Is anyone else going to kill themselves if things don't turn around by 30?
I have eight years. I am trying to facemax, bodymax, socialskillmax and wealthmax. I will kill myself in 8 years if I don't make it. My progress has been significant relative to my starting point but I still have a long way to go.
just beware that your mind will change as the years go by and life really isn't long the older you get the more it goes blazing by and the years become like minutes so just hang in there kid you are doing great!
me but by 25
People always tell me im too hard on myself but I just feel stressed out from the constant pressures of society wanting me to be proficient in a hundred things in a thousand different ways.
I want to enjoy my life but I cant seem to not feel a sense ofmajor urgency
haha no im 28 soon 29, i try but failed at everything now im here and don't really care anymore.
the way things are going in the world something that seems important right now might be revealed to be meaningless tomorrow so I wouldn't put any arbitrary number on things
You have a loser normie mentality. You will kill yourself and mother nature will be pleased.
People have been saying that for decades and probably centuries though. I don't want to end up as a middle aged mediocre man with no significant accomplishments
Explain the chad winner mentality then. What should I be doing and thinking differently?
>Explain the chad winner mentality then
Chad doesn't try to be chad. He is Chad. In other words, he lives by the words 'bee yourself'. No matter how hard an autist tries to be Chad, he will be always be an autist and thus fails laughably. So until you to be yourself and yourself being a chad, you will be autist.
So chad doesn't work hard? He is just born with a trust fund and some sort of abnormality that gives him excellent skills in public speaking and gives him muscles with low bodyfat?
I'm not an autist either I'm about average or slightly to moderately above average in nearly every area but I want to become proficient
well Dostoevsky was old as hell when he wrote Crime and Punishment
What you think happiness is, is actually just chemicals in your brain, and if you keep chasing them you will never be happy. You could get a mansion right now, you would be happy for a couple of years and then feel exactly as you feel today.
If you are ugly and autistic you will never improve, those things are natural and you can do little to change them and even if you were able you would be living an empty life.
An ugly man with a girlfriend is much happier than a chad since you will always have on the back of your mind that she doesnt really care about you as a person.
If being a basic mammal, consuming and fucking is what you think is going to make you happy then you are in for chansing the dragon until you die.
>So chad doesn't work hard?
He does work hard, but it's natural to him. Chad is Chad because he is Chad, user.
I don't get it. What are you suggesting as an alternative to how I structure my life and goals? I'm not ugly or autistic.
How about people who became successful later in life after dealing with sexual abuse as a child or drug addiction or other serious trauma. Were they chad or losers at birth?
Have you ever considered killing yourself instead of trying to drag down everyone else with you, you pathetic NEET incel?
If you are not a slave then you are surely a neet incel
They got you good
Tell me the alternative way to structure and live your life. You are being too vague.
>Tell me the alternative way to structure and live your life.
too late
>Were they chad or losers at birth?
Depends on if they are chad.
No. I'm perfectly happy being me in my current situation. Sure a gf would be nice but honestly I'm having fun as a manchild.
Life's too short to care about being somebody else.
I don't think I will wait 30
Are you in university?
Go to some cheap third world country to get a degree, or a masters degree, and pick up a language or two as well. Then go back, join the army, buy some land on one of those tiny islands on the coast and spend what time you get on leave building yourself a house and growing a garden/pot. By the time you're thirty you'll be ready to start a family, and by the time you're forty you'll be a pretty cool dude.
That's my plan at least.
University is cheap if not free here.
A degree from an accredited North American university is worth way more than a third world one, why would I EVER do this?
Funny because autists like you throwing the word incel around and other similar """insults""" are usually insecure submissive little shits
University is cheap in the third world too, as are living standards in general. You'd get to eat out slightly more often, fuck more women, and (most importantly), learn a new language.
You can spend the next four years being a sadsack at McGill and come out of it exactly like you went in, or you can spend the next four years learning Russian and Arabic at Al-Farabi Kazakh National University and motorcycle across Mongolia on your savings.
Yeah but degrees from there are also worth shit.
isn't there some reason why rich people from third world countries sent their children to study in Canada and the US? Why could that possibly be?
>your savings
Do you believe I have hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars to live in Vietnam or Thailand as a playboy? Even better do you think I'm a billionaire to have a good life in Dubai or something?
Me but i'm not trying whatsoever
I mean its good to set yourself goals but be realistic about it - say "do by 30 or kms" is not productive. Set small steps and follow those.
And even if you fail, so what? If you enjoyed the journey and enjoy being yourself, nothing else matters much.
t. 29yr virgin
no, say whatever but i have the “you only have 1 life” mentality
you are late for the show. it was a thing two generations ago.
I think a lot about it. It's not even so much a concern about whether or not I'll have achieved what I wanted to, it's more that I'm not sure that there's anything out there for me past ~30. It's unlikely I'll have a wife or family. I find little fulfillment in my work, though nor do I find it particularly soul-crushing. The friends I do have will likely have drifted further away, either geographically or owing to their having started families. What does life at 35 have to offer me, an empty but tolerable job and drunken weekend shitposting? I have plenty of hobbies, sure, but those furnish a life rather than constitute one.
Usually so those kids have their foot in the door to immigrate later. You have a citizenship, so that's not really a problem.
>hundreds of thousands of dollars
You have to pay for school either way. Some of these universities charge like 2,000-4,000$ yearly tuition and the cost of living is miniscule. Unless you live in Quebec you're going to be paying more than that to go to school in Canada.
You clearly don't like your life, I'm giving you a suggestion on how you could make it somewhat more interesting, and learn some useful skills as well. You seem like you want to change your life, but you have to be willing to actually do something to change it.
Regardless, the military is always a decent option. They'll put you through uni, give you a steady job with benefits, and keep you physically fit. You'll come out of it with plenty of contacts at well, and girls like army guys.
Do you have a plan right now on how to improve your life? Other than setting deadlines for suicide, I mean.
Look I just don't see it as a smart idea. Canada is a fine country to start a business or earn money and i live in arguably the best province for it.
If I was to go to university I would study in business or engineering, why would some shitty country I cant speak the language of be of any use here?
I of course have a plan, I am working a mediocre job while saving as much as possible. (I have maxed out my registered accounts and am now investing in a taxable account). Going to the gym regularly, working on a few side projects and ideas with unremarkable results. I do intend to go to university soon but I've been delaying it. The forces seem decent and they've certainly ramped up their recruiting efforts but I'm unsure of what trades would really have decent carryover or would even be worth it to bother with over focusing on getting a summer internship.
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