How bad am I and how can I make it better?
>25
>Haven't worked in 2 years
>No gf
>Living with parents
>Anxiety to even leave my house
>Overweight
>Got a useless Degree
>7500+ Hours in Tf2
How bad am I and how can I make it better?
Matthew Watson
Jaxon Murphy
I'd do opposite of all those negatives, if I were you. Except the aging part, you're hopeless there
Asher Young
>7500+ Hours in Tf2
There was hope for you, but this seals yoir fate.
Zachary Watson
>7500+ Hours in Tf2
Pics or it didn't happen
Aaron Rodriguez
>7500+ Hours in Tf2
fuck
Dylan Diaz
Yeah, that's pretty bad. But theres hope.
First, get a job. it's going to be hard because of anxiety, but it's a hurdle you need to get over. If you can get a job stocking, or in some position that isn't heavy on customer interaction, than you might be better off.
Next, decide whether or not you want to go back to school. Which, you don't really need to. A fair amount of people go into fields entirely separate from what they initially studied, so you aren't up a creek there.
Depending on how overweight you are, you're going to see different levels of impediment. If you're overweight but not obese, than just getting out there and working day to day, with some meal slimming and no snacking, will shed the pounds barring any other variables. If you are morbidly obese and it affects your ability to function, then I would look into working from home, or other special care until you're down to a better weight.
Breaking a gaming addiction is hard, especially when anxiety and adversity can make the real world so unappetizing. Usually, I use this to motivate me.
When I eventually bite the bullet, i dont want my kids to see my inventory worth on my headstone. I dont want to them to have to read "World Fifth Siege of Orgrimmar Clear", or "Top 500 Seasons 1-5". When the culmination of my achievements is laid before my descendants, I want to be something real, something meaningful.
Jace Howard
- Get a job
- Save money
- Change your diet
- start exercising
- Read books/learn new skills
- STOP playing video games
You have basically identified everything that is going wrong in your life which means you're at least partially self aware, now you have to own it and do something about it.
Unless you're super fucking lazy, in which case you're doomed and your unhappiness is a natural extension of your behavior which will keep you on the path you're on.
Bentley Taylor
>Get a job
>Try dating if you haven't already
>Move out when you can afford to
>Get pro help for your anxiety if you aren't already
>Exercise/sort your diet
>Stop playing TF2
What's your degree in?
Justin Nguyen
Ok, so I might be a bit off of the 7,500+
Thanks for feedback dude, I did have a job as a stocker for a few years during college but fucked up my back and stopped.
Jason Green
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