a good convo flow (This is usually when the girl is interested and all the guy has to do is be chill about it. I'm never in that situation)
I'm thinking about seeing an escort. I'm broke, but I can't keep letting these thoughts get in the way. I've got differential equations this semester ffs. How can I focus if all I can think about is how I'm going to flirt with the next girl I see?
I ignore it using work and physical pain with razors and a leather jumprope as a whip >Average looking at least, received a couple compliments so i know im not fooling myself >first two years of college were complete shit, loner except for some randoms i met >Joined a fraternity >Now vice president >Spent the entire summer working first real job, and hitting bars when possible >Came back with the belief i could make a change and find a girl >First party get overwhelmed and have a breakdown >Realize ill either never be happy or have to go to therapy if i want any chance of not offing myself >Been mulling it over inbetween spats of work >Best friend visited yesterday >Literally got laid after 20 minutes on bumble >Literally have no reason to wake up tomorrow Might kill myself tonight desu. I pushed myself a lot to beat the loneliness but now its gotten even worse as im exposed to the realities of my situation
That's pretty much the same I'm going through. I find it hard to make friends, there's this one girl I talk to and saves my ass because I would be completely lost without her. I'm not interested in anything other than friendship tho
Liam Nelson
Came here to post something similar. I'm glad I'm not in college, hell I think this is part of why I didn't go, aside from not wanting to be in debt.
I'm still so fucking tired of everything though. Tired of coming back to an empty place. Tired of always having an empty car except for me. Tired of seeing happy couples in public, especially my fucking age. Tired of seeing someone attractive and my fucking lizard brain noticing them instead of just not even noticing.
My whole fucking life has been like this, I sort of dated once in high school but that was like, the second last year and it didn't last. Fucked it up shutting down emotionally because I go through cycles of wanting a relationship and then just being completely fucking dead inside.
I missed out on so fucking much being a social outcast and there's no going back, and since I'm not in college or university or anything like that how the fuck am I even supposed to get started, if I even somehow got the confidence to try.
Not that I could, nobody pays interest to a short, below average looking and heavier set guy.
I'm just so fucking sick and tired of going outside because all around me are just constant fucking reminders how pathetic I am and how my life is wasting away.
Have to keep my mind busy too because I think there were some chances that I might have had if I had any balls to do it, though I can't fucking read people so who knows.
Fuck it's been like, 8 years since I had sex and it was my first time so even if something does happen I'm going to be a massive fucking disappointment anyways.
Wish I could just fucking turn off that part of my god damn brain permanently, or go back in time and never have dated someone in the first place so I don't have that knowledge in my head anyways, not that I can even really remember what it feels like to be happy.
Justin White
i have pretty bad acne which will mostly likely leave scarring, my haircut is awful, and i refuse to take care of myself because i see no purpose in it anymore. im not trying to fit in or impress anyone, so why try to look/feel good? also have social anxiety so id much rather choose being alone than having a convo. and id advise you not to get an escort, if you want a close relationship you arnt gonna get anything like that with an escort
life sucks man, im not gonna parade you with kind words and all. if you do plan on going out, try the night night method. its painless and easy if you do it right. enjoy whats left
Samuel Johnson
At least you have more of a chance than I do if you can get an invite or something to some party with a bunch of drunk people at it, I'm probably never going to get to be with someone who's in the sort of shape women are in college or university.
So sick of having nothing to live for though, don't even know why I keep going or why I'm not fucking suicidal either. I fail at everything I do, not just this, anything I put effort into, so why the fuck don't I feel shitty enough to do something about it after 25 fucking years of hell.
John Lee
imma be real bro, that sounds like it straight up sucks ass. hope things get better for u
Brandon Long
Same thing here. I've just accepted my life as a loner and have decided to lean into it instead of constantly being depressed about it. It also means I'll be richer and freer, so I'm okay with being single forever.
And really, there's nothing I can't solve that's caused by being single. I can hire an escort if I'm really that concerned about being a virgin, I can get a big, lovely dog if I want to cuddle, and I can enjoy my friendships if I need intellectual intimacy and social enjoyment.
Plus, now I don't worry about how I come off to others, because I'm not worried about scoring poon. Ironically it's made me more comfortable with strangers. I also don't have to force myself into an awkward situation in some vain attempt to make friends. I've always enjoyed my own company so why interject myself into a situation I hate? I'm not socially autistic, I don't need the practice, so what's the point?
Anyways, that's how I'm dealing with it. I still suffer from the curse of being a male, as I have developed a mild, unwanted crush already, but I'm getting over it. I have to steel myself against my own nature.
But whether you take my route or another, I wish you well. It's tough out there.
Josiah Robinson
I don't really get lonely. The longer I can go without interacting with another person the better. By personal record was almost 4 weeks without a conversation or making eye contact with another person. Glad I'm not a normie like OP and need other people to validate my existence.
Adrian Wilson
Ay brother, happy to see there's someone else who knows how to enjoy their own company. It's really freeing, isn't it? It's like the world loses its iron grip on you. Or at least that's how it is for me.
Camden Reyes
I work up with night terrors about dying alone and can't get back to sleep. My muscles ache and my heart burns. That's how I'm dealing with it.
I figured it out when I was still in middle school. Realized I didn't actually want a relationship and just wanted to be left alone. There's so many cool things in the world to experience, no idea how people are bored.
Jeremiah Mitchell
>average looking guy You can always get a 6 or 7 Asian girl on tinder/bumble if you wanted that
Jace Taylor
ok, you know what youre gonna do? youre gonna go ahead and delet this right fucking now
