How are people okay with themselves?

>How are people happy when they don't have someone else?
they're not

Good advice

>Why should i have self esteem?
Because it's your life. If you hate it so much and see no redemption, why don't you just lay down and die like the rest of your family? Seems like you feel a sudden rush of actual responsibility by everyone else in your family dying like dogs. You have bigger problems than women, buddy.

Also, there's a much, much better reason why you'll never be promoted than "I don't have a wife and kids". You're a snivelling bitch who can't do anything for himself. You shouldn't have kids because they would grow up with a weak, pathetic, failure of a father. Why do you act surprised your last relationships were all disasters with manipulative, cheating women, who used you? Because you're pathetic. No one wants to be around someone who constantly feels the need to be hypervalidated against everyone else.

Actual piece of advice: Fuck a man. Just go suck one of your buddies off. Forget all that nonsense about children or marriage or whatever else it was you're crying about. Just go make yourself useful to someone.

You probably do nogi. Switch to the gi, it's way richer and interesting, and will make you forget you don't have a GF.
That works for me : when I feel frustrated about my woman life I dive even more in BJJ, and forget about my problems

>Seems like you feel a sudden rush of actual responsibility by everyone else in your family dying like dogs.

First off , if you were near me i'd punch you because that's a cunt thing to say.

Second, this is the best advice ive read all thread.

I actually do gi only. It helps because i did judo for many years, im a noob in bjj.

This nigga speaks truth.

I don't need someone else to be happy. When you're already happy, people flock towards you. They want some of that reflected positive energy.

>empathy is equivalent to competence as a doctor