>send him an email saying he doesn't have any power over me
kek, meanwhile you're saying your life is in shambles because of it. Dude you have some problems. Firstly you should have contacted the police the very next day after the rape. It's probably too late to take legal action now but you could contact a lawyer and discuss it with them. One potential would be to email the guy about it and try to bait him into admitting that he drugged and raped you. For example, say that you enjoyed it and want to do it again or something. "hey user remeber that time you drugged and raped me? i kind of have a kink for that, could we talk about it" you get the idea. I have no idea if that would work or not, but it's worthwhile to contact a lawyer and try to fuck that dude in the ass (with the law). Seriously, you're a fucking man, avenge yourself, preferably in a way that doesn't get you in trouble.
it was a world history class and we were learning about dinosaurs in the precambrian era or whatever. A hoe in the class raised her hand and said (and i quoth)
"why are we learning about this, it happened like 500 years ago. it's so pointless"